So with the first long-distance love...YES, I read the story on Lindland and it sounds so romantic omg! my venus in Sagittarius had a flashback moment.As I look into the synastry chart, one of the things I notice is that your mars and his are sextile! I looooove when mars are in a nice aspect to the other guy's mars. Sexual compatibility is suuuuuper likely, in my experience. lol.
Venus trine Venus I love venus aspects to one another because it shows common interests between two people in love.
He has Mars Conjunct Saturn in Scorpio so this could be why you two are attracted to one another since your Mars is in Capricorn ruler of Saturn. There is a common mars theme in similarity here.
I've dated a mars opposite Saturn guy and he had HUGE problems with authority because he had anger problems which led to addiction (Saturn in Pisces in the 8th). Don't know if yours is the same way with the conjunction in scorpio? I know the aspect is not the same but I wonder if mars conjunct Saturn Scorpio men also dealt with issues on learning how to control one's anger and aggression. Hot-tempered, manipulative, or passive-aggressiveness but if the person is mentally healthy I would say they are GREAT protectors of their loved ones with MARS/SATURN aspect.
Your Moon squares his Sun in Aquarius that's an attractive aspect as well. Your moon is also conjunct his Juno as well as his Juno conjunct your fifth house cusp.
Mercury opposing your sun tells me that you two communicated a lot and at first it felt very electric however I wanna say that overtime the tension could've displayed itself over time.
His moon is also conjunct your SUN/MOON MP not sure if it's exact but I can see why this connection was super strong especially since his. moon overlayed your seventh house. How do you feel his Moon in Cancer in your seventh? I wanna say that this aspect made you connect with your cancer seventh house personality especially since the moon which is the natural ruler of cancer is prominently sitting in your seventh and sun/moon MP. I can see why you felt strong with this overlay and aspect. Usually, when someone puts their planet in my seventh, the personality of the seventh house sign comes out more out of me.
I can see why it was LDR though because the composite MARS/URANUS in SAG right on the MC is square your MC. I have been in LDR's before and URANUS is always square the ASC in my experience. VENUS CONJUNCT SATURN in Scorpio is a true bond right there. It feels stuck to be with the person but that square to Juno kind of sucks just being honest... I hate to see composite Juno in the 12th house square venus/saturn. I personally did not have a good experience with this myself.
I love the Sun conjunct north node you have and the VENUS conjunct the South node is magnificent here. It feels familiar and electric with the person.
Mercury opposite plutos I can totally see how your family attempted to blackmail because the 4th ruler which is home/family is ruled by Mercury/Gemini.
Moon conjunct Chiron I had a friend who had this with her boyfriend but it was in Leo. She said she felt really insecure in the relationship and her bf never made her feel confident about herself.
Composite vertex on the DESC that's a great one too!! I see so many aspects I can go on and on and on.
Tell me your thoughts!!