I have, natally:Sun square Saturn (4 degrees)
Moon trine Saturn (1 degree)
Venus trine Saturn (very weak)
Mars square Saturn (8 degrees)
ASC square Saturn (2 degrees)
BUT I have a stellium in Scorpio conjunct Jupiter in Scorpio so I still remain fairly optimistic. Ha.
Anywho, back to the topic.
All my life I have attracted HARD saturian relationships and I can almost bet you it has to do with the truama I experienced with my dad. We have major issues in our relationship and I don’t think they will ever be resolved (Sun square Saturn in our composite) so I continuously attract partners who represent HIM in some way.
My first relationship ever was on and off for 7 years and I’m only 24!
We had Saturn square Sun, Moon, mercury, and Venus in composite. In synastry, his Saturn squared my Mercury, Venus, and mars.
Synastrically, speaking, there has almost always been Venus-Saturn in my most important relationships. Either a DW Venus-Saturn trine/square or just Venus square Saturn with either me or the other being Saturn.
My current relationship has
Mercury- Saturn DW (quincunx/ trine)
Venus-Saturn DW (trine/square).
Mars- Saturn DW (square/ opposition)
Jupiter trine Saturn (11 seconds from exact).
In composite we have:
ASC conjunct Saturn
Moon quincunx Saturn
Jupiter trine Saturn
Astrology has really helped me become aware of these issues, but I have yet to figure out how to solve them in a positive way. I want to so very badly.
All of my relationships end up becoming routine, lifeless, and argumentative to say the least although they start out with positive intentions (sometimes from both sides).
Saturn isn’t ‘bad’. Even with all of the hell it has brought into my life.
We all need a Saturn somewhere to keep us in check and on track with our lives so I get it and appreciate Saturn, but I do not understand the KARMA behind it.
Venus-Saturn in synastry is supposed to be doom and gloom and I can see how someone would feel that way, but any MATURE relationship would feel a dose of Venus-Saturn even they don’t necessarily have the aspect in synastry.
All REAL relationships require a certain level of sobriety.
Maybe Saturn just doesn’t work for people who live life feely or on edge. Saturn is for traditional types.
That’s just might take on it.
I wish I understood what I’m supposed to be learning.
That is the key.