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T O P I C R E V I E WSharkacr1Hello everyone!I would love to hear what you think of this synastry with my crush of 2 years and a friend who I see quite a bit, and hang out on our own without others as well. The whole time I wanted him bad and thought I felt some special vibes but nothing real, actually quite a bit of turning me away, it seemed like. Until this year when we had two encounters with clothes dropping, and talked about how we want each other but are afraid to risk the friendship, that fear mainly comes from him because he runs from relationships in his life. And he says he has to be very careful. Meaning I guess not go over too deep. He's the active runner of commitment phones. I'm the passive one. I'm kinda convinced I've been into trying to get him for this long because in a twisted way I enjoy the longing and fantasizing.What do you think? Could it have a future synastry -wise?To me the attraction is crazy strong and I can’t stop thinking about him. And we are slightly involved but he’s afraid and I’m kind of as well now that’s been turning into reality more.I just really wanna know if this could function. I want it so bad but knowing about the Lilith power of trying to resist and the fear, I wonder. Thank you!!RandallWelcome!StoneMoonDo you want to post the charts? We can't do much without them, but you will get more help if you do post them.RandallBump!Sharkacr1I don't know how to post the charts.I could list it all if that helps.Sharkacr1My chart:Ascendant in Scorpio in ISun in aquarius in IIIMoon in Virgo in midheaven Mercury in aquarius in IIIVenus in Aries in VMars in Aries in VJupiter in aquarius in IIISaturn in Scorpio IN iUranus in Sagittarius in IINeptune in Capricorn in IIPluto in Scorpio in XIILilith in Aries in VNorth node in taurus in VIICRUSHascendant in Sag in ISun in Aries in IVMoon in Capricorn in I ascMercury in Aries in IIIVenus in Aries in IIIMars in Taurus in VJupiter in aquarius in IISaturn in Scorpio in XIUranus in Sagittarius in XIINeptune in Capricorn in I ascPluto in Scorpio in midheaven Lilith in Aries in IVNorth node in taurus in VimplosionsAny connection that involves Lilith is gonna require a LOT of freedom between two people. Not just there, but also having a really comfortable friendship with your OWN sense of freedom. If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom.However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom.Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same.-RSharkacr1Thank you so much for your response!I was telling him that he will have to want to make it work.I kinda like the pull-push because I like to be a little surprising, but I don't want it to be like that forever.I'm very independent myself, and if anyone will describe me, they will say that I'm after my best life at all times. I'm an avid powder chaser, and I have a lot of friends, but I do things a lot on my own as well, I like to get the full choice a lot and you sometimes can't plan with others to get it.With him, I'm dreaming we could live a life as life partners, but I wonder if the timing is right. Maybe he will mature some. But it's a little hard to be on a standby too. Also it makes it hard to be in other relationships, even if I'm fully into it, I still have him in my dreams and I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings or waste their time.Sharkacr1We are both 38, btw.And I will learn how to post the charts.Sharkacr1Thank you so much that you took time to advise me! I really appreciate it. quote:Originally posted by implosions:Any connection that involves Lilith is gonna require a LOT of freedom between two people. Not just there, but also having a really comfortable friendship with your OWN sense of freedom. If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom.However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom.Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same.-RSharkacr1I'm definitely wanting to provide freedom. My big belief is to let who you love, use their wings and wonder and grow alone, and return to who accepts them for their true self. Which I find to be my best characteristic and I want someone who would appreciate it. In my past relationship I wasn't getting the freedom I need, and my will to give freedom wasn't appreciated. I'm looking for that.I'm hoping that it's a good sign we have been friends. And a good sign we don't want it to be ruined. But I can definitely see the bad in considering it could get ruined, we should BOTH know, we wouldn't let it.Sharkacr1https://photos.app.goo.gl/oxbfPYQNXRh47UtHAMy chartSharkacr1https://photos.app.goo.gl/udCLVcM6TTrV58hh7Crush's chart
What do you think? Could it have a future synastry -wise?To me the attraction is crazy strong and I can’t stop thinking about him. And we are slightly involved but he’s afraid and I’m kind of as well now that’s been turning into reality more.I just really wanna know if this could function. I want it so bad but knowing about the Lilith power of trying to resist and the fear, I wonder. Thank you!!
CRUSHascendant in Sag in ISun in Aries in IVMoon in Capricorn in I ascMercury in Aries in IIIVenus in Aries in IIIMars in Taurus in VJupiter in aquarius in IISaturn in Scorpio in XIUranus in Sagittarius in XIINeptune in Capricorn in I ascPluto in Scorpio in midheaven Lilith in Aries in IVNorth node in taurus in V
If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom.
However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom.
Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same.
-R
I was telling him that he will have to want to make it work.I kinda like the pull-push because I like to be a little surprising, but I don't want it to be like that forever.
I'm very independent myself, and if anyone will describe me, they will say that I'm after my best life at all times. I'm an avid powder chaser, and I have a lot of friends, but I do things a lot on my own as well, I like to get the full choice a lot and you sometimes can't plan with others to get it.
With him, I'm dreaming we could live a life as life partners, but I wonder if the timing is right. Maybe he will mature some. But it's a little hard to be on a standby too. Also it makes it hard to be in other relationships, even if I'm fully into it, I still have him in my dreams and I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings or waste their time.
And I will learn how to post the charts.
quote:Originally posted by implosions:Any connection that involves Lilith is gonna require a LOT of freedom between two people. Not just there, but also having a really comfortable friendship with your OWN sense of freedom. If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom.However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom.Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same.-R
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