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T O P I C R E V I E WpeonypipI'm really not sure how to word this, but are there aspects that indicate being only partially attracted to someone? For example if person A is person B's type in every way, but person A isn't person B's physical type? My best friend has had a really tough time dating. She lost a lot of weight, so she has quite a bit of loose skin and is rather "melted and droopy" (her words, not mine). She's been strung along twice now. The biggest one ended after an entire year after a conversation where he admitted in so many words that he forces himself to be attracted to her body because he's attracted to her in every other way. I hope that explains what I mean. Are there any aspects that indicate that kind of conundrum? I feel really out of my depth here, and I don't want to leave her hanging in the future. Either synastry or composite, just whatever you can think of. Thank you so much, I really appreciate any guidance!MoonMysticI'm feeling mutable energies could do this. Gemini and Pisces very much are indicative of "less affixed" where attraction might lean. Jmo. I'd say their rulers and or any personal planet, or moon in them. Cancer, scorpio, Sagittarius (more than not though it's a fixed sign) Also mercury, uranus influenced harshly by neptune or vice versa. Just a guess. Idk what professional one's may say. I just feel neptune can sell dreams and obviously dissuade someome against something "so right" too. Mercury as a trickster, in the right dynamic with neptune could cause delusions of grandeur or lack, as in someone isn't "perfect enough". Possibly venus may under some instances have superficial spin, where nobody's natural defects are exceptable. Now I understand it's your friend but the issue truly is in the end of the man whom overlooked her based on superficial reasons. This could be his own feelings of self worth or he might care too much "what would *they think *". This is a people pleaser behavior and it generally leaves the native looking for what might be unrealistic for intentions beyond their *own* interest. Aspects that might have transited his chart may have been uranus, neptune, Saturn a definite possibility. Cold, sterile in some cases. A harsh jupiter transit even the moon. I'd need to study one or both charts to understand the full picture. Mercury with Virgo tendency to be critical too. I have known mutable Sun people whom had huge hearts but their need to please friends, family, work associates etc. had them question their own hearts and abilities to love, deeply. Beyond superficial. peonypip quote:Originally posted by MoonMystic:I'm feeling mutable energies could do this. Gemini and Pisces very much are indicative of "less affixed" where attraction might lean. Jmo. I'd say their rulers and or any personal planet, or moon in them. Cancer, scorpio, Sagittarius (more than not though it's a fixed sign) Also mercury, uranus influenced harshly by neptune or vice versa. Just a guess. Idk what professional one's may say. I just feel neptune can sell dreams and obviously dissuade someome against something "so right" too. Mercury as a trickster, in the right dynamic with neptune could cause delusions of grandeur or lack, as in someone isn't "perfect enough". Possibly venus may under some instances have superficial spin, where nobody's natural defects are exceptable. Now I understand it's your friend but the issue truly is in the end of the man whom overlooked her based on superficial reasons. This could be his own feelings of self worth or he might care too much "what would *they think *". This is a people pleaser behavior and it generally leaves the native looking for what might be unrealistic for intentions beyond their *own* interest. Aspects that might have transited his chart may have been uranus, neptune, Saturn a definite possibility. Cold, sterile in some cases. A harsh jupiter transit even the moon. I'd need to study one or both charts to understand the full picture. Mercury with Virgo tendency to be critical too. I have known mutable Sun people whom had huge hearts but their need to please friends, family, work associates etc. had them question their own hearts and abilities to love, deeply. Beyond superficial. Thank you so much for such a detailed answer, I really appreciate it and will keep your guidance in mind! I'm going to try to get his birth information again and see what's what. MoonMystic You're welcome. Maybe once you have his details other's too can offer their insight. We all are varied in understanding and views.Pulling many together usually brings a lot of clarity. vansioto tighten loose/excess skin, your friend should look into fasting (autophagy). this effect takes time but it is possible to correct93novSounds like quincunxes and semi-squares with Venus/ mars/ pluto.Venus semi-square mars in synastry for example. Both would be attracted.. but the feeling has to be "triggered" and/ or it comes and goes.. instead of being a steady flow..quincuxes would be like a repulsive attraction.. you don't quite get "it".. but you can't stop looking at it either.I would add all minor aspects actually lol. Applying small orbs only of course. peonypip quote:Originally posted by vansio:to tighten loose/excess skin, your friend should look into fasting (autophagy). this effect takes time but it is possible to correctI appreciate the well-meaning advice, but that's actually not proven by any large number of studies. It's theorized that autophagy can help prevent loose skin, but not remove it. She went from 400+ down to 140. Her only option is surgery. peonypip quote:Originally posted by 93nov:Sounds like quincunxes and semi-squares with Venus/ mars/ pluto.Venus semi-square mars in synastry for example. Both would be attracted.. but the feeling has to be "triggered" and/ or it comes and goes.. instead of being a steady flow..quincuxes would be like a repulsive attraction.. you don't quite get "it".. but you can't stop looking at it either.I would add all minor aspects actually lol. Applying small orbs only of course. Thank you! I will keep that in mind, it makes a lot of sense.
My best friend has had a really tough time dating. She lost a lot of weight, so she has quite a bit of loose skin and is rather "melted and droopy" (her words, not mine). She's been strung along twice now. The biggest one ended after an entire year after a conversation where he admitted in so many words that he forces himself to be attracted to her body because he's attracted to her in every other way.
I hope that explains what I mean. Are there any aspects that indicate that kind of conundrum? I feel really out of my depth here, and I don't want to leave her hanging in the future. Either synastry or composite, just whatever you can think of. Thank you so much, I really appreciate any guidance!
Also mercury, uranus influenced harshly by neptune or vice versa. Just a guess. Idk what professional one's may say. I just feel neptune can sell dreams and obviously dissuade someome against something "so right" too. Mercury as a trickster, in the right dynamic with neptune could cause delusions of grandeur or lack, as in someone isn't "perfect enough". Possibly venus may under some instances have superficial spin, where nobody's natural defects are exceptable. Now I understand it's your friend but the issue truly is in the end of the man whom overlooked her based on superficial reasons. This could be his own feelings of self worth or he might care too much "what would *they think *". This is a people pleaser behavior and it generally leaves the native looking for what might be unrealistic for intentions beyond their *own* interest.
Aspects that might have transited his chart may have been uranus, neptune, Saturn a definite possibility. Cold, sterile in some cases. A harsh jupiter transit even the moon. I'd need to study one or both charts to understand the full picture. Mercury with Virgo tendency to be critical too.
I have known mutable Sun people whom had huge hearts but their need to please friends, family, work associates etc. had them question their own hearts and abilities to love, deeply. Beyond superficial.
quote:Originally posted by MoonMystic:I'm feeling mutable energies could do this. Gemini and Pisces very much are indicative of "less affixed" where attraction might lean. Jmo. I'd say their rulers and or any personal planet, or moon in them. Cancer, scorpio, Sagittarius (more than not though it's a fixed sign) Also mercury, uranus influenced harshly by neptune or vice versa. Just a guess. Idk what professional one's may say. I just feel neptune can sell dreams and obviously dissuade someome against something "so right" too. Mercury as a trickster, in the right dynamic with neptune could cause delusions of grandeur or lack, as in someone isn't "perfect enough". Possibly venus may under some instances have superficial spin, where nobody's natural defects are exceptable. Now I understand it's your friend but the issue truly is in the end of the man whom overlooked her based on superficial reasons. This could be his own feelings of self worth or he might care too much "what would *they think *". This is a people pleaser behavior and it generally leaves the native looking for what might be unrealistic for intentions beyond their *own* interest. Aspects that might have transited his chart may have been uranus, neptune, Saturn a definite possibility. Cold, sterile in some cases. A harsh jupiter transit even the moon. I'd need to study one or both charts to understand the full picture. Mercury with Virgo tendency to be critical too. I have known mutable Sun people whom had huge hearts but their need to please friends, family, work associates etc. had them question their own hearts and abilities to love, deeply. Beyond superficial.
Thank you so much for such a detailed answer, I really appreciate it and will keep your guidance in mind! I'm going to try to get his birth information again and see what's what.
Venus semi-square mars in synastry for example. Both would be attracted.. but the feeling has to be "triggered" and/ or it comes and goes.. instead of being a steady flow..
quincuxes would be like a repulsive attraction.. you don't quite get "it".. but you can't stop looking at it either.
I would add all minor aspects actually lol. Applying small orbs only of course.
quote:Originally posted by vansio:to tighten loose/excess skin, your friend should look into fasting (autophagy). this effect takes time but it is possible to correct
I appreciate the well-meaning advice, but that's actually not proven by any large number of studies. It's theorized that autophagy can help prevent loose skin, but not remove it. She went from 400+ down to 140. Her only option is surgery.
quote:Originally posted by 93nov:Sounds like quincunxes and semi-squares with Venus/ mars/ pluto.Venus semi-square mars in synastry for example. Both would be attracted.. but the feeling has to be "triggered" and/ or it comes and goes.. instead of being a steady flow..quincuxes would be like a repulsive attraction.. you don't quite get "it".. but you can't stop looking at it either.I would add all minor aspects actually lol. Applying small orbs only of course.
Thank you! I will keep that in mind, it makes a lot of sense.
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