Thanks for your understanding lovely. It is rich content isn't it Apologies in advance.. I tend to look at things from a deficit position and build on improvement strategies. I think it’s my MC Virgo Pluto. I am not meaning to sound negative!
And also please keep in mind I'm not very good at this
There is of course more - and more to follow. But I couldn’t keep it waiting any longer. I hope I haven’t repeated myself! It’s been a long time StoneMoon!
Ok.. here goes first bits ....
He is similar to you with the Moon/Sun opp - but: he is Uranian and you are Plutonian (Moon aspects); a question ensues in astrology if these two ever understand each other (I often find myself wondering when I encounter Pluto-types as an Uranian).
So his Uranus square to Moon can make him edgy emotionally.. afraid of intimacy, or closeness, as conditioned through care-giver rapport (Moon).
The Moon opposite the Sun deems a wavering between these two identity lights: on one hand he can be cold and authoritarian, and perhaps even border on cruel (Sun conjunct Saturn).
On the other, emotionally detached and relatively dismissive of emotions entirely (Moon square Uranus).
He likes to get on with his projects (Saturn/Sun conjunct; Sun trine Jupiter). And he would like an equal in this respect: someone who is also enterprising and ambitious (Jupiter/Juno), or/and an authoritarian in their field denoting a level of social status (trine Saturn/Sun). He would be attracted to power-focused, tough and resilient (square Pluto) individuals, as this is someone he would respect. Or/and who is in some manner "intense" when it comes to relating, and this is probably a feature he enjoys in you (with your Moon square Pluto).
He also expects/hopes them to be more communicative, extroverted, and sociable (Venus/Gemini) than his own reserved self (Sun/Sat square Pluto). And perhaps even take the limelight socially, and sometimes something they can do together to a degree (trine Mars/Leo which is trine Neptune denoting glamour).
With your Sun/Moon opposition (in the same signs (!) ) your Moon is square the other big bully, Pluto (not Uranus as is with him). When it comes to emotions and intimacy, there maybe a push-pull between you (which has and will continue to go on for eternity anyhow with men and women): you want closeness and depth (Pluto); he wants to pull away and be light-hearted and global-focused (Uranus). He may detach and points of contention could be that: you make too big a-deal of things and want too much closeness, and you find him shallow (you may not say it) and dismissive; there’s no depth with him.
Your Moons on each others within a degree brings intensity! At first it brings rapport and sympathy. And over time, you will feel each other quite well - you will feel the other’s aspects to their Moon. These aspects will either bring ease or challenge. Sometimes challenge can mean disappointment or frustration, after the initial surface sympathy reveals more complexity.
Examples:
You may have hoped that the conjunction (the feel of it I mean, like if you weren’t an astrologer) for someone who you can go the depths with. As is the template of your Moon. What you have instead though is a detached Uranian (as per noted above).
Depending on the level of maturity, age, social context (and so much more) this diversion from hopes and expectations may be acceptable and appreciated. Or it could bring a bitter pill of emotional disappointment, and practical disharmony as you reveal over time that you are innately on different pages.
I will write more soon!
This time I have taken to the process by analysing the natals. While I love synastry charts; they are lovely and simple, I am edging to push myself to get a deeper and broader assessment of relationship astrology.
As I said, there is so much more..
After looking more at the natal planets, I would like to do an appraisal of how each person relieves “stress points” in each other’s charts (the squares etc), like we have discussed before. I think that when this can happen it keeps people together in need and deep appreciation: it’s a healing element that keeps people in a reciprocal exchange.
I would then like to look at the composites. As I have improved my appreciation of these