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Emsie | Firstly, I have a question about tarot in general. Is it possible that instead of getting answers to a certain question, the cards advise something else? So, I made a few readings about my love life recently and I found 2 similar ones where I asked about the period from the 2nd half of April to the middle of May. Now I pulled: Strength - 8 of Pentacles - Death The other one was: 4 of Pentacles - 3 of Pentacles - 10 of Swords And the summary card was Strength. I feel this isn't really about my love life, but the cards want to warn me to rather take care of 'business' first and then I can go out and play later.
Could you give me some more insights about this one? I'm really curious if there are other opinions! |
EmpressMendez | It's possible, but I believe it doesn't switch topics like that. It's possible to get Coins in a love related spread that have nothing to do with money, or business. That's a common thing most Tarot readers do. They have this fixed belief that coins always equal money..it drives me bonkers when I pay for a reading & since I usually get coins, they always pull this crap :/. Every card can be related to the topic at hand. The intent is to focus on that only. What I mean by being possible is if you ask how a man feels about you & you get Hierophant Empress and 3 of Cups for example. This doesn't mean he wants to marry you and have kids with you, it means he is married and has a wife (maybe even kids). BUT this strongly depends on how you frame the question at times. (If you ask: What do I need to know about soandso's feelings for me and you get these cards, then you need to know that he has a wife/gf and is married/in long term relationship, but finds you attractive) Did you have anyone in mind when you asked this question? A co-worker you were angry with or vice versa? |
littlecloud | I once asked what would happen between me and a guy by the end of the month and got Hermit- lover- 3 of cups It looked nice but I had this nagging feeling about it. The 3 of cups turned out to be his ex reentering the picture. (She's permanently out now). |
littlecloud | From the strength,8 cups, and death, in a general love reading. You have hard times coming up. You have the courage, will, and perserverence to overcome it. Perhaps there is something you need to end to be able to grow and move onto the next phase in your life. The preceding cards to death indicate that you have the ability to do this. Hopefully that resonates. |
Twirl | quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Firstly, I have a question about tarot in general. Is it possible that instead of getting answers to a certain question, the cards advise something else?So, I made a few readings about my love life recently and I found 2 similar ones where I asked about the period from the 2nd half of April to the middle of May. Now I pulled: Strength - 8 of Pentacles - Death
Hi, I used to think that when I just started reading cards. But not sure that was the case or that I didn't know how to match the cards to the topics yet. Now it is always the more specific I am, the more specific answer I get in that theme. The cards above can very well tell you of a short-lived affair that is mesmerising. Or an intense one night stand even Just some thoughts. I would read a longer spread usually to get a full picture. |
Emsie | quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Did you have anyone in mind when you asked this question? A co-worker you were angry with or vice versa?
I wasn't thinking about anyone, but I was curious about the things that will happen in the love department. I'm currently single and looking. |
Emsie | quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: From the strength,8 cups, and death, in a general love reading. You have hard times coming up. You have the courage, will, and perserverence to overcome it. Perhaps there is something you need to end to be able to grow and move onto the next phase in your life. The preceding cards to death indicate that you have the ability to do this. Hopefully that resonates.
Actually it was the 8 of Pentacles, but maybe that doesn't change things. I already have some hard times, but it's not love related. (Health problems and I'm quite busy because of my studies) By the way, you're spot on with the new phase! I'm on the verge of opening a new door, so it definitely makes sense! |
Emsie | quote: Originally posted by Twirl: Hi, I used to think that when I just started reading cards. But not sure that was the case or that I didn't know how to match the cards to the topics yet. Now it is always the more specific I am, the more specific answer I get in that theme. The cards above can very well tell you of a short-lived affair that is mesmerising. Or an intense one night stand even Just some thoughts. I would read a longer spread usually to get a full picture.
These are exactly the things I'm not looking for. I guess I'm under the influence of a whole wagon Scorpio energy! Maybe that's why it would "die" - I don't want or need fleeting things in my life... |
EmpressMendez | Classic! Thanks for sharing Lovers could be interpreted as him choosing (Lovers) the other one (3 of Cups) quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: I once asked what would happen between me and a guy by the end of the month and got Hermit- lover- 3 of cups It looked nice but I had this nagging feeling about it. The 3 of cups turned out to be his ex reentering the picture. (She's permanently out now).
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EmpressMendez | LOL, oh okay. But did anything I said made some sense to you? If not, disregard it. In general, it seems to be saying that you will be busy somewhat trying to let go (or clear) some things from your past. That you still have some 'clearing' out to do (maybe some past baggage?). Hope that makes sense . quote: Originally posted by Emsie: I wasn't thinking about anyone, but I was curious about the things that will happen in the love department. I'm currently single and looking.
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littlecloud | I did read it as 8 of pents but wrote 8 of cups by accident, was using my phone so the interp would be the same. |
littlecloud | I did read it as 8 of pents but wrote 8 of cups by accident, was using my phone so the interp would be the same. |
Emsie | quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: LOL, oh okay. But did anything I said made some sense to you? If not, disregard it.In general, it seems to be saying that you will be busy somewhat trying to let go (or clear) some things from your past. That you still have some 'clearing' out to do (maybe some past baggage?). Hope that makes sense .
The clearing thing is so true! The first 3 months were like hell, and I feel I still need to do some healing. I definitely felt some "work" to do when I saw the 3 of Pentacles and the 8 of Pentacles. Thanks a bunch for helping me!!! |
Emsie | quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: I did read it as 8 of pents but wrote 8 of cups by accident, was using my phone so the interp would be the same.
Then, it's okay! I also had a second thought that what if you only wrote it by accident. |
Twirl | quote: Originally posted by Emsie: These are exactly the things I'm not looking for. I guess I'm under the influence of a whole wagon Scorpio energy! Maybe that's why it would "die" - I don't want or need fleeting things in my life...
Lol. No. I can imagine. I was just playing with the cards combination Strength can show up as lust and pents for the body (8 pents for an intense focus). Go with the other 2 interpretations and discard this one. Would love to hear any updates though Good luck & I'll hope you attract/pick a lovely guy!
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Emsie | quote: Originally posted by Twirl: Lol. No. I can imagine. I was just playing with the cards combination Strength can show up as lust and pents for the body (8 pents for an intense focus). Go with the other 2 interpretations and discard this one. Would love to hear any updates though Good luck & I'll hope you attract/pick a lovely guy!
Although, it might be true! These days even some guys don't show their true colors, they deceive girls with their "nice personality" then totally leave them abandoned... We'll see if I meet one! :P But he'll have to wait a little because of my upcoming exam-period, so if he can wait then he might be worthy. A little test, haha |
EmpressMendez | That's true Twirl. It's a possibility. Emsie should update all of us . quote: Originally posted by Twirl: Lol. No. I can imagine. I was just playing with the cards combination Strength can show up as lust and pents for the body (8 pents for an intense focus). Go with the other 2 interpretations and discard this one. Would love to hear any updates though Good luck & I'll hope you attract/pick a lovely guy!
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Emsie | quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: That's true Twirl. It's a possibility. Emsie should update all of us .
It might take a longer time, but I hope I'll find this thread later! |
Emsie | Hello again! As I promised an update, now I'll share the events which happened to me lately. I finally feel I was strong enough to break with the past and move on, and now I have a brand new love interest!!! :P |
EmpressMendez | Nice Emsie! best of luck to you & thanks for the update ^_^ |
Twirl | Nice! Enjoy Love to hear how it develops |