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T O P I C R E V I E WDaliAs I get past the hurt from my past relationship... I still carry all of the love for a girl. I feel this strange bond to her like no matter what happened in the past, we may yet cross paths again. I was born on March 7th, 1975 @ 2:46am... New Hartford, NY. SHe was born on May 22nd, 1978, birthtime unknown... Whitesboro, NY.We have had a truly bumpy start, all because of outside elements. I wish her the best... even if it is not with me. She has a good soul. Just wondering if there is any possibility of sensing how she feels. She is angry at me... for reasons that will pacify with time. I have moved on from this.But, my heart will always hols her. Also wondering why she seems to find trouble so much.raj_105_2001No problem. Both of you are Perfectly OK. She loves you and You Love Her, no doubt about it.DaliWill she ever admit it though... that is the true question. If she does one day, that will be great, if not, I will always carry love for her.Aphroditehi dali,the questions you are asking fall more along the lines of predictions, which horary astrology would probably be of service.unfortunately, i do not practice horary astrology aphroditeDaliI don't feel as if predictions can be determinded as to what will happen in the future. I just wish she feels positively about me and will carry the good I brought into her world. Is that still along the lines of predicitons too?Whew, astrology is pretty **** complex <probably the understatement of the year!>Aphroditewell dali, i personally interpreted your question as predictive because people have free wills and can use whatever energies they have at their own disposal. in other words, i can look at the charts and see if there are energies fruitful for certain things, but i *cannot always* tell whether or not someone will choose to do something. does this make sense? like, someone can have the planetary energies to become a Chef (using me for an example), but they don't actually become a Chef (actually going to culinary school, becoming an apprentice, etc. etc.)what horary astrology does, in one sentence, is *predict* whether in actuality something does happen. like, "am i going to culinary school this fall?" and horary would give, sometimes, a definite answer, along with the information regarding the situation surrounding this question.so, in asking if this woman likes you, is a predictive question to me. but if you asked me if the potentials are there, and what the situation may entail, i'd probably be able to provide some assistance.tarot cards would probably be a good substitute for horary astrology too. in fact, i use it when i can for predictive purposes.aphrodite DaliOh Aphrodite...The situation was so complex, we had 2 relationships, both killed due to a stalker x boyfriend... the second time around, I got so fed up with it I wrote her an honest note and approached her father whom she kept everything from, to finally make her confront all her "half-truths". Now, I live in NYC, she is still upstate, she doesn't understand that I did it to end the bad and push her towards good. Now we are not even friends. Is there compatibility, man... when we were together it was off the scale.The potential was soooo there, it was the situation that squashed it. If you need our data she was botn on May 22, 1976... birthtime unknown... Whitesboro, NYI was born March 7th, 1975, 2:46am Utica, NY.I miss her friendship and her smile.I feel like if I didn't speak up for myself, we would still be, however self-destructive that is!HAHADaliSee...my situation is not even about the stars...i dunno, I know I did not like how she would never commit to anything, be it a date, a phone call, or a relationship. To tell you the truth, the first time we went out... I never felt more alone because of all the other activities she did. And it wasn't the fact that she was doing them, more what they entailed.... going to clubs, working as a rock-babe, cancelling dates that took time and planning. Then went back to him... then came to me when they were "over" (without me knowing)... man, the big puzzle is WHY do I still care for her, and how in the name of tarnation did what I did at the end cause me so much grief, guilt and depression. This girl has taken away what I used to love, everything is just gray area now and I wonder if I will ever share myself with someone new. Meanwhile she is with someone whom is just filling space and it drives me batty. BUT STILL, if she called me today I would be there for her again. Because I see past all the bad and see a soul that is pure and full of love. Do i sound angry!!! Sorry Aphrodite... but, this whole year has been one BIG CHANGE, everytime I feel I am leaving it behind, I have a dream, or a memory, or anything... and it all comes BACK to me. I saved her from that abusive SOB... I changed her reality... and now I face this horrible cloud over my head for doing what I thought was right. I guess I am wondering what HER charts are like, something to give me some kind of direction towards why any of this happened. I hate conflict, and so does she (supposedly)... yet, her life has been nothing but turmoil... down to the friends she keeps who all have abusive boyfriends and/or drug problems... This girl came from a good family, she chose to complicate it. Now, she doesn't know how to break the cycle, even though she wants to, it eats her alive and I can feel it to this day. Yet, she condemns me.Is that blunt enough?I am sorry, but sometimes it really gets to me.Aphroditehi dali,yes, there is a lot of volatility between you both. lots of harsh karma and lessons to be learned. there is emotional abuse and psychological manipulation there are several indicators of sexual perversion, disruptions in shared resources, and violence. there is a lot of tension. your sun is squaring her neptune, so you are probably having a hard time seeing the relationship for what it is, and she is having problems communicating with you. the funny thing is that you both get along on a superficial level of romance, friendship, and some psychic levels of communication (venus trine neptune), but it's when you both have to merge together as a couple sharing, and exchanging intimate things that things start to go bad. in other words, once the show is over and it's time to pull the curtains down and get down to the business of relationship management, huge egos and power struggles erupt as to who's right, and who's wrong and you both wonder how you made it through the honeymoon phase.but since you know these things, it puts you in a proper perspective of what you want to do. like, being an architect looking over a masterplan for an old building in need of repair. you both can make decisions on what you want to do. however, BOTH people have to work on it, no half-way deals or your owe me a favor sweet talk.let me know if you have questions, and i'll try the best i can to answer.love,aphroditeDaliaphrodite...My question is what does this guy do, just walk away from it all, let our karmic lessons be worked out, and just hope that one day our paths will cross when all her emotional abuse issues are worked out? It scares me that she will fall into another bad thing. She has no capacity to say no, except for when it came to me because I allowed her to. May I ask you on a personal level, would you have read my actions as being bad, or is it that she cannot see the good in it yet? I did it to protect her, I swear it was for that. I knew I was burying my own grave... she swore it was over and maybe it was, but I heard it all before and then got to hear another year of her notorious relationship with Bob. It makes this Italian kid sooooooo mad that I lost her over things did not do!Ahhhhhhhhh, any help at all would be so appreciated. I wish I could get a message to her that I know she has read, but I fell she has deleted me from existence aqnd that is causing more pain than anything else.Aphroditegood morning dali,i understand how sad and upset you are feeling. and sincerely, i cannot tell you what you should do because these are decisions you must think out, realize, and make for yourself. my only piece of advice, as small as it is, is from a book that i've read:You are not responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you.this line has personally helped me cushion against heartache, and to use my emotions and energy more efficiently. aphrodite RandallYou are not responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you.YES! I asked the Uni-verse for a Sign, and I found it in your words, Aphrodite! ------------------"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George EliotDaliGood enough! Morning StormGreat words! ------------------To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .~Upendra
the questions you are asking fall more along the lines of predictions, which horary astrology would probably be of service.
unfortunately, i do not practice horary astrology
aphrodite
what horary astrology does, in one sentence, is *predict* whether in actuality something does happen. like, "am i going to culinary school this fall?" and horary would give, sometimes, a definite answer, along with the information regarding the situation surrounding this question.
so, in asking if this woman likes you, is a predictive question to me. but if you asked me if the potentials are there, and what the situation may entail, i'd probably be able to provide some assistance.
tarot cards would probably be a good substitute for horary astrology too. in fact, i use it when i can for predictive purposes.
yes, there is a lot of volatility between you both. lots of harsh karma and lessons to be learned. there is emotional abuse and psychological manipulation there are several indicators of sexual perversion, disruptions in shared resources, and violence. there is a lot of tension. your sun is squaring her neptune, so you are probably having a hard time seeing the relationship for what it is, and she is having problems communicating with you.
the funny thing is that you both get along on a superficial level of romance, friendship, and some psychic levels of communication (venus trine neptune), but it's when you both have to merge together as a couple sharing, and exchanging intimate things that things start to go bad. in other words, once the show is over and it's time to pull the curtains down and get down to the business of relationship management, huge egos and power struggles erupt as to who's right, and who's wrong and you both wonder how you made it through the honeymoon phase.
but since you know these things, it puts you in a proper perspective of what you want to do. like, being an architect looking over a masterplan for an old building in need of repair. you both can make decisions on what you want to do. however, BOTH people have to work on it, no half-way deals or your owe me a favor sweet talk.
let me know if you have questions, and i'll try the best i can to answer.
love,
i understand how sad and upset you are feeling. and sincerely, i cannot tell you what you should do because these are decisions you must think out, realize, and make for yourself. my only piece of advice, as small as it is, is from a book that i've read:
You are not responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you.
this line has personally helped me cushion against heartache, and to use my emotions and energy more efficiently.
YES! I asked the Uni-verse for a Sign, and I found it in your words, Aphrodite!
------------------"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot
------------------To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .~Upendra
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