Aww bless you, I guess I am quite interesting lol. Really talkative and curious as hell. It'd be insane if they're from the same area as I am, too many similarities lol. DISCLAIMER: I am not really really knowledgable, a lot of things are from my own experience so take everything I say with a grain of salt.
Okay let's see your charts now.
Synastry:
Okay me having Venus in the 1st natally, I always look at this first and then the moon. Your venus is square her ascendant, she probably isn't your usual type for a partner even if there's a major attraction at first. And with her venus trine your ascendant, she probably does find you attractive.
Your moons square each other, I have this with the friend in question and honestly, you can defo work around it. You just have different emotional responses to things and/or you both have differing moods. For example, when one is happy the other may not be and vice versa.
Your natal mars in cancer in the 12th house is so cute (( like I usually find it jarring with guys but idk why I find it cute here. It's in her 6th house, now I personally don't like mars there. However, the aspects aren't bad with it trining her sun and moon but generally, you activate 6th house issues like health, routine etc. My dad has this with me and ngl it's annoying as hell but that's because we have harsh aspects loool.
Your juno is conjunct her mercury which is nice.
Do you have different belief systems?
Your moon is conjunct her venus, such a cute aspect. I had this with my ex. The only negatives with this one is the tendency to brush past issues for the sake of keeping peace. She probably really cares about your emotional well being.
Okay aspects I don't like,
your juno squaring her neptune, maybe false illusions of commitment? or something that isn't clear? Thankfully this isn't translated in your composite otherwise I would have written this relationship off straight away.
Your true node squares her uranus, her unpredictability could affect your goals and what you want to do?
Moon semisquare mercury, now semisquare isn't too bad but they may hurt your feelings with their words sometimes.
Other things:
Her vertex conjunct your Chiron, maybe she wants to help heal your wounds or triggers those wounds you may need to heal?
Composite:
venus in 7th is cute, idk much about pluto here but probably a transformative union for you both. Mars in 4th, idk how I feel about that, probably action to do more with 4th house issues. Jupiter in 4th seems nice and probably why you may feel at home with each other (usually the sun kind of has that effect but as Jupiter blesses any house it's in, it could be why).
I really don't like the moon square saturn, I just hate that aspect alone. Thankfully there's no harsh moon-pluto aspects.
Neptune conjunct moon, probably sensitive to each other's emotion.
In general pluto is really activated in the composite so this union would be transformative on both of you, something difficult for you to forget and with your moon conjunct her pluto in synastry, this may affect her quite a bit.
Venus conjunct pluto is hotttttttttt, and obvs I'd say that because I'm intense but it's amazing. You may be possessive of each other, scratch that, you probably are which I love.
And omg I just checked, you have taurus rising in composite which is a nice rising to have tbh in a relationship. Somewhat stable, homely and nice.
And with the 9th house activated, I may sense some difference in belief systems or a change there, maybe you have different backgrounds?
Venus square mars indicates strong attraction but generally with squares the rose coloured glasses come off while with trines, sextiles and even conjunctions that may not be the case.
I would love to know more about your charts in particular and compare them to mine and my friend. If you would like we could discuss them over email (mine is softissues9@gmail.com) or if you have other questions. Your charts are super interesting. And of course, all feedback is welcome!