I have observed some synastry overtime and noticed that when it comes to friends, aspects such as Sun Conjunct Moon are more favorable. Even though they swear by Sun Conjunct Moon and Venus-Venus favorable aspects, I find that these are more "friends" type of aspects even if in a relationship.Like this would be a couple with cheesy jokes towards each other but when I have had these aspects with my relationships, I feel like on their own they could do little with the "fire" and passion. If anything, they made the relationship more clean, cheesy, and kind of plain on their own.
Sure, you liked being around the person but in a more brotherly or sisterly way, not in a "I gotta have you now" way.
Then I compare aspects that I seem to find a lot in my relationships where the sex was fire and you could just feel the passion and heat.
Mars - Venus aspects, ESPECIALLY oppositions and squares.
Mars - Pluto aspects.
Pluto - Venus aspects.
Lilith - Mars aspects.
I recently found a chart between two people at my company where two people had all except the Pluto and Venus, the rest that they had were in a double whammy.
The woman was usually a calm and jolly girl but whenever the guy was involved, she got INTENSE. I mean turning mad and having all of the emotions boil up in her, same with the guy. I had never seen her like this in years but she got very intense and passionate, like her body language and demeanor changed when we talked about the guy. Her skin turned pink with rage and she got mad whenever he did something wrong while when other guys did something wrong? She disregarded it.
What was even more strange is that the guy decided not to join her meeting one week, it was their 1 on 1, he was sick. She got boiling mad and came to me as I am his boss.
Then, the guy himself was worried about her and what she was doing with him. At times, he too would feel very intense with his anger in her games which she played with no one else but him.
I thought they were going to kill each other.
Come to find just today? They ended up meeting up in person and going home together.