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T O P I C R E V I E WMelastroIt was a 6 month relationship. On October 3, everything got mixed up with a lie and it wasn't the same as before. Why do you think we were together? Why didn't this relationship happen? i m taurus my karma point conj him sun 3 oct 2022 transits mee_chryssaHey, you have to upload the pictures. The links directly to your account won't work. You can send the links to somewhere where you upload them online.Melastro quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Hey, you have to upload the pictures. The links directly to your account won't work. You can send the links to somewhere where you upload them online.like this?anevolenaIf you can post the wheel, it would be much easier to read.Melastro quote:Originally posted by anevolena:If you can post the wheel, it would be much easier to read.how can i do thisRandallWelcome! Once you save the chart/wheel to a site (like tinypic), remove the "s" after http or the IMG tags won't work. Melastro quote:Originally posted by Randall:Welcome! Once you save the chart/wheel to a site (like tinypic), remove the "s" after http or the IMG tags won't work. thanks tag working now? i cant understand RandallYes, it is working perfectly.mee_chryssaHey,This seems that it's not a light relationship, but the thing is that you are more commitet in relationships than him.You have the ruler of the 7th in the 9th conjunct Saturn, and he has the ruler of the 7th in 5th which means he can have many options and go into different directions and spoil the relationship. His Venus is in Gemini and again it's the same effect. He is still a Cancer and Taurus Moon which will make him more stable, including his Taurus ASC, but Venus in Gemini rules it.There are some very good connections between you two. Sun conjunct Moon, Moon opposite Sun sign based, his Mars is conjunct your ASC, Moon conjunct Venus, Sun conjunct ASC. But because you two view relationships differently, this might not turn serious.Have you tried getting back with him? Did you explain that it was a lie? If you did and he didn't believe it, it's there a chance that he might still think that or he might have said that just to have a reason to break up with you?Plus, right now he is going through his Saturn return. Maybe in february/march, when will go into Pisces he could be in a different state of mind. And I think in October was when Saturn turned direct. For you, Saturn will be in Pisces where you have your DC. This seems like it had the potential for being more than 6 months, but considering that you two view relationships differently and that he is finishing with his Saturn return and for you it enters in the 7th - which means that you will learn about relationships for the next 2,5 years - seems like you two are on different journeys now. Melastro quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Hey,This seems that it's not a light relationship, but the thing is that you are more commitet in relationships than him.You have the ruler of the 7th in the 9th conjunct Saturn, and he has the ruler of the 7th in 5th which means he can have many options and go into different directions and spoil the relationship. His Venus is in Gemini and again it's the same effect. He is still a Cancer and Taurus Moon which will make him more stable, including his Taurus ASC, but Venus in Gemini rules it.There are some very good connections between you two. Sun conjunct Moon, Moon opposite Sun sign based, his Mars is conjunct your ASC, Moon conjunct Venus, Sun conjunct ASC. But because you two view relationships differently, this might not turn serious.Have you tried getting back with him? Did you explain that it was a lie? If you did and he didn't believe it, it's there a chance that he might still think that or he might have said that just to have a reason to break up with you?Plus, right now he is going through his Saturn return. Maybe in february/march, when will go into Pisces he could be in a different state of mind. And I think in October was when Saturn turned direct.tenks your comment. It was a lie he told and I forgave him, even if it was difficult. He said that he would make an effort for our relationship, but this effort was not enough for me and I decided to leave. because my trust was so broken. this lasted until the first week of January and we were completely separated during Mercury retrograde. He didn't want to leave but I couldn't accept it.mee_chryssaI understand you completely. Unfortunately, if you can't trust him, it's very difficult to be with him.Maybe he will make the effort soon and everything will change. There is a potential, but I can't say for sure if it's going to happen because he seems very light in relationships, and you are more serious. And your Saturn/Jupiter/Mars/Sun fall in his 1st house and it's a mixed energy of seriousness with Saturn, happiness with Jupiter, Mars he might like that and the Sun. Probably he knows that he must do something more than what he normally does to keep you and I don't think he knows what to do. Melastro quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:I understand you completely. Unfortunately, if you can't trust him, it's very difficult to be with him.Maybe he will make the effort soon and everything will change. There is a potential, but I can't say for sure if it's going to happen because he seems very light in relationships, and you are more serious. And your Saturn/Jupiter/Mars/Sun fall in his 1st house and it's a mixed energy of seriousness with Saturn, happiness with Jupiter, Mars he might like that and the Sun. Probably he knows that he must do something more than what he normally does to keep you and I don't think he knows what to do. yes, he knew and felt that I brought a responsibility into his life. even this was evident when he started to take responsibility for his life. He was content with this seriousness.but as you said, trying for me was heavy and difficult for him, I think.It makes me sad to spend the eros pyshe conjunction On the one hand, I think we are karmic. our mutual nodes are on the 4-10 axis. my karma point meets its sun. south node saturn conjunction in composite. and of course the 12th house connections. marriage point and moon conjunction in composite..Melastromee_chryssaYes, I saw the Venus/Mercury in his 12th, but there are so many important others that I thought those are more important. Maybe someone else can help with the composite. I prefer to stick to synastry. Melastro quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Yes, I saw the Venus/Mercury in his 12th, but there are so many important others that I thought those are more important. Maybe someone else can help with the composite. I prefer to stick to synastry. thank you mee_chryssa quote:Originally posted by Melastro: thank you You're welcome.StoneMoonIn composite I think there are power plays happening, maybe lack of trust or security within a relationship?Moon in tsquare to Pluto and Mercury... using words to manipulate. I feel this stems from a lack of trust. Saturn square the ascendant is preventing the relationship from taking off too, I believe. Chiron square Mars, further hurt and inability to move on, move forward. But Moon as chart ruler is very challenged, and caught between Mercury and Pluto in opposing wars. Lilith square to Venus emphasizes a struggle too. I think all of this is due to trust, or lack thereof. Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship... Melastro quote:Originally posted by StoneMoon:In composite I think there are power plays happening, maybe lack of trust or security within a relationship?Moon in tsquare to Pluto and Mercury... using words to manipulate. I feel this stems from a lack of trust. Saturn square the ascendant is preventing the relationship from taking off too, I believe. Chiron square Mars, further hurt and inability to move on, move forward. But Moon as chart ruler is very challenged, and caught between Mercury and Pluto in opposing wars. Lilith square to Venus emphasizes a struggle too. I think all of this is due to trust, or lack thereof. Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship... 'Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...'what does it mean? whose old wounds? The lack of trust was not mutual. a lie made me lack confidence. thanks for the commentMelastro quote:Originally posted by Melastro: 'Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...'what does it mean? whose old wounds? The lack of trust was not mutual. a lie made me lack confidence. thanks for the commentuppRandallBump!
3 oct 2022 transits
You can send the links to somewhere where you upload them online.
quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Hey, you have to upload the pictures. The links directly to your account won't work. You can send the links to somewhere where you upload them online.
quote:Originally posted by anevolena:If you can post the wheel, it would be much easier to read.
how can i do this
quote:Originally posted by Randall:Welcome! Once you save the chart/wheel to a site (like tinypic), remove the "s" after http or the IMG tags won't work.
thanks tag working now? i cant understand
This seems that it's not a light relationship, but the thing is that you are more commitet in relationships than him.
You have the ruler of the 7th in the 9th conjunct Saturn, and he has the ruler of the 7th in 5th which means he can have many options and go into different directions and spoil the relationship. His Venus is in Gemini and again it's the same effect. He is still a Cancer and Taurus Moon which will make him more stable, including his Taurus ASC, but Venus in Gemini rules it.
There are some very good connections between you two. Sun conjunct Moon, Moon opposite Sun sign based, his Mars is conjunct your ASC, Moon conjunct Venus, Sun conjunct ASC. But because you two view relationships differently, this might not turn serious.
Have you tried getting back with him? Did you explain that it was a lie? If you did and he didn't believe it, it's there a chance that he might still think that or he might have said that just to have a reason to break up with you?
Plus, right now he is going through his Saturn return. Maybe in february/march, when will go into Pisces he could be in a different state of mind. And I think in October was when Saturn turned direct. For you, Saturn will be in Pisces where you have your DC.
This seems like it had the potential for being more than 6 months, but considering that you two view relationships differently and that he is finishing with his Saturn return and for you it enters in the 7th - which means that you will learn about relationships for the next 2,5 years - seems like you two are on different journeys now.
quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Hey,This seems that it's not a light relationship, but the thing is that you are more commitet in relationships than him.You have the ruler of the 7th in the 9th conjunct Saturn, and he has the ruler of the 7th in 5th which means he can have many options and go into different directions and spoil the relationship. His Venus is in Gemini and again it's the same effect. He is still a Cancer and Taurus Moon which will make him more stable, including his Taurus ASC, but Venus in Gemini rules it.There are some very good connections between you two. Sun conjunct Moon, Moon opposite Sun sign based, his Mars is conjunct your ASC, Moon conjunct Venus, Sun conjunct ASC. But because you two view relationships differently, this might not turn serious.Have you tried getting back with him? Did you explain that it was a lie? If you did and he didn't believe it, it's there a chance that he might still think that or he might have said that just to have a reason to break up with you?Plus, right now he is going through his Saturn return. Maybe in february/march, when will go into Pisces he could be in a different state of mind. And I think in October was when Saturn turned direct.
Plus, right now he is going through his Saturn return. Maybe in february/march, when will go into Pisces he could be in a different state of mind. And I think in October was when Saturn turned direct.
tenks your comment. It was a lie he told and I forgave him, even if it was difficult. He said that he would make an effort for our relationship, but this effort was not enough for me and I decided to leave. because my trust was so broken. this lasted until the first week of January and we were completely separated during Mercury retrograde. He didn't want to leave but I couldn't accept it.
Maybe he will make the effort soon and everything will change. There is a potential, but I can't say for sure if it's going to happen because he seems very light in relationships, and you are more serious. And your Saturn/Jupiter/Mars/Sun fall in his 1st house and it's a mixed energy of seriousness with Saturn, happiness with Jupiter, Mars he might like that and the Sun. Probably he knows that he must do something more than what he normally does to keep you and I don't think he knows what to do.
quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:I understand you completely. Unfortunately, if you can't trust him, it's very difficult to be with him.Maybe he will make the effort soon and everything will change. There is a potential, but I can't say for sure if it's going to happen because he seems very light in relationships, and you are more serious. And your Saturn/Jupiter/Mars/Sun fall in his 1st house and it's a mixed energy of seriousness with Saturn, happiness with Jupiter, Mars he might like that and the Sun. Probably he knows that he must do something more than what he normally does to keep you and I don't think he knows what to do.
yes, he knew and felt that I brought a responsibility into his life. even this was evident when he started to take responsibility for his life. He was content with this seriousness.
but as you said, trying for me was heavy and difficult for him, I think.
It makes me sad to spend the eros pyshe conjunction
On the one hand, I think we are karmic. our mutual nodes are on the 4-10 axis. my karma point meets its sun. south node saturn conjunction in composite. and of course the 12th house connections. marriage point and moon conjunction in composite..
Maybe someone else can help with the composite. I prefer to stick to synastry.
quote:Originally posted by mee_chryssa:Yes, I saw the Venus/Mercury in his 12th, but there are so many important others that I thought those are more important. Maybe someone else can help with the composite. I prefer to stick to synastry.
thank you
quote:Originally posted by Melastro: thank you
You're welcome.
Moon in tsquare to Pluto and Mercury... using words to manipulate. I feel this stems from a lack of trust.
Saturn square the ascendant is preventing the relationship from taking off too, I believe. Chiron square Mars, further hurt and inability to move on, move forward. But Moon as chart ruler is very challenged, and caught between Mercury and Pluto in opposing wars. Lilith square to Venus emphasizes a struggle too. I think all of this is due to trust, or lack thereof. Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...
quote:Originally posted by StoneMoon:In composite I think there are power plays happening, maybe lack of trust or security within a relationship?Moon in tsquare to Pluto and Mercury... using words to manipulate. I feel this stems from a lack of trust. Saturn square the ascendant is preventing the relationship from taking off too, I believe. Chiron square Mars, further hurt and inability to move on, move forward. But Moon as chart ruler is very challenged, and caught between Mercury and Pluto in opposing wars. Lilith square to Venus emphasizes a struggle too. I think all of this is due to trust, or lack thereof. Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...
'Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...'
what does it mean? whose old wounds? The lack of trust was not mutual. a lie made me lack confidence. thanks for the comment
quote:Originally posted by Melastro: 'Hurts from previous wounding are being carried into this relationship...'what does it mean? whose old wounds? The lack of trust was not mutual. a lie made me lack confidence. thanks for the comment
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