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T O P I C R E V I E WMillyXI've been thinking alot about my ex lately. He was the deepest and most serious relationship I had, but I had to leave him for various reasons, despite my unconditional love for him. I don't love him romantically anymore but I still care about him. I really wanted to stay friends with him but it was not possible after our breakup which is understandable. We never had the chance to get one last talk with each other. I'd like to know, will I ever get the chance to have a conversation with him one last time?And also will I ever get the chance in the future to be friends with him? My feelings for him are not that strong anymore but I wonder about what he has become, I have not heard from him since. His name is Carl. I can exchange & read astrology charts or card readings your choice.DreamCatcherHi milly ,Still exchanging ? ( not you but im getting tired of people not following through on exchanges here!)So just let me know if you are still exchanging MillyXYes sure leave your QDreamCatcherGreat thanks..My Q is about my sister...She is extremely unappreciative, selfish & unsupportive. I have always been here as her #1 cheerleader, and lately, it seems like she cannot be bothered with me. Friends of mine seem to think she is jealous that I am doing well? Which sounds crazy to me because she does well and I've always been happy for her! Sorry for the rant..my Q is: Will se ever become more nice & closer to me or is she a lost cause? It really is sad....BRB with yours.DreamCatcherMilly-In regards to your Ex- he too, thinks of you often. What I see here is that if you feel that you need to have a conversation "one last time", what I am seeing is that if you open that door & reach out, it won't just be that one last time. I see that more contact will follow, and it will not be necessarily healthy for you emotionally. I want to tell you not to go there UNLESS you are prepared to go through more karma with this person.I feel that this relationship still carries some heaviness, but mostly on his side. It seems to me that you have done a lot of work on yourself & your spirit, but he has not, and he is still dealing with a lot .I also feel at times you were a scapegoat for him not dealing with his emotions & wounds and that's unfair. So while you do still care , and he still cares, I only see a conversation happening if you were to initiate it right now. And if that happens, be prepared for a drawn out situation...does this resonate?Also , as far as being just friends, I don't really see that happening either , I'm sorry to say DreamCatcherWould you like me to read on him more in depth? Like what he is up to?MillyXThank you DC ! That was a great reading. Our relationship was very intense and our bond was very close. I did do alot of work and the intensity is not as strong as it used to be on my side. I used to be very jealous, possessive and downright crazy when I was with him but I worked alot on myself and I also did some cord cutting and reiki and that really helped me stop dreaming of him so much and feeling his energy. I sometimes check up on him through Facebook, and when I see his pictures he looks really miserable. It makes me sad to see him like this. I did reach out to him through Facebook but he never replied. I always wanted to be friends with this person because, he was an important person in my life and I felt like despite his troubles and character he 'got' me and understood who I was, which is rare for me to experience. I check up on him alot to see if he has quit the drugs and quit selling. Like I always hoped that someday he would wake up and advance in life and get better. BRB with yours.MillyXI asked if your relationship with your sister will ever get better and I am getting a yes. I pulled 8 of diamonds and 9 of heartsI feel like there will be a change coming your way between the both of you and this will come unexpectedly. It may take time but I see that in the end both of you will get to a place of peace, you are sisters after all. I don't feel like this is a lost cause. Give it time.DreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by MillyX:I asked if your relationship with your sister will ever get better and I am getting a yes. I pulled 8 of diamonds and 9 of heartsI feel like there will be a change coming your way between the both of you and this will come unexpectedly. It may take time but I see that in the end both of you will get to a place of peace, you are sisters after all. I don't feel like this is a lost cause. Give it time.Well, I guess the real question is why she treats me this way...MillyX quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher:Would you like me to read on him more in depth? Like what he is up to?Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.On my side, I have forgiven him after everything that happened and have tried to set him free. I don't carry bad feelings towards him, I feel more...pity towards him. Like he needs help and I wish that things will get better for him.MillyX quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Well, I guess the real question is why she treats me this way...Ok so I asked why she was treating you that way.I pulled 8 of diamonds, 7 of spades and 4 of hearts. I feel it's more about her not about you. I feel like she may be going through her own stuff. The central card is the card of removal, like she may be pulling away from you. The last card, it feels like yes she is seeming selfish and not acknowledging the people around her (including you). The first card I feel like she may be feeling...hmm..stressed or is busy with work or money. Again, please do not take it personally. It's not about you, it's about her. DreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by MillyX: Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.On my side, I have forgiven him after everything that happened and have tried to set him free. I don't carry bad feelings towards him, I feel more...pity towards him. Like he needs help and I wish that things will get better for him.Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people. As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out MillyX quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people. As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out It's sad to hear and the drinking part makes sense. On his Facebook, I see that he parties alot and I see that he drinks alot of lean: a combination of codeine (cough syrup which is illegal) and sprite. I will continue to pray for him and send good energy his way. Only he can help himself and I hope he realizes that someday. DreamCatcherI had a feeling there was some substance abuse, but did not want you to panic. He will be OK, but you need to just send him love from a distance Milly- That is safest Let me know if you would like to exchange again?MillyXThank you very much for the insights! Your reading was wonderful. That will be it for today, I don't want to drown too much into his problems, it's all about distance and detachment. Have a great weekend DC!
I don't love him romantically anymore but I still care about him. I really wanted to stay friends with him but it was not possible after our breakup which is understandable.
We never had the chance to get one last talk with each other.
I'd like to know, will I ever get the chance to have a conversation with him one last time?
And also will I ever get the chance in the future to be friends with him?
My feelings for him are not that strong anymore but I wonder about what he has become, I have not heard from him since. His name is Carl.
I can exchange & read astrology charts or card readings your choice.
Still exchanging ? ( not you but im getting tired of people not following through on exchanges here!)
So just let me know if you are still exchanging
BRB with yours.
I feel that this relationship still carries some heaviness, but mostly on his side. It seems to me that you have done a lot of work on yourself & your spirit, but he has not, and he is still dealing with a lot .
I also feel at times you were a scapegoat for him not dealing with his emotions & wounds and that's unfair. So while you do still care , and he still cares, I only see a conversation happening if you were to initiate it right now. And if that happens, be prepared for a drawn out situation...does this resonate?
Also , as far as being just friends, I don't really see that happening either , I'm sorry to say
I did do alot of work and the intensity is not as strong as it used to be on my side. I used to be very jealous, possessive and downright crazy when I was with him but I worked alot on myself and I also did some cord cutting and reiki and that really helped me stop dreaming of him so much and feeling his energy.
I sometimes check up on him through Facebook, and when I see his pictures he looks really miserable. It makes me sad to see him like this.
I did reach out to him through Facebook but he never replied.
I always wanted to be friends with this person because, he was an important person in my life and I felt like despite his troubles and character he 'got' me and understood who I was, which is rare for me to experience.
I check up on him alot to see if he has quit the drugs and quit selling. Like I always hoped that someday he would wake up and advance in life and get better.
I feel like there will be a change coming your way between the both of you and this will come unexpectedly. It may take time but I see that in the end both of you will get to a place of peace, you are sisters after all. I don't feel like this is a lost cause. Give it time.
quote:Originally posted by MillyX:I asked if your relationship with your sister will ever get better and I am getting a yes. I pulled 8 of diamonds and 9 of heartsI feel like there will be a change coming your way between the both of you and this will come unexpectedly. It may take time but I see that in the end both of you will get to a place of peace, you are sisters after all. I don't feel like this is a lost cause. Give it time.
Well, I guess the real question is why she treats me this way...
quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher:Would you like me to read on him more in depth? Like what he is up to?
Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.
On my side, I have forgiven him after everything that happened and have tried to set him free. I don't carry bad feelings towards him, I feel more...pity towards him. Like he needs help and I wish that things will get better for him.
quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Well, I guess the real question is why she treats me this way...
Ok so I asked why she was treating you that way.I pulled 8 of diamonds, 7 of spades and 4 of hearts.
I feel it's more about her not about you. I feel like she may be going through her own stuff. The central card is the card of removal, like she may be pulling away from you. The last card, it feels like yes she is seeming selfish and not acknowledging the people around her (including you). The first card I feel like she may be feeling...hmm..stressed or is busy with work or money. Again, please do not take it personally. It's not about you, it's about her.
quote:Originally posted by MillyX: Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.On my side, I have forgiven him after everything that happened and have tried to set him free. I don't carry bad feelings towards him, I feel more...pity towards him. Like he needs help and I wish that things will get better for him.
Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people.
As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.
He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out
quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people. As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out
It's sad to hear and the drinking part makes sense. On his Facebook, I see that he parties alot and I see that he drinks alot of lean: a combination of codeine (cough syrup which is illegal) and sprite.
I will continue to pray for him and send good energy his way. Only he can help himself and I hope he realizes that someday.
Let me know if you would like to exchange again?
That will be it for today, I don't want to drown too much into his problems, it's all about distance and detachment.
Have a great weekend DC!
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