hi all, i need your advice once again. this one is a doozy, so stick with me.
about just 2 weeks ago i met this guy online. i’m not a super lovey dovey or available person as a matured gemini venus, i tend to avoid commitment and i know my own bad habits.
right off the bat, after our first meeting, he was seeking me out everyday for multiple days, beginning me to call him and spend time with him. i was not with it, until i gave in. ever since, we’ve spent time together. he has been so clingy and absolutely openly into me, saying the boldest things in pure sagittarius venus fashion. ive been slowing him down hard, trying to get him to back off because my gemini venus felt suffocated, although surprisingly it didn’t fully turn me off as it usually would because i took a liking to him.
he is now insisting he likes me A LOT and he wants to date me, calling me telling me he misses me every hour of the day, video calling me constantly telling me how pretty i am (which is odd because we don’t have any traditional physical attraction aspects)
i don’t know what to think because it’s so much in such little time and i told him i won’t date him for atleast another 3-4 months because i need to get to know him first.
now i’m just confused. what makes him so obsessed with me synastry wise? i met this guy earlier this year that had his venus, mars and sun conjunct my ascendant as well as 8th house aspects and overlays and my planets in his 7th which is supposed to be some magic recipe for physical attraction, yet he told me he doesn’t think i’m pretty and he didn’t even like me although we were supposedly friends- meanwhile this guy and i have virtually no good or special aspects with him, yet he is hella attracted to me and adores my personality.
so is it all just an illusion? will it fade in due time? because there doesn’t seem to be any indication for longevity or true feelings in our synastry. please let me know because i don’t know wether to get invested or not.
here’s our synastry chart, i’m the inner circle
and here’s our composite for good measure
thanks for reading! i’d appreciate any insight