You are going to have to receive the benefit of my experience here, because I have had so many relationships with the composite 6th, and at least this way, you see the things to fear. I also have the SUN in the 6th as well!Its' only bad if you don't want to work together, the only danger is that once the work sours the relationship will too, but then I am much more emotional these days and so I cannot mix business and personal with a man
I did this with my ex but we did not have this in synastry, in composite we had the sun in the 6th, but we did work together and he helped me build a business. The moon in the 6th causes me to treat that person as an authority, and men in general prefer me to be in control and be loved not looked up to. I am unforgiving in business.
I still care for my ex, but he and I do not care about keeping a romance alive anymore, since he got tired of not having a stay at home wife. The relationship couldn't grow.
There is nothing wrong with that relationship, only we could not grow as quickly as we needed to. Especially I am a Taurus so I am stubborn with an 8th house moon.
I consider carefully romance with the composite in the 6th but that's just my experience with traditional men and the lifestyle I lead. I come off as very traditional and simple, but in fact I am very stubborn and unyeilding. It's hard to see. Many men have come into my life to change it and build a new life for me and then leave because my stubborness does not like to let others lead.
I am a better sister and friend than a lover for that reason, and my ex knows it. He can't depend on me for unconditional approval or trust-not in matters of business or in my family.
I have many family issues including an adoptive brother who was abused and he needs tolerant people who love him. I find it hard to give to anyone, if there is any measure of control over my life with my brother, who needs to spend time with me. So I have many issues with work with those who I love.
Some people have said I like control-but I only need a small measure over my life. After all, I have changed my name, religion, hair, first name everything for my ex, I think it's better for me to have some control over my work life for better or worse and that means agreeing to work/love relationships but then ending them when it's no longer fun for both of us. One has to go eventually, work or love.
It's a hard decison and I am good at changing my mind. So that's my only apprehension, once the task is complete and everything is going smoothly and the business is setup, there is usually nothing to talk about besides work, and the relationship can get unromantic and stale.
Men need romance as much as a woman, and want to live in a romance novel. The only reason they like control and business is because they know it makes them sexy, in all those romance novels, there was money, a job, but it's not fleshed out, and I find men don't like to actually do all the work, but want a real woman too.
My experience is biased because my ex left off running the business to me and I was stuck with it 40 hours a week after the first year, while he played around and enjoyed the gains. After I left he struggled to destroy everything I'd worked for. I just can't do that again with a little brother who needs so much emotional support right now.
So earth houses are about work and building, but I find that the more I let a man work, the more I end up in debt to him, and then I feel controlled and owned.
And my 8th house moon and 5th house Venus don't like ownership of anything but goals and values. Material things get in the way. When I was brought up, we didn't have a TV, we had love. My ex had 6 TV's. Different values, and too much stuff. Now I think I will find someone who has a balance but anyone can be special or not if they want to be.
It's all about the really hard work, I like to do that, but the day to day existence of keeping the coffee pot warm-that doesn't appeal to me. I don't want to be the hausfrau-housewife because she is the frumpy one who waits up nights scared and shaking and wondering what's around the corner. Don't want to be there:>
My doctor has the moon in Scorpio in the 8th. He has two pairs of pants, and an old run down apartment. He doesn't care, he just likes treating people. He is warm and old and sweet, and clean. I love his presence but he will never offer a future. Still Iike going to the doctor rather than making love to my ex husband!
So there you go, a closet romantic! But I am a cautious one, the best way is to find your own way and choose your Aquarius, you will be fine if you grow together.
I have not had much luck in LOVE but in business yes, with the composite sun or moon/6th. In synastry it may be an issue (the business end)
Make sure to get plenty of extra help, for the grunt day to day work, bookeeping, that kind of thing.
Also check your Juno's which I read recently had too do with long term relationships, and look at the aspects to each other's Neptune. And your Chiron aspects to your Venus's. It would be a good idea to consult Zorana on this board. Try a post asking for help from Zorana, she is an excellent astrologer.
Natasha
Taurus/6th
Moon Cancer/8th
Venus Aries
Saturn Taurus/5th
Mercury Gemini/7th
Scorpio Ascendant/12th
Pluto, and Jupiter conjunct Virgo/10th
Neptune Conjunct Ascendant Scorpio/12th
Juno Capricorn/2nd