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gemini girl
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posted April 15, 2004 05:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what is the cause of the sun being in the 6 house cause 8 out of the 10 charts ive did a compatibility chart with has that placement how do u handle that

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lioneye68
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posted April 15, 2004 05:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you mean a synastry chart, like what aspects your planets make to his, or do you mean a composite chart where each one of both of your planets 'meets in the middle'?

(I'll explain the Composite chart ~ if you had the sun at 16 degrees Gemini and he had the sun at 15 degrees Cancer, your composite chart would have it's sun at 01 degree Cancer, which is the half way point between your two individual suns, and you do this for each planet and angle)

Unless you're talking about your own natal chart? Then, of course, it should always been in the same place.

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NeptunesLittleGem
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posted April 15, 2004 06:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Gemini Girl

I am also not quite sure of what you're asking...but I do have my sun in the 6th house. Are you're looking for advice about it, or how it influences? I'd like to help but I'm not quite sure what your asking.

Take Care,
NLG

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lalalinda
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posted April 16, 2004 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't get it either, are you saying that you have a 6th house sun and people you're with have that also? Or that thier suns fall in your 6th house? When you're doing chart comparisons you place thier planets in your chart and aspect them, the only one I try to stay away from is if to many malific fall in my 12th house. These are things not openly evident. And for new relationships I never do composites If I want to know how someone is reacting to me I use a comparison.

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sthenri
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posted April 16, 2004 04:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there I have the Sun in the 6th too and my composites usually show the Sun in the 4th, 5th, or 6th. Usually that is what you get at astro.com, is that where you are looking?

It's a nurturing, stable, take care of business type of partnership. I don't know if romance is as important to sixth house Suns, in comparison to strength and stability.

What do you think?

Natasha
Taurus/6th
Cancer/8th Moon

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gemini girl
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posted April 16, 2004 07:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi i meant in a composite chart is having the relationship in the 6th house sun bad

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sthenri
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posted April 16, 2004 07:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope, not at all, it's just a working relationship, are you looking for a romantic one? Maybe you work together?

Natasha

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MercurialMisfit
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posted April 17, 2004 06:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha-

What about moon in the Sixth House in a romantic relationship? I noticed you had concerns about that in another thread.

My Aquarius and I share that placement. His moon is in my 6th, and my moon is in his 6th. So far I've notices he is interested in being my caretaker in every aspect of my life. He is involved with making sure I am ok, and advising me on EVERYTHING. He also has me intimately involved in all of his business affairs. He wants me to create his business cards and stationary, create a corporate logo and image, as well as market his company etc.

This is very much a love and work relationship. He is also helping me launch my own business ventures. I have only read that the moon in the 6th is a bad thing...but does it have to be?

MM

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sthenri
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posted April 17, 2004 07:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are going to have to receive the benefit of my experience here, because I have had so many relationships with the composite 6th, and at least this way, you see the things to fear. I also have the SUN in the 6th as well!

Its' only bad if you don't want to work together, the only danger is that once the work sours the relationship will too, but then I am much more emotional these days and so I cannot mix business and personal with a man

I did this with my ex but we did not have this in synastry, in composite we had the sun in the 6th, but we did work together and he helped me build a business. The moon in the 6th causes me to treat that person as an authority, and men in general prefer me to be in control and be loved not looked up to. I am unforgiving in business.

I still care for my ex, but he and I do not care about keeping a romance alive anymore, since he got tired of not having a stay at home wife. The relationship couldn't grow.

There is nothing wrong with that relationship, only we could not grow as quickly as we needed to. Especially I am a Taurus so I am stubborn with an 8th house moon.

I consider carefully romance with the composite in the 6th but that's just my experience with traditional men and the lifestyle I lead. I come off as very traditional and simple, but in fact I am very stubborn and unyeilding. It's hard to see. Many men have come into my life to change it and build a new life for me and then leave because my stubborness does not like to let others lead.

I am a better sister and friend than a lover for that reason, and my ex knows it. He can't depend on me for unconditional approval or trust-not in matters of business or in my family.

I have many family issues including an adoptive brother who was abused and he needs tolerant people who love him. I find it hard to give to anyone, if there is any measure of control over my life with my brother, who needs to spend time with me. So I have many issues with work with those who I love.

Some people have said I like control-but I only need a small measure over my life. After all, I have changed my name, religion, hair, first name everything for my ex, I think it's better for me to have some control over my work life for better or worse and that means agreeing to work/love relationships but then ending them when it's no longer fun for both of us. One has to go eventually, work or love.

It's a hard decison and I am good at changing my mind. So that's my only apprehension, once the task is complete and everything is going smoothly and the business is setup, there is usually nothing to talk about besides work, and the relationship can get unromantic and stale.

Men need romance as much as a woman, and want to live in a romance novel. The only reason they like control and business is because they know it makes them sexy, in all those romance novels, there was money, a job, but it's not fleshed out, and I find men don't like to actually do all the work, but want a real woman too.

My experience is biased because my ex left off running the business to me and I was stuck with it 40 hours a week after the first year, while he played around and enjoyed the gains. After I left he struggled to destroy everything I'd worked for. I just can't do that again with a little brother who needs so much emotional support right now.

So earth houses are about work and building, but I find that the more I let a man work, the more I end up in debt to him, and then I feel controlled and owned.

And my 8th house moon and 5th house Venus don't like ownership of anything but goals and values. Material things get in the way. When I was brought up, we didn't have a TV, we had love. My ex had 6 TV's. Different values, and too much stuff. Now I think I will find someone who has a balance but anyone can be special or not if they want to be.

It's all about the really hard work, I like to do that, but the day to day existence of keeping the coffee pot warm-that doesn't appeal to me. I don't want to be the hausfrau-housewife because she is the frumpy one who waits up nights scared and shaking and wondering what's around the corner. Don't want to be there:>

My doctor has the moon in Scorpio in the 8th. He has two pairs of pants, and an old run down apartment. He doesn't care, he just likes treating people. He is warm and old and sweet, and clean. I love his presence but he will never offer a future. Still Iike going to the doctor rather than making love to my ex husband!

So there you go, a closet romantic! But I am a cautious one, the best way is to find your own way and choose your Aquarius, you will be fine if you grow together.

I have not had much luck in LOVE but in business yes, with the composite sun or moon/6th. In synastry it may be an issue (the business end)

Make sure to get plenty of extra help, for the grunt day to day work, bookeeping, that kind of thing.
Also check your Juno's which I read recently had too do with long term relationships, and look at the aspects to each other's Neptune. And your Chiron aspects to your Venus's. It would be a good idea to consult Zorana on this board. Try a post asking for help from Zorana, she is an excellent astrologer.

Natasha
Taurus/6th
Moon Cancer/8th
Venus Aries
Saturn Taurus/5th
Mercury Gemini/7th
Scorpio Ascendant/12th
Pluto, and Jupiter conjunct Virgo/10th
Neptune Conjunct Ascendant Scorpio/12th
Juno Capricorn/2nd

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PlayfulPonderingFishMoon
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posted April 17, 2004 08:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi lalalinda,


What does that term malific mean again?

It's supposed to stand for the 'evil planets' or something, isn't it?

Wouldn't those planets include Saturn and Mars?

And I know I'm a pain sometimes, but if anyone knows what Saturn and / or Mars in the 12th could actually mean in synastry, then I would be really interested in that knowledge too, lol.


Thanks so much!

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lalalinda
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posted April 18, 2004 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Specifically for me mars, there is the potential (again you have to look at the whole pic)for violence, with mercury (although not a malific) in your 12th will tend to talk/gossip about you. Saturn in your 12th house shows karma and the moon also. The sun COULD (not always) show a secret enemy sometimes its unconscience. They don't even realize they're undermining you. (sometimes its deliberate).

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Cancerian718
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posted April 18, 2004 09:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalalinda,

What would your Venus in 12th house of partner mean?

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lalalinda
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posted April 18, 2004 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If your Venus falls in thier 12th house and its in Taures or Libra (along with thier asc.) Then its very Karmic because of the rulership (home) and house (exalted) Look to see if Saturn (thiers) falls in your 4th, 8th (especially for love relationships) or 12th houses. Then look for a saturn contact with the moon. If venus is in another sign and falling in your 12th this shows a kinships, a soft spot, a secret ally. Also a phychic link, intuned to one another. This is a nice contact and I suspect its a love match from the past. Also venus will be forgiving.

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astro junkie
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posted April 19, 2004 04:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder what the already elusive planet of Neptune in one's own, or another's 12th House would be like. Do they cancel each other out?

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Cancerian718
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posted April 19, 2004 08:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalalinda,

Venus is in the sign of Taurus in the partner's 12th house, but doesn't conjunct the ASC. And their Saturn (plus venus and merc) falls in the 7th house. What excatly do you mean by a karmic link?

Thanks a lot!

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lalalinda
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posted April 19, 2004 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First A.J Neptune has great streanth in the 12th house. With neptune you rarely see the whole picture, thats just the nature of neptune. But its there doing what its supposed to do. Feeding you information subconsiously. Its your second sight, that intuitive little voice inside your head. Its sensitive. Thats not to say it can't get you in trouble it can. Feed you with misinformation. If stressed out It tells us that alcohol/drugs will make things better. Canceling out? no never because it has its own unique set of aspects its making to other planets. Pluto, Neptune Uranus and Chiron are generational planets. It takes so long to get through a sign that if you have one of these in the 12th house, everyone around your age will also. Thats not to say they're all enemys,(12th) You will have incorperated that planet in your personal chart to fit. Like working in a 12th house institution. Hospitals (or hospices), prisons, forensics etc. Crisis hotlines (rape and suicide) will fall here also.

Cancerian, Ok your Venus is in Taures in (his) 12th house? Is his Asc. in Taures? If it is it doesn't matter if its 25 degrees away (as long as they're both in Taures) it is still conjunct. This is one of the exceptions to the rule. You don't use this many degrees seperating for a conjunction when aspecting planets. The reason for this exception is the Venus in Taures rules the Taures asc.(VERY strong link)placed in the 12th (past, karmic) and venus (love). Therefore a link with a past life love. Venus is exalted here.

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Cancerian718
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posted April 19, 2004 01:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalalinda,

No his ASC is not Taurus...its Gemini. So what does it mean then, by just being in his 12th house? I mean does that mean that the Venus person tends to have loving and symathetic feelings towards the 12th house person or the 12th the Venus person?

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lalalinda
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posted April 19, 2004 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancerian,
You know Venus is understanding, kind, and tolerant. You just like them warts and all. They feel pretty much the same way.

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astro junkie
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posted April 19, 2004 05:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for all the great info I see you've been contributing lately LaLaLinda.

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Cancerian718
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posted April 20, 2004 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Appreciate it Lalalinda!

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