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T O P I C R E V I E W~jane_says~.double trouble geminihi there....O Lord , save our souls! lolzi am all smiles reading ur mail..i shall pray 4 u to get the answer for this onei can imagine what u r into..i had decided to keep my self single so that whenever my crab decides to come back he should find me where he last left me..but i guess u r much ,much stronger that me to have moved on with ur life... i wish i get the strenght to rise above it all!if u r happy with ur present love ..pls dont mess it up,u know how it is with cancerians..(a very very unstable, uncertain, insecure ride)wish u all the best in love n life..Mama MiaThey do come back don't they...Never had one that did not. Follow your heart... pixelpixieVenus is still retrograde. It often signifies old flames rethinking things....Give it some time before you respond if you do... everyone goes through life and learns things.. doesn't necessarily mean you have to open that can of worms.. I imagine he wanted to test the waters before opening up, so rather than cowardly, I think it took great guts to think about someone and then follow through, right out of the blue....IsolaedeHello there:I wouldn't worry too much, Jane. I'm about as Cancer as they come and I've seriously considered contacting my ex this last few months - not because I have ANY desire to be with him again (I’m madly in love with another man now), but simply because I worry about him. Cancer's are remarkably sentimental and caring people (speaking in broad, general terms - I know some Crabs are not). You’ve probably been on his mind lately – which is completely natural during the holiday season – and he’s just pinging you to see how you are doing. There is a chance part of him misses you in a romantic sense, but if you are very clear how incredibly happy you are with your current relationship then you shouldn’t have any of these “Cancer stalker” incidents people keep describing.I hope this helps! ~jane_says~THANKS GUYS FOR YOUR RESPONSE SO FAR...PIXIE YOU ARE RIGHT...I WOULDN'T HAVE HAD THE "BALLS" TO DO SUCH A THING, ESP AFTER SO MUCH TIME..JANEILL KEEP YALL POSTEDSalisaI had an old best friend of mine do the same thing. I hadn't talked to her in almost two years and all of the sudden out of the blue she calls me up only the day before yesterday. I didn't even know venus in retrograde could do that. To tell the truth I feel very odd about the whole thing. I hope things work out for you ~jane_says~.~jane_says~.pixelpixieWow.Did your currrent man do this with your consent, or did he let his insecurities rule him and do this without your knowledge until afterwards?You are allowed, I would think, to wonder about people who have been in your life, on a friendship capacity. As long as the lines are drawn... as long as you are committed and honest with everyone,Your lover cannot rule you like that.It is quite disrespectful of your feelings.I would have a huge problem with that facet of it.... but then I have issues with privacy and being my own person and trust and sharing in an equal way.Yes, it is nice to be loved to such a degree... yet.... also I am glad you recognize that is his insecurity, not protection of your best interests.I would talk to your current beau about his issues with it, and let him know if you intend to email or get into contact with your old friend.. keep him involved so he sees you are simply concerned and curious.His needs can't eclipse yours, or else resentment will build.It very simply will.~jane_says~nothing is coming up on my computer arggghpixelpixierefresh refreshSwerveI tell you what, sometimes I think I'm obsessed or insecure because I find it hard to let go - but that is a bit beyond my reach.Poor old Cancer probably didn't know what hit him. Maybe he had some intentions, but that wasn't the way to shoot him down.Not your fault I suppose really, but you current boyfriend seems a little "unhinged". That was your decision to make alone.Swerve~jane_says~hi all~jane_says~what happened to my post?I thought it was here last night..hmmbe back.Mystic GeminiWrite back. You never know.------------------Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra*´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall startPlanet_SoulHi Jane,I have similar issues w my partner ): I care about him very much, but constantly reassuring his insecurities can be draining and exhausting. Remain true to yourself so you don't lose yourself. ~jane_says~.~jane_says~...~jane_says~.astro junkieRemember that Cancers' memories are notoriously vivid. It's probably very difficult for him to forget about you completely because there's always something out there reminding him of you. Having a Cancer Moon myself, I can understand this. It's difficult to give up movie stubs, and the like.He MAY need a nudge into the future, rather than trying to recover a special feeling between you, which was IN THE PAST. You have to decide, in which way would you be doing him the greater favor. You have no problem sort of going back and forth in the time machine, but it's not the same for Cancers. You must consider that.There are still past experiences which feel just as raw as they did years ago, yet, going back to relive it would NOT make it any easier unless I knew that a relationship would be free and easy. Or else, it will just open the wound again.------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness
i am all smiles reading ur mail..i shall pray 4 u to get the answer for this one
i can imagine what u r into..i had decided to keep my self single so that whenever my crab decides to come back he should find me where he last left me..
but i guess u r much ,much stronger that me to have moved on with ur life... i wish i get the strenght to rise above it all!
if u r happy with ur present love ..pls dont mess it up,u know how it is with cancerians..(a very very unstable, uncertain, insecure ride)
wish u all the best in love n life..
Give it some time before you respond if you do... everyone goes through life and learns things.. doesn't necessarily mean you have to open that can of worms.. I imagine he wanted to test the waters before opening up, so rather than cowardly, I think it took great guts to think about someone and then follow through, right out of the blue....
I wouldn't worry too much, Jane. I'm about as Cancer as they come and I've seriously considered contacting my ex this last few months - not because I have ANY desire to be with him again (I’m madly in love with another man now), but simply because I worry about him. Cancer's are remarkably sentimental and caring people (speaking in broad, general terms - I know some Crabs are not). You’ve probably been on his mind lately – which is completely natural during the holiday season – and he’s just pinging you to see how you are doing. There is a chance part of him misses you in a romantic sense, but if you are very clear how incredibly happy you are with your current relationship then you shouldn’t have any of these “Cancer stalker” incidents people keep describing.
I hope this helps!
JANEILL KEEP YALL POSTED
You are allowed, I would think, to wonder about people who have been in your life, on a friendship capacity. As long as the lines are drawn... as long as you are committed and honest with everyone,Your lover cannot rule you like that.It is quite disrespectful of your feelings.I would have a huge problem with that facet of it.... but then I have issues with privacy and being my own person and trust and sharing in an equal way.Yes, it is nice to be loved to such a degree... yet.... also I am glad you recognize that is his insecurity, not protection of your best interests.I would talk to your current beau about his issues with it, and let him know if you intend to email or get into contact with your old friend.. keep him involved so he sees you are simply concerned and curious.His needs can't eclipse yours, or else resentment will build.It very simply will.
Poor old Cancer probably didn't know what hit him. Maybe he had some intentions, but that wasn't the way to shoot him down.
Not your fault I suppose really, but you current boyfriend seems a little "unhinged". That was your decision to make alone.
Swerve
------------------Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra
*´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start
I have similar issues w my partner ): I care about him very much, but constantly reassuring his insecurities can be draining and exhausting. Remain true to yourself so you don't lose yourself.
He MAY need a nudge into the future, rather than trying to recover a special feeling between you, which was IN THE PAST. You have to decide, in which way would you be doing him the greater favor. You have no problem sort of going back and forth in the time machine, but it's not the same for Cancers. You must consider that.
There are still past experiences which feel just as raw as they did years ago, yet, going back to relive it would NOT make it any easier unless I knew that a relationship would be free and easy. Or else, it will just open the wound again.
------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness
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