Well I'll to make this as brief as possible. I've tried to describe this relationship in a few other topics, but here goes:So about 7 months ago I kept seeing (literally) this guy around campus. I would be in the library and watch him talking to the people at the reference desk; I saw him coming down the stairs opposite me once; we even crossed paths one afternoon and he was singing along to his discman. Let's just say this was love at first sight, because I was so incredibly intrigued by this person.. it was a feeling like no other I had felt before. And I felt connected to him, yet we had never spoken, and he probably wasn't aware of my existence.
Three months later.. just at the end of January I was at McDonalds (a little inibriated might I add) and I saw him there. I was with my friends and I pointed him out in shock and she of course quickly ran up to talk to him. She introduced us and he asked for my number (!). We talked a lot online and over the phone, and lo and behold he is totally into astrology as well. However, he is a Cancer-Leo cusp (depending on your interpretations).
We went on several dates and I basically had the best few weeks of my life, and I told him all about how I felt a connection with him and how I saw him so many times around campus. Things were great.
Then bam he started being distant. He got sick so we couldn't see each other, then it was school work bogging him down, etc. He was moody and I would ask what was wrong and he'd say things like "too much to speak about." But if I ever asked if it was about me, he would be almost shocked that I would imagine such a thing. So there I was, losing the person I had felt so connected to, right before my eyes. He didn't seem to realize that I am not THAT strong a person.
I ended up writing him a letter, and finally, after a month of not seeing him he started talking again and apologized for his behaviour. Told me I was incredible but he was no good for me, etc. I said I would be willing to help him out and be there for him because I would rather struggle in life than have something fake and unfulfilling. He said he felt disconnected from people and everything and that he just didn't want to make the effort anymore. I insisted (perhaps blindly) that I could handle him if he would stick it out.
We then went on more dates and I even met his close friends who I get along with perfectly. However, this past 2 weeks have been back to the moodiness and lack of communication. It's as if I don't exist. I am so confused and lost with this whole situation. I have been looking into Cancer-Leo a lot lately and although there is the potential for a strong relationship with a Sag like me, it requires effort from both parties.
Anyway here's our info:
Me:
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Sagittarius 23°46'32 05 direct
Moon Gemini 21°08'20 11 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 08°46'43 05 direct
Venus Scorpio 11°47'55 04 direct
Mars Pisces 13°39'28 08 direct
Jupiter Pisces 15°17'44 08 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 13°33'03 05 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 22°38'19 05 direct
Neptune Capricorn 05°05'07 05 direct
Pluto Scorpio 09°00'56 04 direct
True Node Aries 18°43'37 09 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 09°18'08
2nd House Leo 29°15'24
3rd House Virgo 24°01'32
Imum Coeli Libra 25°38'00
5th House Sagittarius 02°52'13
6th House Capricorn 09°00'11
Descendant Aquarius 09°18'08
8th House Aquarius 29°15'24
9th House Pisces 24°01'32
Medium Coeli Aries 25°38'00
11th House Gemini 02°52'13
12th House Cancer 09°00'11
Him:
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Leo 01°17'47 12 direct
Moon Pisces 12°09'34 07 direct
Mercury Cancer 29°35'45 12 retrograde
Venus Virgo 14°23'41 01 direct
Mars Capricorn 13°46'21 05 retrograde
Jupiter Pisces 22°37'57 08 retrograde
Saturn Sagittarius 03°12'50 04 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 18°50'03 04 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 03°42'31 05 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 04°33'40 03 direct
True Node Aries 24°36'28 09 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 27°00'48
2nd House Virgo 18°23'46
3rd House Libra 15°22'22
Imum Coeli Scorpio 18°40'28
5th House Sagittarius 25°18'02
6th House Capricorn 28°51'22
Descendant Aquarius 27°00'48
8th House Pisces 18°23'46
9th House Aries 15°22'22
Medium Coeli Taurus 18°40'28
11th House Gemini 25°18'02
12th House Cancer 28°51'22
Sorry for the long, depressing post; I don't wanna lose this one! Any insight would be greatly appreciated.