Hi PaidVacation, I have this too-It does not really help at first with like-minded people as my mother has this aspect and we did not speak for many years. We both needed to be grounded and find ourselves. What is good is that I had to work through a lot of guilt about other people-without her influence and now I do not feel so taken advantage of (except by a Pisces).I do notice when my boundaries are crossed, and I have no guilt about making money which was a huge problem when I was younger.
Now I attract tons of people and make money off them with no qualms. Anything I do with people makes me happy and produces, however I have to remember everyday that I am the consumer and I am not there to serve others.
At one point in my life I rewrote myself-rewriting my life plan and cutting everyone I knew out in order to start over.
I've had to do this several times at the end of relationships.
I do not become rich through romantic relationships but then again I don't do well in them as well as friendships. That is because the 7th is ruled by Gemini. I'm not lighthearted by nature so I need to have positive energy all the time.
I did attract wealthy partners at first now I attract those with more friends than money.
As for my mother she had a very tough time of it, and needed to work through many issues with money as she did not benefit in her marriage except through her children.
Which was tough because I left for years.
She did benefit through her parents and friends, and I the same as I will inherit.
My "life" partners do produce wealth for me but they were not necessarily romantic partners. They usually wanted to feel good about themselves.
I feel too much pressure for now to be in a romantic relationship full-time.
I do attract those who want to change me and at one time I changed my hair colour several times. I am much happier when I write my own destiny but it's a struggle. Poeple around me seem to be so down on themselves.
What I tell my mother is what I tell myself is to surround yourself with happy people no matter what, it's critical to be secure about your own identity.
Her sun is in Scorpio opposite her Gemini Ascendant, my Sun is Taurus opposite Sag Ascendant so we are involved in the same things but we fight too.
I do not believe having Sun opposite Ascendant is the same as having many planets in the 7th, it's not partner oriented. It's more losing yourself in a role, what others expect.