Hi Belage, thanks a lot for your reply. Especially your thoughts concerning my Vesta and the transits to it - I had the feeling that my transits are not as "romantic" as the transits for him ... But I had no clear perception of Vesta's meaning - and now got a clue, thanks to your ideas.Also THANKS A LOT for checking out that former thread of mine ... !!!
Actually I am Pluto and he is Venus - my Pluto conjuncts his Venus. And ... it was me who broke-up the relationship - possibly quite to his surprise. (I am suffering from the break-up, though). It was as if ... at the end of it it was me played took "the laeding role" in a way ... contrary to the whole relationship, which was more ruled by him.
And - YES! Transiting Jupiter trines his Pluto during this time! What do you see from that? He has his Pluto in his 12th house, cj. his natal Uranus - and opposing his natal Saturn in his 6th. I looked that up in his chart: The Pluto-Saturn-opposition is the tightest aspect (most exact) in his natal chart. Maybe that's where his "control freak traits" stem from ...
BECAUSE I was the one who broke-up I am afraid why life/fate/karma brings me back into his surroundings now - it's a different country, a small town ... WHY??? I have struggled hard, during the last 3 months to get all over this. In any case, I'll be in a weak/insecure situation there ... will have to try to avoid to meet him, will have to "hide" myself a bit in this town - and also hope not to meet one of his friends coincidentally.
All I want to do is to do my work - and leave all that behind me.
Or maybe ... not?
Worst thing would be to see him with someone new, a new woman on his side.
But ... I couldn't tear that job offer down. It is just for 3.5 weeks ... and all this coincidence is TOO INTRIGUING and I am TOO ADVENTUROUS not to want to study, what this challenge has in store for me ...
But ... I don't want to suffer, of course!
Belage - should you feel like adding another thought or advice ... or anyone else ... it would help me a lot! Only 5 more days, before I must got there.