Hi Everyone,Very interesting topic Lara! Thanks it's food for thought - relationship or spiritual connection patterns.
Worst relationship - ex
Ascendant Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Gemini
Mars libra
Venus Aquarius
First romantic relationship
Ascendant Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Venus Scopio
Mars Aquarius
Treated me like a Queen
Ascendant Capricorn
Sun Stagittarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Stagittarius
Deep spiritual connection- Airport guy
Ascendant Capricorn
Sun Capricorn
Moon Pisces
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Soul Mate
Ascendant Scorpio
Sun Capricorn cusp Aquarius
Moon Tarus
Venus Sagitarius
Mars Scorpio
It's great to look at patterns on paper. First,I wrote out my details to have an overview look at patterns. I am amazed at how I am attracted to certain types of men! For me, I have discovered the best relationship is intense sexually,emotionally and spiritually. I want a committed (Venus Taurus) to spiritual growth, intense yet eccentric (Mars Aquarius) and independent ( give me alot of space and freedom)free and fun loving man. Of course, in addition, a man who has honourable character.
My info:
Ascendant Pisces
Sun libra cusp Scorpio
Moon Capricorn
Venus Taurus
Mars Aquarius
The worst relationship, destructive and abusive, has many air elements. No wonder, why I felt like the relationship was going no where but square one! Too much air for me. Yes, definitely in denial about this one (Pisces ascendant) with rose coloured eye glassess. Best decision I made was to leave. Not listening to my intuition cost alot. If I had listened to my intuition I would have left alot sooner instead of years later (Moon Capricorn and Venus Taurus fixed stubborness..lol). I had this dream that my Dad said, that something was wrong with his head. Right on..lol....no need to mix words. There was something definitely wrong with his head!
First romantic relationship was intense sexually but with alot of freedom and independence (both with Mars in Aquarius). I never felt jealous in the relationship. We were good friends. We are better off as friends than lovers. But, don't me wrong the sex life was fulfilling and raunchy! I have no complaints in the sex deparment. It's just that he knew we were not Soul Mates and was committed to finding his purpose in life, Soul Mate and studies! Bascially, he knew what he wanted and went after it ( Sun and Venus Scorpio). He was eccentric in a loving detached Mars Aquarius way. Best decision I made was to stay good friends.
The guy who treated me like a Queen is now married but we remain good friends. But the chemistry was one - sided. I didn't feel romantic chemistry with him but was really great buddies with him. We would have overnight discussions,debates ( Sun and Moon in Stagittarius ) and alot of fun. He gave me alot of independence. We use to live together as students - roomates but he was really hurt that I went out with another guy as he had strong romantic feelings for me. I thought he was my Soul Mate but I didn't understand why there was no sexual chemistry. I still love him but not in love with him.
But, fate had other ideas with the one who treated me like a Queen. With his moon in scorpio he was intensly committed to his studies and perserved and got his degree. He was only 21 years old when I met him but, he had an mature head on his shoulders
(Capricorn Ascendent and Venus in Capricorn). Very stable, serious, mature yet fun loving guy (Sun stagittrius).
Sydney International Airport guy I met just over a year ago that I had a strong chemistry and spiritual connection has Sun Capricorn and Ascendant in Capricorn. He seemed very serious about his studies and an old soul. With Moon, Venus and Mars in Pisces we had a very strong physic-spiritual-connection. But there was sexaul chemistry there too. However, what was missing was a deep soul connection meaning the windows of the soul - eyes connection. Sun conjuntion Moon connection and Sun trine Moon ( his Sun Capricorn conjunct Moon Capricorn and mine Sun Scorpio trine his Moon). Thanks 8th Moon you are right we have strong Sun Pyshic connection. You are really good without knowing Sun - Moon aspects!
Soul Mate - book shelf guy our Suns are compatible ( his - Capricorn cusp Aquarius -mine Sun Libra cusp Scorpio). With him, I have the best of both worlds seriousness,mature yet freedom loving,intellectual and eccentric. With Soul Mate his Mars opposite my Venus in Taurus there is definitely chemistry! In addition, with this aspect we both love ranchy sex! However, I have Venus in Taurus and want ranchy sex in a committmed relationship. Definitely, this above opposition is a soul -test regarding sexually committed relationship. Also, my Mars sexiles his Venus. His Sun conjuncts Mars (Mine: Sun conjucts his Mars) and there is a great deal of passion and sexual chemistry between us. However, I don't need astrology to know that we are Soul Mates it's just a knowing within. But, it's very interesting to chart relationship patterns to show the vaildilaty of astrology, insight of aspects indicators and intuition!
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