It's a chart of a northen birth, I've seen it before. It makes sense, she was born in Central Norway.Equal House would change some of the placements but for those that prefer this house system, it won't alter my answer because I am going to hone in on the 7th house.
And that is .. the ruler of the descendant is the Moon because it is in the sign Cancer. There is is at the bottom of the chart in impatient Aries. The good thing about Aries Moon is that is articulates what it wants and what it feels, it tends not to leave people in doubt. However, here, it is Opposite Pluto.
Moon/Pluto is a heavy duty placement. I know, I have it too, the Conjunction. We are in good company, a lot of LindaLanders have Moon/Pluto placements strong on their charts. Moon/Pluto is greedy, insatiable in its emotions. It tends to hide some of its intensity, but it's there alright.
You want depth and intensity in a relationship (Moon/Pluto). You want a soulmate, and you want one now (Moon Aries). But life doesn't work that way.
Yes, you need that bit of luck, that bit of luck that has eluded you so far. But part of the problem might be in you, in your urgent need.
How do you come across to the potential soulmates? It might put them off that after meeting you and maybe going on a couple of dates you are already scrutinising them to see if they are potential soulmates. If they don't go for the terminology of soul mates, they might think they are being sized up to see if they are marriageable. That is enough to make some men run off screaming.
You're 34, no, that's not that young, but you're hardly past it. You're still young, and when friends of mine have settled down in their mid to late 30s, it seemed quite normal to me although my life panned out differently. Maybe if you relax a little, the energy might flow your way more easily.
The Cancer Descendant in itself is interesting. It suggests what you are looking for in a partner is emotional security. The Pluto/Venus I think is quite wide, but if you feel it and it is effecting you, then bear it in mind as well.
Saturn on the Descendant I think is going to make you come across as quite serious. I don't think it means you are destined to have bad luck in relationships. It is probably more that you come across as a having serious intent, and not being interested in time wasters. That might be daunting to potential suitors, but it is also a good filter.