How'd you get to be so fiesty, it feels like Scorpio's "charm"......OK, Just for our dear Ami,
1. astro.com go to free horoscopes
2. extended chart selection
3. 3rd group option "Pullen/astrolog"
4. select "sign/house dispositor graph"
you'll get something like this,
OK, see the circled planets those are the dispositors.
The left is for the planets based on rulerships.
The right is for the houses based on natural house rulerships, not the sign on the cusp.
Read the charts from the bottom up, and you'll see that in the on the left Venus and Saturn take over the whole chart, every planet in expression will ultimately end up back at Venus in mutual reception with Saturn. In this chart it's important that Venus and Saturn stay in good working order because if they start to get out of hand, it will start to throw off the chart and the energies will not be working as well as they could. Think of it like a drain being clogged.
You have Mercury dignified 'at home' in Gemini, so it'll be circled on your graph. It's important to look at aspects of dignifed planets to make sure they stay in good working order, since they're more their own network, if you will.
The house graphic is read from the bottom up, you see Uranus n Neptune at the bottom both leading up to the Sun, in this chart Uranus and Neptune are in house 5, which is naturally ruled by the Sun, note that here we're not paying attention to the sign on the cusp. And the chain goes on until it ends at the top, there are 2 planets there. This is because Venus is in one of Mercury's houses and Mercury is in one of Venus's houses. Do you think that Mercury and Venus in this chart have special relationship even if they're not in aspect? Yes they do since they're related by house dispositorship.
Some charts have 1 final dispositor, if there's a mutual reception it's likely that that those 2 will be the final dispositors.
Traditionally if there's more than 2, there is no 'real' final dispositor, I think mutual reception like this one is counted since the pair acts as one.
Each chart is unique. That's why even if you have 4 dispositors, if they're dignified then its aspects become v. important in the chart since its energy can easily run away with itself; it thinks it owns the place.