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T O P I C R E V I E WPlutoSquaredI've been reading everyone's posts about Venus retrograde, sitting back and figuring I was "out of the loop", and maybe one of the lucky ones that this particular transit would not effect...Haha. Yep.So, a MARRIED ex-boyfriend over the last week has changed our very superficial conversations into an opportunity to profess his old love for me, his disatisfaction with his current marriage, and pretty much dump all of this old stuff on me...He's offered to fly me out to see him, more times than I can count. In spite of telling him that he owes it to his current relationship to figure that out before he even tries to start one with me (which he was receptive to hearing, but much depressed by) he seems to want to continue this dialogue.Obviously, I realize this has everything to do with the Venus Retrograde thing, but looking further into his chart, he has some major transits that are going to start effecting his home life in the next 30 - 90 days.I'm a little freaked out that I'm going to be swept into this, whether I like it or not.I don't want to lose him as a friend, as he has been a very constant and helpful one over the years. But, I'm a little concerned for him, his wife, his whole life, and everything else that has the potential of blowing up, very soon.Also, fyi, he has Venus in Scorpio.Jeez.seeleahhonestly...I hear you and I worry too sweetie..wait to see how you both feel after the retrograde...try not to engage if you can..*hugs* I konw this is hard and I can't even follow my own advice, ended back up with my ex bf, but no marriages were ruined this time.good luck hon.LionessPlutosquaredIm sure he "feels" whats coming to his relationship.. He prob knows something big is going to happen... I was wondering if you checked your transits with yours and his composite or transits with the first meeting chart.. I did this and found a lot of similarities. My ex was from 13 years ago.. When we met Jupiter was at the end of Pisces (as it is now) Venus and Mars were conjunct (as it is now, but in cancer at that time) At that time Uranus and Neptune were conjunct both in Rx now Uranus and Jupiter conjunct... All 3 were in rx as they are now.. Mercury was in Rx then, and now its venus... Were going back to see if there are still feelings...Just to name a few.. Even though I know we will remain in contact for a long time.I dont see this being long term.. but Im REALLY glad this happen... I got some answers I needed... So I can only say Thank u, Universe.. What Im trying to figure out, is what makes one person contact the other.. How is that person chosen.. I have been finding similarities with the transits in my case. PlutoSquaredThank you, Lioness. I am going to post that composite chart with the transits.That's a really interesting idea!I'm glad you've gotten some closure with your ex. From what I read of your post, I really felt that it was best for you to move on, too. So, good luck to you.PlutoSquaredComposite Charts w/transits, for anyone's analysis.December 31st, 2001: October 17th, 2010: LionessWell Im still have a sleep,but Im looking.. IDK how much I can see right now... lolBack then C.Venus conjunct T.Venus Sun/ T.Chironnow C.Venus conjunt Pluto and NN.T. Chiron oppps C.NNInteresting.. Another thing I notice is me (also you and ur guy) and my ex also has C. planets in Cancer. Which trines all the current scoprio transits...I did a first meeting chart and a reunion chart (synastry style) and found some interesting aspects.. If u rememeber try that also.. Here take a look and look at the similaries, and also whats changed.. Its the same yet different.. Opposite houses etc.. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/205781.html As for me ex.. I KNOW he's not going to jus "walk" away.. I know we will remain in contact for a long time.. It took me 2 years after wards to get him to stop calling me.. I had to eventually change my number and totally cut him off.. So Im sure I will still be posting about him..lol What was the hardest for me, was remembering the awesome connection we had.. I wanted that connection back.. We had amazing chemistry, only he's changed and I have changed, and I get cant the past hurt out of my head around him.. Im very suspicions of him, and I dont want to be like that.. I feel as if everything he tells me is a lie.. I jus dont believe anything he says.. We actually had an argument about sex...(we havent done anything) He called me the next day and apologized.. but idk it was jus weird... Whats funny is I checked his progressed chart, bc I was thinking how different he was and how egotist he is now, and how he keeps telling me he's more direct and he's some much more good looking now and how all the girls jus want to come and touch his arms.. I was thinking WTF... is his problem, where did this new attitude come from. I sooooo dont like this side of him at ALL.. Well he's progressed to a Leo.. (ok, I know its funny) His sun is at 4 Leo.. He truly is acting like an immature Leo.. Its annoying. (no offense to myself.. lol) He even asked me out one night wit him and his friends, he told me to dress super sexy and have cleavage showing, so his "friends" can see what he's got... WTF!! But well Im a Leo...so of course I did it.. The attention was super cool!!! lolololololol... I dint dress sluty, but I did dress with showing jus enough to tease.. Ok soooo this Lioness was cool wit it! PlutoSquaredHaha, Lioness. Funny about the cleavage.Yeah, I noticed about the n.node and pluto conjunt c. venus...I'm leary of pluto conjunctions.PlutoSquaredThanks Seelah. Hopefully everything goes well with you!
Haha. Yep.
So, a MARRIED ex-boyfriend over the last week has changed our very superficial conversations into an opportunity to profess his old love for me, his disatisfaction with his current marriage, and pretty much dump all of this old stuff on me...
He's offered to fly me out to see him, more times than I can count.
In spite of telling him that he owes it to his current relationship to figure that out before he even tries to start one with me (which he was receptive to hearing, but much depressed by) he seems to want to continue this dialogue.
Obviously, I realize this has everything to do with the Venus Retrograde thing, but looking further into his chart, he has some major transits that are going to start effecting his home life in the next 30 - 90 days.
I'm a little freaked out that I'm going to be swept into this, whether I like it or not.
I don't want to lose him as a friend, as he has been a very constant and helpful one over the years. But, I'm a little concerned for him, his wife, his whole life, and everything else that has the potential of blowing up, very soon.
Also, fyi, he has Venus in Scorpio.
Jeez.
good luck hon.
Im sure he "feels" whats coming to his relationship.. He prob knows something big is going to happen...
I was wondering if you checked your transits with yours and his composite or transits with the first meeting chart..
I did this and found a lot of similarities. My ex was from 13 years ago.. When we met Jupiter was at the end of Pisces (as it is now) Venus and Mars were conjunct (as it is now, but in cancer at that time) At that time Uranus and Neptune were conjunct both in Rx now Uranus and Jupiter conjunct... All 3 were in rx as they are now.. Mercury was in Rx then, and now its venus... Were going back to see if there are still feelings...
Just to name a few..
Even though I know we will remain in contact for a long time.I dont see this being long term.. but Im REALLY glad this happen... I got some answers I needed... So I can only say Thank u, Universe..
What Im trying to figure out, is what makes one person contact the other.. How is that person chosen.. I have been finding similarities with the transits in my case.
That's a really interesting idea!
I'm glad you've gotten some closure with your ex. From what I read of your post, I really felt that it was best for you to move on, too. So, good luck to you.
December 31st, 2001:
October 17th, 2010:
Back then C.Venus conjunct T.Venus Sun/ T.Chironnow C.Venus conjunt Pluto and NN.T. Chiron oppps C.NN
Interesting..
Another thing I notice is me (also you and ur guy) and my ex also has C. planets in Cancer. Which trines all the current scoprio transits...
I did a first meeting chart and a reunion chart (synastry style) and found some interesting aspects.. If u rememeber try that also.. Here take a look and look at the similaries, and also whats changed.. Its the same yet different.. Opposite houses etc.. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/205781.html
As for me ex.. I KNOW he's not going to jus "walk" away.. I know we will remain in contact for a long time.. It took me 2 years after wards to get him to stop calling me.. I had to eventually change my number and totally cut him off.. So Im sure I will still be posting about him..lol
What was the hardest for me, was remembering the awesome connection we had.. I wanted that connection back.. We had amazing chemistry, only he's changed and I have changed, and I get cant the past hurt out of my head around him.. Im very suspicions of him, and I dont want to be like that.. I feel as if everything he tells me is a lie.. I jus dont believe anything he says.. We actually had an argument about sex...(we havent done anything) He called me the next day and apologized.. but idk it was jus weird...
Whats funny is I checked his progressed chart, bc I was thinking how different he was and how egotist he is now, and how he keeps telling me he's more direct and he's some much more good looking now and how all the girls jus want to come and touch his arms.. I was thinking WTF... is his problem, where did this new attitude come from. I sooooo dont like this side of him at ALL.. Well he's progressed to a Leo.. (ok, I know its funny) His sun is at 4 Leo.. He truly is acting like an immature Leo.. Its annoying. (no offense to myself.. lol) He even asked me out one night wit him and his friends, he told me to dress super sexy and have cleavage showing, so his "friends" can see what he's got... WTF!! But well Im a Leo...so of course I did it.. The attention was super cool!!! lolololololol... I dint dress sluty, but I did dress with showing jus enough to tease.. Ok soooo this Lioness was cool wit it!
Yeah, I noticed about the n.node and pluto conjunt c. venus...
I'm leary of pluto conjunctions.
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