Here's the strange thing (and I am wondering if this is the neptune aspect or not, I am doing LOTS of thinking about this and everything it relates to).When I first met him within 2 seconds I thought "nope, not physically attracted", which is a red flag because (as much as I don't like it), that part is the most important thing to me. Then I found myself over meeting him, that I was actually rather attracted to him. Then a few days later, it just... died. The physical attraction is gone, and I don't know why it vanished but it did. Anyway I digress.
In synastry it's actually not that good of a matchup. His sun and moon square my sun and mercury. His saturn also sits directly on top of my ascendent, and his ascendent opposes all of my gemini planets.
I have heard someone describe venus opposing neptune as "beautiful illusions" and I am wondering if that is what drove the attraction in the first place.
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It's All Elemental
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My Chart if relevant