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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
and lava, it is sooo hard, you want to get away but you just can't let go, why i dont kow
curious, how long have you been feeling that way for him? Have things changed at least a bit? Is it even mutual..?
Cause here is the thing: most Saturn connections never even become relationships and if they do, they seem to end in a disaster.
And are you sure you "love" him? Isn't it just you idealizing the guy? Again, don't mean to offend *at all*, it's just that I've seen it SO many times, and I've been there myself. And it never goes the way we want it to. I say, if it takes so much effort to even make *something* out of it, let it go, unless you wanna get stuck for half your life in limbo, wondering, waiting.
I don't know much about your situation so don't take this into consideration if you and your guy actually have a real connection and if you talk/date; but here is what I think:
If someone WANTS to be with you, they will make a move, forget about the insecurity/shyness BS.
And it seems that the Saturn person often ends up resenting/hating the personal planet person.. or so I've seen.
Could go either way, I guess.
Again, this may not apply to you, but I kinda want to let that out there.
Don't waste your time, you deserve happiness (anyone reading this, btw).