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Topic: One-Sided Saturn Relationship
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JLyn ~ Knowflake Posts: 602 From: my state of mind Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 12:55 AM
"In synsatry with only person bringing the Saturn"My Saturn is sextile the other persons sun, mercury, and venus ~ looks stable huh? but does the other planet person feel glued to make it work? or would it be me feeling it more? How would this play this out IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 739 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 15, 2012 12:58 AM
my venus squares his saturn. I feel love for him beyond human comprehension. I really feel glued to him. we are not even together.IP: Logged |
JLyn ~ Knowflake Posts: 602 From: my state of mind Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 01:06 AM
So it's the planet person that feels the pull more?IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 6094 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 15, 2012 01:48 AM
both people feel it! the saturn person is slightly more dedicated but both people are dedicated to each other, the planet responds with dedication to the saturn person's loyalty and constancy------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 02:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: my venus squares his saturn. I feel love for him beyond human comprehension. I really feel glued to him. we are not even together.
I feel for you, I've been there. IP: Logged |
bumblebee Knowflake Posts: 118 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 15, 2012 02:22 AM
His saturn conjunct my ascendant, mine unaspected. But there is other strong synastry aspects that makes me sooo in love and obsessed with himIP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 739 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 15, 2012 02:51 AM
and lava, it is sooo hard, you want to get away but you just can't let go, why i dont kowIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 740 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 08:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: my venus squares his saturn. I feel love for him beyond human comprehension. I really feel glued to him. we are not even together.
I have venus conjunct saturn. It is my saturn conjunct his venus. I feel like how you described. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2285 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 15, 2012 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: and lava, it is sooo hard, you want to get away but you just can't let go, why i dont kow
curious, how long have you been feeling that way for him? Have things changed at least a bit? Is it even mutual..? Cause here is the thing: most Saturn connections never even become relationships and if they do, they seem to end in a disaster.
And are you sure you "love" him? Isn't it just you idealizing the guy? Again, don't mean to offend *at all*, it's just that I've seen it SO many times, and I've been there myself. And it never goes the way we want it to. I say, if it takes so much effort to even make *something* out of it, let it go, unless you wanna get stuck for half your life in limbo, wondering, waiting.
I don't know much about your situation so don't take this into consideration if you and your guy actually have a real connection and if you talk/date; but here is what I think: If someone WANTS to be with you, they will make a move, forget about the insecurity/shyness BS. And it seems that the Saturn person often ends up resenting/hating the personal planet person.. or so I've seen. Could go either way, I guess. Again, this may not apply to you, but I kinda want to let that out there. Don't waste your time, you deserve happiness (anyone reading this, btw). IP: Logged |
Gemmy Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 05:35 PM
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quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 334 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted October 15, 2012 05:49 PM
Yes long term relationships do need Saturn contacts. Without a sense of duty we're just gonna up and leave as soon as the going gets tough. Saturn can be slow to commit, and the other planet person can be reluctant too, but once it binds ~ it binds. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 739 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 15, 2012 09:05 PM
Hi Doux Reve. Thank you for your post, I really appreciate it and I 100% agree with what you wrote. IP: Logged |