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T O P I C R E V I E WMangoDo you identify your mother or father with your 10th house placements?Debby4Yes. Both my parents were very critical and detail orientated. Virgo 10th houselalalindaHello Mango! Welcome to LL Personally, my Father is my 10th House and my Mother is the 4th.It's not unusual to see this reversed,much depends on what role your parents take.------------------"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995Doux RêvePersonally,Mother = 4thFather = 10thBut it can definitely be the reverse!MangoWould the main parent be the 10th or 4th?Doux RêveThe 10th house is the career house, so the parent who worked / provided for the family is usually seen in the 10th.The 4th house is the house of the home, comfort, and family. So whoever stayed at home and took care of the kids is usually shown by the 4th house.Sometimes, the father is shown by the 4th house, even if he wasn't at home much. If the IC sign / aspects to the 4th house ruler correspond to the father's chart / personality, then that's that. It's not easy to determine for someone you don't know well or just by looking at a chart. But you can usually know when it's about your own parents.For example, my IC is Cancer, and the ruler is Moon in Virgo, in the 5th.My mother has Sun in Leo (= my Moon is in 5th house) in the 4th (= my Cancer IC) and Virgo Mercury conjunct Pluto (my Moon in Virgo). OTOH, my MC is in Capricorn. Saturn is in Aquarius in the 11th, and my father has Moon in Aquarius and growing up, he was barely home. He was cold, and eventually left the house (Saturn / Uranus).Faith^ That sounds tough, Doux. I think my 10H is my mother. Her Mars in Capricorn was conjunct my sun, and for most of my life, she seemed to be working harder than my father (who wasn't lazy, but had some career difficulties and then semi-retired in his mid-sixties, when I was a teen.)My father was a late-degree Libra, his sun was close to my 2 Scorpio IC. I have Uranus, NN, and Venus (conjunct my father's Saturn) in my 4H. Because my father lived longer than my mother, it seems fitting to me that my SN is in the 10H, that I associate more with my mom, and my NN is in the 4H. I spent more time with my dad, cultivating NN traits.(edited after I checked my birth chart)LunaePisces/Virgo MC/IC. My parents have similar qualities to my MC/IC cusps. My mom is the realistic, detail-oriented and OC type while my dad is sort of the dreamer between them. It's interesting though that my dad has a Virgo asc, and my mom has a Pisces venus. :> peregrinemy tenth is cancer last degree. the rest is all leo. my moon is there. my mom was in charge of parenting me for most of my life. she has cancer asc and mars.my dad's sag stellium falls in my h2 tho. support.my grandparents r my ic for me. my astrologer did the interp for the latter 2.Doux Rêve quote:Originally posted by Faith:^ That sounds tough, Doux. Thank you, Faith I appreciate your concern!It was tough, but eventually one has to evolve and grow out of past suffering and resentment. It's an ongoing process. Your life hasn't been a piece of cake, either, from what it seems. So, kudos to you for being so strong and keeping that positivity within you!
Personally, my Father is my 10th House and my Mother is the 4th.
It's not unusual to see this reversed,much depends on what role your parents take.
------------------"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995
Mother = 4thFather = 10th
But it can definitely be the reverse!
The 4th house is the house of the home, comfort, and family. So whoever stayed at home and took care of the kids is usually shown by the 4th house.
Sometimes, the father is shown by the 4th house, even if he wasn't at home much. If the IC sign / aspects to the 4th house ruler correspond to the father's chart / personality, then that's that. It's not easy to determine for someone you don't know well or just by looking at a chart. But you can usually know when it's about your own parents.
For example, my IC is Cancer, and the ruler is Moon in Virgo, in the 5th.
My mother has Sun in Leo (= my Moon is in 5th house) in the 4th (= my Cancer IC) and Virgo Mercury conjunct Pluto (my Moon in Virgo).
OTOH, my MC is in Capricorn. Saturn is in Aquarius in the 11th, and my father has Moon in Aquarius and growing up, he was barely home. He was cold, and eventually left the house (Saturn / Uranus).
I think my 10H is my mother. Her Mars in Capricorn was conjunct my sun, and for most of my life, she seemed to be working harder than my father (who wasn't lazy, but had some career difficulties and then semi-retired in his mid-sixties, when I was a teen.)
My father was a late-degree Libra, his sun was close to my 2 Scorpio IC. I have Uranus, NN, and Venus (conjunct my father's Saturn) in my 4H.
Because my father lived longer than my mother, it seems fitting to me that my SN is in the 10H, that I associate more with my mom, and my NN is in the 4H. I spent more time with my dad, cultivating NN traits.
(edited after I checked my birth chart)
My parents have similar qualities to my MC/IC cusps. My mom is the realistic, detail-oriented and OC type while my dad is sort of the dreamer between them.
It's interesting though that my dad has a Virgo asc, and my mom has a Pisces venus. :>
my dad's sag stellium falls in my h2 tho. support.
my grandparents r my ic for me.
my astrologer did the interp for the latter 2.
quote:Originally posted by Faith:^ That sounds tough, Doux.
Thank you, Faith I appreciate your concern!
It was tough, but eventually one has to evolve and grow out of past suffering and resentment. It's an ongoing process.
Your life hasn't been a piece of cake, either, from what it seems. So, kudos to you for being so strong and keeping that positivity within you!
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