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Mango Knowflake Posts: 33 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 15, 2013 07:59 AM
Do you identify your mother or father with your 10th house placements?
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Debby4 Knowflake Posts: 643 From: TX,USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 16, 2013 01:06 AM
Yes. Both my parents were very critical and detail orientated. Virgo 10th houseIP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 3016 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2013 02:40 AM
Hello Mango! Welcome to LL Personally, my Father is my 10th House and my Mother is the 4th. It's not unusual to see this reversed, much depends on what role your parents take. ------------------
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2599 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 16, 2013 06:17 AM
Personally,Mother = 4th Father = 10th But it can definitely be the reverse!
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Mango Knowflake Posts: 33 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 16, 2013 08:52 AM
Would the main parent be the 10th or 4th?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2599 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 16, 2013 09:00 AM
The 10th house is the career house, so the parent who worked / provided for the family is usually seen in the 10th.The 4th house is the house of the home, comfort, and family. So whoever stayed at home and took care of the kids is usually shown by the 4th house. Sometimes, the father is shown by the 4th house, even if he wasn't at home much. If the IC sign / aspects to the 4th house ruler correspond to the father's chart / personality, then that's that. It's not easy to determine for someone you don't know well or just by looking at a chart. But you can usually know when it's about your own parents.
For example, my IC is Cancer, and the ruler is Moon in Virgo, in the 5th. My mother has Sun in Leo (= my Moon is in 5th house) in the 4th (= my Cancer IC) and Virgo Mercury conjunct Pluto (my Moon in Virgo). OTOH, my MC is in Capricorn. Saturn is in Aquarius in the 11th, and my father has Moon in Aquarius and growing up, he was barely home. He was cold, and eventually left the house (Saturn / Uranus).
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 4060 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 16, 2013 10:26 AM
^ That sounds tough, Doux. I think my 10H is my mother. Her Mars in Capricorn was conjunct my sun, and for most of my life, she seemed to be working harder than my father (who wasn't lazy, but had some career difficulties and then semi-retired in his mid-sixties, when I was a teen.) My father was a late-degree Libra, his sun was close to my 2 Scorpio IC. I have Uranus, NN, and Venus (conjunct my father's Saturn) in my 4H. Because my father lived longer than my mother, it seems fitting to me that my SN is in the 10H, that I associate more with my mom, and my NN is in the 4H. I spent more time with my dad, cultivating NN traits. (edited after I checked my birth chart)
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Lunae Knowflake Posts: 308 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 16, 2013 10:27 AM
Pisces/Virgo MC/IC. My parents have similar qualities to my MC/IC cusps. My mom is the realistic, detail-oriented and OC type while my dad is sort of the dreamer between them. It's interesting though that my dad has a Virgo asc, and my mom has a Pisces venus. :> IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2261 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 16, 2013 11:18 AM
my tenth is cancer last degree. the rest is all leo. my moon is there. my mom was in charge of parenting me for most of my life. she has cancer asc and mars.my dad's sag stellium falls in my h2 tho. support. my grandparents r my ic for me. my astrologer did the interp for the latter 2. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2599 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 16, 2013 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: ^ That sounds tough, Doux.
Thank you, Faith I appreciate your concern! It was tough, but eventually one has to evolve and grow out of past suffering and resentment. It's an ongoing process. Your life hasn't been a piece of cake, either, from what it seems. So, kudos to you for being so strong and keeping that positivity within you!
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