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Mango
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posted March 15, 2013 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mango     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you identify your mother or father with your 10th house placements?


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Debby4
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posted March 16, 2013 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Debby4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. Both my parents were very critical and detail orientated. Virgo 10th house

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lalalinda
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posted March 16, 2013 02:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Mango! Welcome to LL

Personally, my Father is my 10th House
and my Mother is the 4th.

It's not unusual to see this reversed,
much depends on what role your parents take.

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 16, 2013 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally,

Mother = 4th
Father = 10th


But it can definitely be the reverse!

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Mango
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posted March 16, 2013 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mango     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would the main parent be the 10th or 4th?

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 16, 2013 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The 10th house is the career house, so the parent who worked / provided for the family is usually seen in the 10th.

The 4th house is the house of the home, comfort, and family. So whoever stayed at home and took care of the kids is usually shown by the 4th house.


Sometimes, the father is shown by the 4th house, even if he wasn't at home much. If the IC sign / aspects to the 4th house ruler correspond to the father's chart / personality, then that's that. It's not easy to determine for someone you don't know well or just by looking at a chart. But you can usually know when it's about your own parents.

For example, my IC is Cancer, and the ruler is Moon in Virgo, in the 5th.

My mother has Sun in Leo (= my Moon is in 5th house) in the 4th (= my Cancer IC) and Virgo Mercury conjunct Pluto (my Moon in Virgo).


OTOH, my MC is in Capricorn. Saturn is in Aquarius in the 11th, and my father has Moon in Aquarius and growing up, he was barely home. He was cold, and eventually left the house (Saturn / Uranus).

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Faith
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posted March 16, 2013 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ That sounds tough, Doux.

I think my 10H is my mother. Her Mars in Capricorn was conjunct my sun, and for most of my life, she seemed to be working harder than my father (who wasn't lazy, but had some career difficulties and then semi-retired in his mid-sixties, when I was a teen.)

My father was a late-degree Libra, his sun was close to my 2 Scorpio IC. I have Uranus, NN, and Venus (conjunct my father's Saturn) in my 4H.

Because my father lived longer than my mother, it seems fitting to me that my SN is in the 10H, that I associate more with my mom, and my NN is in the 4H. I spent more time with my dad, cultivating NN traits.

(edited after I checked my birth chart)

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Lunae
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posted March 16, 2013 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces/Virgo MC/IC.

My parents have similar qualities to my MC/IC cusps. My mom is the realistic, detail-oriented and OC type while my dad is sort of the dreamer between them.

It's interesting though that my dad has a Virgo asc, and my mom has a Pisces venus. :>

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peregrine
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posted March 16, 2013 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my tenth is cancer last degree. the rest is all leo. my moon is there. my mom was in charge of parenting me for most of my life. she has cancer asc and mars.

my dad's sag stellium falls in my h2 tho. support.

my grandparents r my ic for me.

my astrologer did the interp for the latter 2.

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 16, 2013 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
^ That sounds tough, Doux.


Thank you, Faith I appreciate your concern!

It was tough, but eventually one has to evolve and grow out of past suffering and resentment. It's an ongoing process.

Your life hasn't been a piece of cake, either, from what it seems. So, kudos to you for being so strong and keeping that positivity within you!

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