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I'm so cappy | What in a synastry makes one or both sides unable to get angry with the other person and makes them feel hurt instead? ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. |
Nicole401 | Anger is hurt in disguise .. |
Rosalind | quote: Originally posted by Nicole401: Anger is hurt in disguise ..
This. |
NeptunianSag | I think moon/mars could play a part in anger |
I'm so cappy | I meant the lack of anger... ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. |
theunknown | I don't know about Synastry but cap venus tend to feel hurt but not anger. It's a "lesson learned" kinda feeling |
DialecticLady | Mars in 12th house? |
summerlite | quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I meant the lack of anger...
sounds like internalised anger. Or you may be too emotionally detached. |
Rosalind | quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I meant the lack of anger...
There is no such thing. All people can get angry and astrologically speaking the lack of anger would mean to deny the existance of Mars. Even in 12th house, Mars is active. The energy might not been as strong as if it would be on angles for example but there it is. In synastry even if Mars is not afflicted and the whole chart is rosy colours ( that's rare anyway), Mars can make the couple feel anger. The synastry per se might be good, composite excellent but musnt forget about TRANSITS and PROGRESSIONS. A temporary affliction to Mars can make the couple not only manifest or feel anger but also leading to break up. If tension is too great especially is Uranus is on the play, one should run. Or both. |
edinburghrose | I agree with Rosalind. No one is exempt from experiencing any particular emotion; however through life's hurts we begin to shut parts of ourselves down, including those feelings that we deem unacceptable. Since we are all part of the universal One, we can't be cut off - we regularly cut ourselves off, though. As for Mars in the 12th, I have mine conjunct my Sun there in Leo, and I went many years hiding away my anger because I thought "nice girls" shouldn't get angry. Just picture the violent emotional eruption/purging period I went through once I decided to be embrace my authenticity and reclaim all parts of my original whole. I liken myself at that time to a volcano that no one previously suspected. |