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Topic: Feeling hurt instead of angry in a synastry
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 3966 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 20, 2013 09:22 PM
What in a synastry makes one or both sides unable to get angry with the other person and makes them feel hurt instead?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 349 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted December 20, 2013 11:16 PM
Anger is hurt in disguise ..IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2637 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 21, 2013 01:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nicole401: Anger is hurt in disguise ..
This. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 356 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 10:27 AM
I think moon/mars could play a part in angerIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 3966 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 21, 2013 12:28 PM
I meant the lack of anger...------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 348 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 21, 2013 12:59 PM
I don't know about Synastry but cap venus tend to feel hurt but not anger. It's a "lesson learned" kinda feeling IP: Logged |
DialecticLady Knowflake Posts: 368 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 01:56 PM
Mars in 12th house?IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 330 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I meant the lack of anger...
sounds like internalised anger. Or you may be too emotionally detached. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2637 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 21, 2013 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I meant the lack of anger...
There is no such thing. All people can get angry and astrologically speaking the lack of anger would mean to deny the existance of Mars. Even in 12th house, Mars is active. The energy might not been as strong as if it would be on angles for example but there it is. In synastry even if Mars is not afflicted and the whole chart is rosy colours ( that's rare anyway), Mars can make the couple feel anger. The synastry per se might be good, composite excellent but musnt forget about TRANSITS and PROGRESSIONS. A temporary affliction to Mars can make the couple not only manifest or feel anger but also leading to break up. If tension is too great especially is Uranus is on the play, one should run. Or both. IP: Logged |
edinburghrose Newflake Posts: 1 From: Canada Registered: Oct 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 03:50 PM
I agree with Rosalind. No one is exempt from experiencing any particular emotion; however through life's hurts we begin to shut parts of ourselves down, including those feelings that we deem unacceptable. Since we are all part of the universal One, we can't be cut off - we regularly cut ourselves off, though.As for Mars in the 12th, I have mine conjunct my Sun there in Leo, and I went many years hiding away my anger because I thought "nice girls" shouldn't get angry. Just picture the violent emotional eruption/purging period I went through once I decided to be embrace my authenticity and reclaim all parts of my original whole. I liken myself at that time to a volcano that no one previously suspected. IP: Logged |