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Solar_Leo_Queen | Say you're a virgin months ago and then you decide to lose it to your SO. A week later, you find out they cheated on you and they dump you. Some people would feel like meh, [rephrased] what happened, happened. No way to change it. But some people would be like all dramatic because they lost it to that person. What aspects in a natal chart would indicate such a person? |
I'm so cappy | Logic error: I wouldn't lose my virginty to someone I have a bad relationship with Generally, it's hard to shrug off being used by someone you trusted so much (and perhaps loved too). Used and cheated on. Even a woman who's been sexually active for a long time would most likely get dramatic. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. |
Gabby | Hard aspects to Neptune in synastry or composite. |
Kerosene | Honestly sounds like harsh Jupiter-Uranus and Mars vs neptune. Everyone blames Neptune for everything..But that does suck, I feel sorry for whoever that happened to |
Gabby | Neptune is what causes us to think something is different than how it really is....it's where we get caught up in a fantasy instead of being able to see reality and them we end up hurt from it. |
Solar_Leo_Queen | I'm curious because my friend had it with her boyfriend. And she can't seem to let go of him. He didn't cheat on her though. They broke up because they got into so much fights. |
sag_stellium | I had this happen with an ex. I flipped out, only because the rest of my life was falling apart simultaneously. I felt like there wasn't enough of a payoff for the sacrifice (either my Venus Capricorn or Saturn in 8th talking here). We got back together for a while, then I dumped him several times he came back every time. He's currently licking his wounds in shock. We are officially done after a long time of back and forth. I consider us even. Oh, after he cheated on me, I cheated on him with such incredible coldness that it shocked me. Coming from "wait until marriage" and going to "flingland" was not my goal. I realized that I didn't like the person I had become through that relationship. So even though I enjoyed the many luxurious perks of being with him, I plan to be more careful picking the next guy. |
Kerosene | But cheating on someone isn't always a "fantasy" or deception or whatever people associate with neptune.The reality is some people are just not monogamous by nature. Jupiter energy seems very prone to cheating imo. |
manderin | quote: Originally posted by Kerosene:
Jupiter energy seems very prone to cheating imo.
Really? Do you mean in synastry? Hard aspects? |
Kerosene | synastry. uhm yeah.I don't like jupiter hard aspects especially with moon/mercury/venus. I can never trust them.. It seems like they purposely **** you over. |
MsPrism | ^^ Not for me. My two best relationships (not romantic but intimate) had their Jupiter conjunct my Venus. |
Venusian Moon | I would beat the **** out of him. |
Emily033 | quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Hard aspects to Neptune in synastry or composite.
This |
Kerosene | Idk Jupiter is kinda tricky I don't mind the trines. I like Jupiter in Aqua or libra. But I had Jupiter conjunct Venus dw not to mention they square each other. It was perfect at first until I realized this was a rebound and not completly satasfied and I was like peace out but it totally became crazy. Jupiter energy is kinda crazy since he has a shadowy side. Think of Zeus and his shenanigans. I should know with all the Jupiter squares in my chart but alas Jupiter keeps me from facing consequences for my actions since Jupiter is never encountable for anything. But on topic I don't see how just cheating on your lover is associated with just Neptune. Cheaters consciously know what they are doing lol there is no excuse even if your drunk you still can control macking on another I should know... maybe if he was emotionally cheating or in love with someone else |
Solar_Leo_Queen | quote: Originally posted by Kerosene:
But on topic I don't see how just cheating on your lover is associated with just Neptune. Cheaters consciously know what they are doing lol there is no excuse
Exactly. So like, if they do know they are cheating, could Pluto be possibly a culprit? I have Venu square Pluto and according to cafeastrology, hard aspects between the two could indicate infidelity and maybe even promiscuity. |