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Topic: Sexual Attachment
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 21, 2014 03:13 PM
  
Say you're a virgin months ago and then you decide to lose it to your SO. A week later, you find out they cheated on you and they dump you.Some people would feel like meh, [rephrased] what happened, happened. No way to change it. But some people would be like all dramatic because they lost it to that person. What aspects in a natal chart would indicate such a person? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 5789
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 21, 2014 03:16 PM
Logic error: I wouldn't lose my virginty to someone I have a bad relationship with  Generally, it's hard to shrug off being used by someone you trusted so much (and perhaps loved too). Used and cheated on. Even a woman who's been sexually active for a long time would most likely get dramatic. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Gabby
Moderator Posts: 3423
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 21, 2014 03:33 PM
Hard aspects to Neptune in synastry or composite.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10174
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 21, 2014 03:49 PM
Honestly sounds like harsh Jupiter-Uranus and Mars vs neptune.
Everyone blames Neptune for everything..But that does suck, I feel sorry for whoever that happened to IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 21, 2014 03:52 PM
Neptune is what causes us to think something is different than how it really is....it's where we get caught up in a fantasy instead of being able to see reality and them we end up hurt from it.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 21, 2014 04:03 PM
I'm curious because my friend had it with her boyfriend. And she can't seem to let go of him. He didn't cheat on her though. They broke up because they got into so much fights.IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 21, 2014 08:49 PM
I had this happen with an ex. I flipped out, only because the rest of my life was falling apart simultaneously. I felt like there wasn't enough of a payoff for the sacrifice (either my Venus Capricorn or Saturn in 8th talking here). We got back together for a while, then I dumped him several times  he came back every time. He's currently licking his wounds in shock. We are officially done after a long time of back and forth. I consider us even. Oh, after he cheated on me, I cheated on him with such incredible coldness that it shocked me. Coming from "wait until marriage" and going to "flingland" was not my goal. I realized that I didn't like the person I had become through that relationship. So even though I enjoyed the many luxurious perks of being with him, I plan to be more careful picking the next guy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10174
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 21, 2014 08:51 PM
But cheating on someone isn't always a "fantasy"
or deception or whatever people associate with neptune.The reality is some people are just not monogamous by nature. Jupiter energy seems very prone to cheating imo. IP: Logged |
manderin
Knowflake Posts: 144
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 21, 2014 09:18 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Jupiter energy seems very prone to cheating imo.
Really? Do you mean in synastry? Hard aspects? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10174
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 21, 2014 11:17 PM
synastry.
uhm yeah.I don't like jupiter hard aspects especially with moon/mercury/venus. I can never trust them.. It seems like they purposely **** you over. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1472
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 21, 2014 11:30 PM
^^Not for me. My two best relationships (not romantic but intimate) had their Jupiter conjunct my Venus. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1745
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 12:03 AM
I would beat the **** out of him.IP: Logged |
Emily033
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: marysville, ca
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2014 01:49 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
Hard aspects to Neptune in synastry or composite.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10174
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 22, 2014 02:05 AM
Idk Jupiter is kinda tricky I don't mind the trines. I like Jupiter in Aqua or libra.But I had Jupiter conjunct Venus dw not to mention they square each other. It was perfect at first until I realized this was a rebound and not completly satasfied and I was like peace out but it totally became crazy. Jupiter energy is kinda crazy since he has a shadowy side. Think of Zeus and his shenanigans. I should know with all the Jupiter squares in my chart but alas Jupiter keeps me from facing consequences for my actions since Jupiter is never encountable for anything. But on topic I don't see how just cheating on your lover is associated with just Neptune. Cheaters consciously know what they are doing lol there is no excuse even if your drunk you still can control macking on another I should know...
maybe if he was emotionally cheating or in love with someone else IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 22, 2014 05:07 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
But on topic I don't see how just cheating on your lover is associated with just Neptune. Cheaters consciously know what they are doing lol there is no excuse
Exactly. So like, if they do know they are cheating, could Pluto be possibly a culprit? I have Venu square Pluto and according to cafeastrology, hard aspects between the two could indicate infidelity and maybe even promiscuity. IP: Logged |
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