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LexusVirgo | I have venus square pluto exact and I feel like love is blocked from me. Like person will be obsessed with me then when I try to return the affection they stop liking me. I really hate this aspect in my chart I feel like it's why I'm not happy in love. |
girlwiththerainysoul | a possible solution: date another venus/pluto person |
harmonicvibes | Hi Lexus Virgo I feel the same way I hate this aspect I actually think my is conjunct but either way I have major issues in love yes I agree they chase you they come on strong move fast then when you in turn FINALLY give them the same; all sudden things fall apart...like we give affection then things go bad it sucks
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Aries23Degrees | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I have Venus square Pluto exact and I feel like love is blocked from me. Like person will be obsessed with me then when I try to return the affection they stop liking me. I really hate this aspect in my chart I feel like it's why I'm not happy in love.
Beyonce once said this i.e that a guy would pursue her relentlessly and profess their love. But when she returns in kind, the guy ceases to hold interest in her etc. And she has Venus/Pluto conjunct. With her, I do realize that she may enjoy the drama that Jay-Z provides with his philandering ways. Almost like it gets her deeply in touch(Pluto) with the core definition of what love means(Venus) to her etc. In short, I have met few Venus/Pluto aspect people who don't like major storms in love relationship. Sometimes even outright painful ones. Even I with Venus/Pluto in the same sign conjunct enjoy stories of love that overcomes insurmountable odds. Or where the beauty(Venus)chooses the beast(Pluto)etc. Could it be that Venus/Pluto aspect(incl square) often associates love with trouble and strife? i.e "love hurts" or "love is pain" ....
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DopGang | I'm just throwing this out there. Based on my experience of this kind of situation. If it's specific to venus square Pluto, I'm not sure. A person that I have in mind is Scorpio moon. It could be, once they've tried and given up then your heart changes. A certain trust is maybe not broken, but shaken, disturbed. It can be viewed as "game playing". Even though you're not playing games, it's an unfortunate consequence. |
SaturnFan | Real synchronicity for me, that this thread appears right now. I have a Venus-Pluto square, which is also part of a very intense t-square. My Aquarius Venus conjuncts my Ascendant by less than a degree. And it squares my Scorpio Pluto - Taurus Moon opposition. So Pluto drags my Venus, Moon and ASC-DSC axis in this dance. I agree with Aries23 that Venus-Pluto needs the pain and drama, and the insurmountable odds in love. Pluto can never be happy with a relationship that is quiet, harmonious and easy all the time. This will start feeling suspicious and "fake", non-real. For deep healing and transformation to occur, a relationship will have to push some buttons, by showing us where our wounds are, and only then how to heal them. This is real intimacy, as symbolised by the 8th House which is linked with Scorpio and Pluto. Unfortunately, we Venus-Pluto people tend to attract such challenges and insurmountable circumstances unconsciously, and then suffer by them. It requires a lot, a lot of work to learn how to consciously facilitate such intense intimacy in a relationship, without projecting it onto outer painful circumstances. Honestly, I don't know if it's even achievable. Pluto is much more powerful than what the conscious human mind can grasp - that's about the only lesson I can claim to have learned with certainty in my close encounters with this planet. |
Electro DGX | I don't have Venus-Pluto but I do have Mars/Moon-Pluto and I feel like love is blocked from me. However, it's not in the way you describe. Often I fall for someone and unfortunate circumstances block me from being able to be with that person in that way. I haven't even had a chance to be in a serious relationship. My mom and younger sister both have Venus-Pluto. I'll have to ask my mom about it later on today. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com |
DopGang | quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: I don't have Venus-Pluto but I do have Mars/Moon-Pluto and I feel like love is blocked from me. However, it's not in the way you describe. Often I fall for someone and unfortunate circumstances block me from being able to be with that person in that way. I haven't even had a chance to be in a serious relationship. My mom and younger sister both have Venus-Pluto. I'll have to ask my mom about it later on today.
Sounds like Saturn to me. Though you could be right. Just a thought. |
Electro DGX | quote: Originally posted by DopGang: Sounds like Saturn to me. Though you could be right. Just a thought.
It could be, considering that Saturn is on my DSC and makes a lot of aspects in my chart. However, my Venus is sextile Saturn, so Saturn should be helping me. I try not to be frustrated with Saturn but often it is just unavoidable. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com |
LexusVirgo | quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: a possible solution:date another venus/pluto person
Would a person with Venus sextile Pluto be considered a Venus-Pluto person? Or does it have to be a person who also has a hard aspect between them? |
LexusVirgo | Oh yeah I want real intensity. I don't like surface love . I want the deep love a love like Richard burton and Elizabeth Taylor for instance. |
colorful butterfly | I have venus neptune aspects and dated a guy with venus square pluto. All he did was critize me and looked like he played alot of games!!! Hurt my feelings, acted like a jerk and didn't seem like he cared too much . Selfish is all I have to say. I'm sure not everyone is like this but he wanted me to be into him and when I did he would trt to hurt me. No thanks |
girlwiththerainysoul | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: Would a person with Venus sextile Pluto be considered a Venus-Pluto person? Or does it have to be a person who also has a hard aspect between them?
I closely know a couple of people with capricorn venus sextile scorpio pluto, and they're heavily plutonic. it doesn't have to be only hard aspects; trines and sextiles are also easily felt and influence the person just as much, only that the situations play themselves in different ways than hard aspects. if you have a venus/pluto, then maybe another venus/pluto can understand you better. if you're a guy, she'd better have sun or mars in aspect to pluto, and if you're a girl maybe it helps if he too has venus/pluto or moon/pluto to recognize your needs/tests. |
headintheclouds91 | Editut |
Gemini30 | Pluto (the actual planet!) has a heart shaped sea on it and it's made of ice and poison! That is Venus/Pluto for you!! |
peony | quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: a possible solution:date another venus/pluto person
My ex, who has Venus conjunct Pluto, is married to a woman with a Pluto opposition to Venus. They've been married for over ten years. |
peony | D. H. Lawrence once wrote: "Love pitched its tent in the house of excrement." In prose, it seems to be the destiny of Venus/Pluto to wade through the mire of what isn't love and to go through the fires of purgatory before union. As the myth of Eros and Psyche indicates, the marriage is preceded by Psyche's trials/initiation at the hands of the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite. |
Amphitrite | I have Venus in Scorpio and feel like the whole love game is impossible. In fact I think I've given up. |
hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I have venus square pluto exact and I feel like love is blocked from me. Like person will be obsessed with me then when I try to return the affection they stop liking me. I really hate this aspect in my chart I feel like it's why I'm not happy in love.
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LexusVirgo | Hypatia238, thanks . Your so sweet <3 |
TensionEmpire | quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Hi Lexus Virgo they chase you they come on strong move fast then when you in turn FINALLY give them the same; all sudden things fall apart...like we give affection then things go bad it sucks
crazy crazy crazy |
TensionEmpire | I have Venus Mars and Jupiter squaring pluto, so it is a nice mix I don`t know if it is this aspect, but yeah ,guys say I am afraid, and I say fk u haha |
anonymidarkness | quote: Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
I don`t know if it is this aspect, but yeah ,guys say I am afraid, and I say fk u haha
haha bro |
AwakenSky16 | quote: harmonicvibes :they chase you they come on strong move fast then when you in turn FINALLY give them the same; all sudden things fall apart...
It's a little strange to hear all this ... Really I ask me what others think they see and feel when they look and fall hard for our venus/pluto My venus square pluton is large but I think the effects play : the best intense and interesting relationships are straw fires and make hurt (they "chase" me) and serious ones end up annoying / routine (I "chose" them), so never very transcendent ... Yet I'm fine with my pluton aspects : Trine sun, sextile mars and jupiter. So, I just think that some others aspects can reinforce the "complicated" situations : maybe as Venus Sag. 5th : Boredom is dificult to bear if it settles and as an aqua sun: independence (even together) is sacred. Also, maybe it could become complex especially if in addition saturn is also important in the chart... Feel secure, found serious, intense, interesting,fun (not boring) and kept independence in relationship... is probably a gamble !!! @ Girlwiththerainysoul and others : Thank to tell me if I am wrong here in this analysis
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