Oh ok,now i recall . I also recall you saying that ypu couldn't identify with Moon in Gemini really.I think of intercepted energy as "hidden treasures". But typically speaking because of their "hidden" nature, they (like the 12th house) are not fully acknowledged.
So perhaps that is the reason why seeing your Moon in Gemini is so damne tricky?
I would look at the ruler of the 8th(Venus) and aspects to it for insight to the 8th.
When 11th house is affected by Neptune, close friends are hard to come by or one finds themselves feeling lonely even in a crowd of people.
Sometimes strangers feel friendlier to talk to when someone has 11th house Neptune. So online interaction is likely as Neptune likes anonymity.
Another possibility with Neptune in 11th is seeking spiritual camaraderie or group support. So a church choir, youth camp goer or even water sport(Neptune) participant. I.e rowing, swimming team or diving team etc