Thanks for your reply.
I think it sounds like a good thing. I can't remember why I was told it was challenging. Maybe because I'm a Sag with lots of Sag planets. But I'm really not the love 'em and leave 'em type. (That's the Scorpio Asc, right?)I do have two aspects to Saturn: Venus opposite Saturn and Jupiter opposite Saturn. Could those be the bad things? I'm not quite up to speed on those yet. I'm still learning the houses.
When I was younger, I was attracted to much older men, who were just not interested in me at all. I guess it was lucky in that I wasn't taken advantage of by older men. It could have happened. At 25 I was in love with a friend's dad who was 52. He was lovely. Aw. I wonder what happened to him. He'd be close to 70 now. Wow! Time flies.
I married (and am now divorcing, after 15yrs! yikes) a very solid and dependable man who was only a year older. Now I'm not so much attracted to men who are physically older but definitely men who are solid and dependable.
Lately I've been attracting pretty much only younger men and I have to try not to dismiss them purely for age reasons.
I am loving my journey through astrology. It's really bringing me more clarity. Thanks again for your reply.