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T O P I C R E V I E WAatifah21Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for? His birthday ismay 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39 (What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."Aatifah21Btw since this is a synastry post, my birthday is Nov 21 1993. I was born @4:58pm (16:58 military time) in Morrisania, New York. He was born in San Diego, CA. Thanks again!------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."LeeLoo2014An image would be better Aatifah21Edit -double post-Aatifah21 quote:Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:An image would be better Hi LeeLoo :-)I have the pic, how do I add it?Aries23Degrees quote:Originally posted by Aatifah21:Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for? His birthday ismay 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39 (What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.Aatifah21 quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.Hi Aries, Thanks for the response :-) So you're saying from his chart he seems like an ok guy?Also, how do I upload our synastry chart so you guys can view it. I know LeeLoo said it's easier for y'all to "see" the aspects rather than me copy and paste.------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."Aatifah21 quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.Btw that little bit of info was spot on. Like he does come off as "too serious" and like he's laying it on too thick which makes heavily influenced by Virgo me very wary like maybe he's lying. And he's amazingly persistent. He keeps jokingly (idk if he's joking or not) asking me to "move in" with him and that we should "get married". And when he gets me upset and I try to ignore him he keeps texting or calls.I remember a few times I tried to break it off with him and he always was persistent and made me change my mind. I like him a lot but I always find myself telling him to "slow down"! Lol and the age gap doesn't help. But I like older guys anyway :-)------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."Aatifah21Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/ValueSun Square Saturn 0.00 -200Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607Aatifah21Can somebody please help? :-/amelia28He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.amelia28 quote:Originally posted by Aatifah21:Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/ValueSun Square Saturn 0.00 -200Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607Nice aspects.......Aatifah21 quote:Originally posted by amelia28:He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.Hi Amelia, thanks for the response! So when you say controlling, do you mean, "run for the hills" controlling, or just slightly over protective controlling?Here's our synastry chart finally, I know LeeLoo asked for it earlier http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7 <a href="http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7"><img src="http://i.imgur.com/ptS9kC7.jpg?1" title="Hosted by imgur.com" /></a>------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."
Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39
(What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)
Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)
------------------"Live your life in daytight compartments."
quote:Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:An image would be better
Hi LeeLoo :-)I have the pic, how do I add it?
quote:Originally posted by Aatifah21:Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for? His birthday ismay 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39 (What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)
Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.
The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.
But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.
The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.
It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc.
The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.
quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.
Hi Aries, Thanks for the response :-) So you're saying from his chart he seems like an ok guy?
Also, how do I upload our synastry chart so you guys can view it. I know LeeLoo said it's easier for y'all to "see" the aspects rather than me copy and paste.
Btw that little bit of info was spot on. Like he does come off as "too serious" and like he's laying it on too thick which makes heavily influenced by Virgo me very wary like maybe he's lying.
And he's amazingly persistent. He keeps jokingly (idk if he's joking or not) asking me to "move in" with him and that we should "get married". And when he gets me upset and I try to ignore him he keeps texting or calls.
I remember a few times I tried to break it off with him and he always was persistent and made me change my mind. I like him a lot but I always find myself telling him to "slow down"! Lol and the age gap doesn't help. But I like older guys anyway :-)
05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/ValueSun Square Saturn 0.00 -200Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607
quote:Originally posted by Aatifah21:Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/ValueSun Square Saturn 0.00 -200Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607
Nice aspects.......
quote:Originally posted by amelia28:He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.
Hi Amelia, thanks for the response! So when you say controlling, do you mean, "run for the hills" controlling, or just slightly over protective controlling?
Here's our synastry chart finally, I know LeeLoo asked for it earlier http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7
<a href="http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7"><img src="http://i.imgur.com/ptS9kC7.jpg?1" title="Hosted by imgur.com" /></a>
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