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Topic: Astrology novice here - please help me gain an understanding :-)
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Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 20, 2014 08:14 AM
Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for? His birthday is may 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39 (What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart) Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80 Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137 Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238 Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148 Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126 Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13 Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82 Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252 Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317 Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58 Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210 Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47 Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-) ------------------ "Live your life in daytight compartments." IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 20, 2014 08:17 AM
Btw since this is a synastry post, my birthday is Nov 21 1993. I was born @4:58pm (16:58 military time) in Morrisania, New York. He was born in San Diego, CA. Thanks again!------------------ "Live your life in daytight compartments." IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 3343 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 20, 2014 09:11 AM
An image would be better IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 11:21 AM
Edit -double post-IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: An image would be better
Hi LeeLoo :-) I have the pic, how do I add it? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 560 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aatifah21: Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for? His birthday is may 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)Sun Taurus 24.09 Moon Scorpio 18.57 Mercury Aries 29.30 Venus Taurus 15.30 Mars Scorpio 19.37 R Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R Lilith Pisces 17.16 Asc node Gemini 6.39 (What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart) Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80 Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137 Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238 Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148 Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126 Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13 Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82 Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252 Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317 Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58 Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210 Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47 Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70 I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)
Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean. The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process. But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy. The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light. It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill. IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 01:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process. But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy. The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light. It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.
Hi Aries, Thanks for the response :-) So you're saying from his chart he seems like an ok guy? Also, how do I upload our synastry chart so you guys can view it. I know LeeLoo said it's easier for y'all to "see" the aspects rather than me copy and paste.
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Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 01:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process. But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy. The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light. It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc. The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.
Btw that little bit of info was spot on. Like he does come off as "too serious" and like he's laying it on too thick which makes heavily influenced by Virgo me very wary like maybe he's lying. And he's amazingly persistent. He keeps jokingly (idk if he's joking or not) asking me to "move in" with him and that we should "get married". And when he gets me upset and I try to ignore him he keeps texting or calls. I remember a few times I tried to break it off with him and he always was persistent and made me change my mind. I like him a lot but I always find myself telling him to "slow down"! Lol and the age gap doesn't help. But I like older guys anyway :-) ------------------ "Live your life in daytight compartments." IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 01:55 PM
Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/Value Sun Square Saturn 0.00 -200 Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71 Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190 Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83 Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83 Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68 Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111 Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40 Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40 Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47 Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115 Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71 Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60 Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61 Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125 Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89 Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39 Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85 Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35 Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18 Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41 Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607
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Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 07:33 PM
Can somebody please help? :-/IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3187 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 07:42 PM
He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3187 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 07:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aatifah21: Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/Value Sun Square Saturn 0.00 -200 Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71 Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190 Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83 Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83 Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68 Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111 Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40 Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40 Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47 Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115 Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71 Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60 Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61 Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125 Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89 Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39 Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85 Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35 Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18 Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41 Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77 1178 -571 607
Nice aspects....... IP: Logged |
Aatifah21 Newflake Posts: 15 From: New York, US Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 21, 2014 07:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.
Hi Amelia, thanks for the response! So when you say controlling, do you mean, "run for the hills" controlling, or just slightly over protective controlling? Here's our synastry chart finally, I know LeeLoo asked for it earlier http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7 <a href="http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7"><img src="http://i.imgur.com/ptS9kC7.jpg?1" title="Hosted by imgur.com" /></a> ------------------ "Live your life in daytight compartments." IP: Logged |