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Aatifah21
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Registered: Aug 2012

posted June 20, 2014 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for?
His birthday is
may 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)

Sun Taurus 24.09
Moon Scorpio 18.57
Mercury Aries 29.30
Venus Taurus 15.30
Mars Scorpio 19.37 R
Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R
Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R
Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R
Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R
Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R
Lilith Pisces 17.16
Asc node Gemini 6.39

(What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)

Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80
Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137
Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238
Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148
Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126
Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13
Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82
Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252
Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317
Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58
Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210
Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70

I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)

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Aatifah21
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posted June 20, 2014 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Btw since this is a synastry post, my birthday is Nov 21 1993. I was born @4:58pm (16:58 military time) in Morrisania, New York. He was born in San Diego, CA. Thanks again!

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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 20, 2014 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
An image would be better

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Edit -double post-

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
An image would be better

Hi LeeLoo :-)
I have the pic, how do I add it?

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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012

posted June 21, 2014 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aatifah21:
Hi everybody :-) I'm currently seeing someone who I really like, but he just seems so idk...mushy and over the top. I feel like he's ingenuine sometimes that's how serious it is (5 planets in the house of Virgo, don't judge me lol) but I just would like to know if there are any red flags that I should look out for?
His birthday is
may 14, 1984 (I don't know the time,sorry!)

Sun Taurus 24.09
Moon Scorpio 18.57
Mercury Aries 29.30
Venus Taurus 15.30
Mars Scorpio 19.37 R
Jupiter Capricorn 12.37 R
Saturn Scorpio 12.14 R
Uranus Sagittarius 12.18 R
Neptune Capricorn 0.59 R
Pluto Scorpio 0.06 R
Lilith Pisces 17.16
Asc node Gemini 6.39

(What is up with all those retrograde planets btw? I have absolutely none in my chart)

Sun Opposition Moon 5.12 -80
Sun Conjunction Venus 8.40 137
Sun Opposition Mars 4.32 -238
Moon Opposition Venus 3.27 -148
Moon Conjunction Mars 0.40 126
Moon Conjunction Saturn 6.43 13
Mercury Trine Neptune 1.29 82
Mercury Opposition Pluto 0.35 -252
Venus Opposition Mars 4.08 -317
Venus Trine Jupiter 2.53 58
Venus Opposition Saturn 3.16 -210
Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.24 47
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.23 81
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.53 70

I know it's kinda messy because I'm doing this from my phone but can anyone offer any insights? Thanks ahead of time :-)


Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.

But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.

It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc.

The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.

But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.

It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc.

The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.


Hi Aries, Thanks for the response :-) So you're saying from his chart he seems like an ok guy?

Also, how do I upload our synastry chart so you guys can view it. I know LeeLoo said it's easier for y'all to "see" the aspects rather than me copy and paste.

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Lol.Really? I don't see what you mean.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus can make one seem like they are "trying too hard" and just being too serious. They may just need to relax and trust the process of "emotions" to go on without them "watching over" the process.

But I don't think this aspect makes one come across as disingenuous. Maybe tense, over-zealous and humorless- but not cheesy.

The opposition of Saturn to Moon/Venus fusses and stresses about being seen in a positive, responsible and dependable light.

It is very important for such a person to send a message of "I am not playing around. I want real love" etc.

The Pluto opposition Mercury suggests an over-thinking, over-analyzing and "over-fussing" mental nature. Again, the individual really needs to learn to relax and take a chill pill.


Btw that little bit of info was spot on. Like he does come off as "too serious" and like he's laying it on too thick which makes heavily influenced by Virgo me very wary like maybe he's lying.

And he's amazingly persistent. He keeps jokingly (idk if he's joking or not) asking me to "move in" with him and that we should "get married". And when he gets me upset and I try to ignore him he keeps texting or calls.

I remember a few times I tried to break it off with him and he always was persistent and made me change my mind. I like him a lot but I always find myself telling him to "slow down"! Lol and the age gap doesn't help. But I like older guys anyway :-)

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)

05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/Value
Sun Square Saturn 0.00 -200
Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71
Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190
Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83
Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68
Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111
Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40
Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40
Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47
Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115
Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71
Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60
Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61
Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125
Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89
Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39
Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85
Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35
Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18
Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41
Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77
1178 -571 607

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can somebody please help? :-/

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amelia28
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posted June 21, 2014 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.

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amelia28
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posted June 21, 2014 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aatifah21:
Here are our synastry aspects according to cafeastrology. Until I learn how to upload pictures I can only copy and paste (sorry LeeLoo!)

05/14/1984 Aspect 11/21/1993 Orb/Value
Sun Square Saturn 0.00 -200
Sun Opposition Pluto 1.28 -71
Moon Conjunction Venus 2.52 190
Moon Sextile Uranus 0.32 83
Moon Sextile Neptune 0.11 83
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2.55 -68
Venus Opposition Venus 0.36 -111
Venus Trine Uranus 3.59 40
Venus Trine Neptune 3.39 40
Venus Square Midheaven 1.27 -47
Mars Conjunction Venus 3.32 115
Mars Sextile Uranus 0.08 71
Mars Sextile Neptune 0.29 60
Saturn Trine Moon 3.25 61
Saturn Conjunction Mercury 2.12 125
Saturn Conjunction Venus 3.52 89
Saturn Square Midheaven 1.49 -39
Uranus Conjunction Mars 3.07 85
Uranus Opposition Ascendant 3.56 -35
Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.45 18
Neptune Sextile Jupiter 1.27 41
Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.20 77
1178 -571 607


Nice aspects.......

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Aatifah21
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posted June 21, 2014 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aatifah21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by amelia28:
He is going to be very possessive and controlling...a lot of fixed in his chart...Fixed overload.

Hi Amelia, thanks for the response! So when you say controlling, do you mean, "run for the hills" controlling, or just slightly over protective controlling?

Here's our synastry chart finally, I know LeeLoo asked for it earlier
http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7

<a href="http://imgur.com/ptS9kC7"><img src="http://i.imgur.com/ptS9kC7.jpg?1" title="Hosted by imgur.com" /></a>

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