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T O P I C R E V I E WMandarooim a Virgo Sun and libra moon BD: 9/19/82, and I wanna know why my ex AQUARIUS bf who's BD is 1/24/82, why we don't/ didn't work? He has seemed to move on so easy and I'm still stuck... And cannot seem to get over him. He doesn't seem to care to keep in touch with me and if I bring up emotions or feelings he gets upset with me!!! Why is our love doomed??!!!! Please help!!------------------🌞🌝🌝🌑🌜⭐️Iced8AcePost the times you were both born and a synastry and composite from astro.com peonyHi Mandaroo, can you post the synastry chart? If not, the exact time of birth, if you have them, and place of birth for you both will be needed.Mandaroo quote:Originally posted by Iced8Ace:Post the times you were both born and a synastry and composite from astro.com Well I don't know his time of birth.. I'll try to do the synastry and composite but I'm new to this. My time of birth was 7:16 pmMandaroo quote:Originally posted by peony:Hi Mandaroo, can you post the synastry chart? If not, the exact time of birth, if you have them, and place of birth for you both will be needed.I don't know his time of birth.. So I suppose it can't be done. All I know is I'm 9/19/82 at 7:16 pm Erie, Pennsylvania .. He is 1/24/1982 Erie, Pennsylvania Sorry that's all I have!peonyHi Mandarin, my impression is that there is, or was, mutual romantic attraction between you. Neither of you, deep down, takes relationships lightly. However, it looks like you two tend to bring up deep, unconscious patterns and insecurities in each other in which case defenses get triggered or mobilized on both sides. For example, it looks like you both have deep fears of and defenses against relationships and yet a serious and lasting relationship is deeply desired. Part of the fear may involve being consumed by the needs of the other person. It's also the line of least resistance to separate rather than to work through difficulties in relationships. So, on one level, you are mirroring these issues to each other. Also, you both have the same placement which indicates that relationships are particularly karmic involving working on yourselves and cultivating self-awareness. Most people do not want to delve very deeply into their unconscious patterns, but it appears that for you, in any close encounter this is unavoidable. His Moon is either in Capricorn or Aquarius, along with his Venus in Capricorn and Sun in Aquarius, so he is more rational than emotional which can explain why he is able to disengage more easily from his feelings. Part of this or even a substantial part of this may have to do with an emotional immaturity, where he may have not developed himself on the feeling side and that's going to be a handicap in his relationships with women. You tend to be emotionally obsessive in relationship, so that makes it harder to let go.I hope you have a wise and trusted friend you can talk things over with and that you will spend time with people who care about you and love you during this time. Mandaroo quote:Originally posted by peony:Hi Mandarin, my impression is that there is, or was, mutual romantic attraction between you. Neither of you, deep down, takes relationships lightly. However, it looks like you two tend to bring up deep, unconscious patterns and insecurities in each other in which case defenses get triggered or mobilized on both sides. For example, it looks like you both have deep fears of and defenses against relationships and yet a serious and lasting relationship is deeply desired. Part of the fear may involve being consumed by the needs of the other person. It's also the line of least resistance to separate rather than to work through difficulties in relationships. So, on one level, you are mirroring these issues to each other. Also, you both have the same placement which indicates that relationships are particularly karmic involving working on yourselves and cultivating self-awareness. Most people do not want to delve very deeply into their unconscious patterns, but it appears that for you, in any close encounter this is unavoidable. His Moon is either in Capricorn or Aquarius, along with his Venus in Capricorn and Sun in Aquarius, so he is more rational than emotional which can explain why he is able to disengage more easily from his feelings. Part of this or even a substantial part of this may have to do with an emotional immaturity, where he may have not developed himself on the feeling side and that's going to be a handicap in his relationships with women. You tend to be emotionally obsessive in relationship, so that makes it harder to let go.I hope you have a wise and trusted friend you can talk things over with and that you will spend time with people who care about you and love you during this time. Wow, thanks you so much for that. It all makes so much sense and is quite accurate, like me being emotionally obsessive in relationships! Very true, unfortunately. Towards the end of our relationship, when he was still trying and hadn't given up on us yet, I rememebr him saying something like this I'll always be true to our friendship and what we have, or had, even though our love is doomed." It sounded nicer how he put it, but that summed it up I guess. Although, he doesn't even act like a friend now, he acts as if I don't even exist anymore... So idk if his words were honest or not! But again, thank you so much , it actually does help me realize he does have issues doin with emotion and feelings, he just can't deal with , so it's not just me and I shouldn't take it so personallypeonyMandaroo, you're very welcome. I'm posting the link to your synastry chart, so that other people can take a look and give feedback as well. Mandaroo is inside.[IMG]http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y357/centralcoas thousing/b9a5f498-ea00-4104-aeea-8c10997a9d6e_zps03381c0d.gif[/IMG]Mandaroo quote:Originally posted by peony:Mandaroo, you're very welcome. I'm posting the link to your synastry chart, so that other people can take a look and give feedback as well. Mandaroo is inside.[IMG]http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y357/centralcoas thousing/b9a5f498-ea00-4104-aeea-8c10997a9d6e_zps03381c0d.gif[/IMG]That you! What does this chart mean/represent? Is it reflective of the present or future? What is this? I'm sorry for being so ignorant, I want to know and learn more about astrology. Please enlighten me !!Mandaroo quote:Originally posted by peony:Mandaroo, you're very welcome. I'm posting the link to your synastry chart, so that other people can take a look and give feedback as well. Mandaroo is inside.[IMG]http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y357/centralcoas thousing/b9a5f498-ea00-4104-aeea-8c10997a9d6e_zps03381c0d.gif[/IMG]And will this tell anything about me and the AQUARIUS ? Or no, because his chart isn't there since I don't have his birth time..?peony quote:Originally posted by Mandaroo: That you! What does this chart mean/represent? Is it reflective of the present or future? What is this? I'm sorry for being so ignorant, I want to know and learn more about astrology. Please enlighten me !!The link is to what's called a "synastry" chart, which I used as the basis of my comments. Because your time of birth is known, and an accurate birth chart can be erected with all the house cusps, your chart is inside (blue). Because we don't know the birth time for Aquarius, his planets are on the outside (red). So, we can see where his planets fall in your chart, but, we don't know where your planets fall in his chart without his time of birth. Basically, the synastry chart is a way to determine the compatibility between two people, how they are likely to interact, and their strengths and weaknesses within the context of the relationship. The synastry chart is not for predictive purposes and does not foretell the future. Geeky^ excellent explanation! ------------------“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.”Aries23DegreesCusp signs seem to be drawn to each other and you are no exception.You have your Moon in Aries in opposition to Neptune in Libra. And it is this Neptune aspect in Libra that has you holding on. Libra is ever the romantic- expecting fairy tale endings.Add to that, your Mars in Scorpio squares Pluto in Leo. So you love in a BIG way and commitment is a big deal for you. It is hard to just switch gears and move on when someone that you loved was once the center of your life.Unless your ex bf has Pluto in Scorpio aspecting the personal planets Moon,Venus, Mars,your ex has no water placements as part of his personal placements- so he is more intellectual than feeling. Really able to keep his emotions in check.I think some distance will do you some good. he doesn't understand your emotional disposition.Mandaroo quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:Cusp signs seem to be drawn to each other and you are no exception.You have your Moon in Aries in opposition to Neptune in Libra. And it is this Neptune aspect in Libra that has you holding on. Libra is ever the romantic- expecting fairy tale endings.Add to that, your Mars in Scorpio squares Pluto in Leo. So you love in a BIG way and commitment is a big deal for you. It is hard to just switch gears and move on when someone that you loved was once the center of your life.Unless your ex bf has Pluto in Scorpio aspecting the personal planets Moon,Venus, Mars,your ex has no water placements as part of his personal placements- so he is more intellectual than feeling. Really able to keep his emotions in check.I think some distance will do you some good. he doesn't understand your emotional disposition.Thank you for that! Does that mean he doesn't undestand me now? Or he never would?
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quote:Originally posted by Iced8Ace:Post the times you were both born and a synastry and composite from astro.com
Well I don't know his time of birth.. I'll try to do the synastry and composite but I'm new to this. My time of birth was 7:16 pm
quote:Originally posted by peony:Hi Mandaroo, can you post the synastry chart? If not, the exact time of birth, if you have them, and place of birth for you both will be needed.
I don't know his time of birth.. So I suppose it can't be done. All I know is I'm 9/19/82 at 7:16 pm Erie, Pennsylvania .. He is 1/24/1982 Erie, Pennsylvania Sorry that's all I have!
Most people do not want to delve very deeply into their unconscious patterns, but it appears that for you, in any close encounter this is unavoidable.
His Moon is either in Capricorn or Aquarius, along with his Venus in Capricorn and Sun in Aquarius, so he is more rational than emotional which can explain why he is able to disengage more easily from his feelings. Part of this or even a substantial part of this may have to do with an emotional immaturity, where he may have not developed himself on the feeling side and that's going to be a handicap in his relationships with women. You tend to be emotionally obsessive in relationship, so that makes it harder to let go.
I hope you have a wise and trusted friend you can talk things over with and that you will spend time with people who care about you and love you during this time.
quote:Originally posted by peony:Hi Mandarin, my impression is that there is, or was, mutual romantic attraction between you. Neither of you, deep down, takes relationships lightly. However, it looks like you two tend to bring up deep, unconscious patterns and insecurities in each other in which case defenses get triggered or mobilized on both sides. For example, it looks like you both have deep fears of and defenses against relationships and yet a serious and lasting relationship is deeply desired. Part of the fear may involve being consumed by the needs of the other person. It's also the line of least resistance to separate rather than to work through difficulties in relationships. So, on one level, you are mirroring these issues to each other. Also, you both have the same placement which indicates that relationships are particularly karmic involving working on yourselves and cultivating self-awareness. Most people do not want to delve very deeply into their unconscious patterns, but it appears that for you, in any close encounter this is unavoidable. His Moon is either in Capricorn or Aquarius, along with his Venus in Capricorn and Sun in Aquarius, so he is more rational than emotional which can explain why he is able to disengage more easily from his feelings. Part of this or even a substantial part of this may have to do with an emotional immaturity, where he may have not developed himself on the feeling side and that's going to be a handicap in his relationships with women. You tend to be emotionally obsessive in relationship, so that makes it harder to let go.I hope you have a wise and trusted friend you can talk things over with and that you will spend time with people who care about you and love you during this time.
involve being consumed by the needs of the other person. It's also the line of least resistance to separate rather than to work through difficulties in relationships. So, on one level, you are mirroring these issues to each other. Also, you both have the same placement which indicates that relationships are particularly karmic involving working on yourselves and cultivating self-awareness.
Wow, thanks you so much for that. It all makes so much sense and is quite accurate, like me being emotionally obsessive in relationships! Very true, unfortunately. Towards the end of our relationship, when he was still trying and hadn't given up on us yet, I rememebr him saying something like this I'll always be true to our friendship and what we have, or had, even though our love is doomed." It sounded nicer how he put it, but that summed it up I guess. Although, he doesn't even act like a friend now, he acts as if I don't even exist anymore... So idk if his words were honest or not! But again, thank you so much , it actually does help me realize he does have issues doin with emotion and feelings, he just can't deal with , so it's not just me and I shouldn't take it so personally
[IMG]http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y357/centralcoas thousing/b9a5f498-ea00-4104-aeea-8c10997a9d6e_zps03381c0d.gif[/IMG]
quote:Originally posted by peony:Mandaroo, you're very welcome. I'm posting the link to your synastry chart, so that other people can take a look and give feedback as well. Mandaroo is inside.[IMG]http://i1029.photobucket.com/albums/y357/centralcoas thousing/b9a5f498-ea00-4104-aeea-8c10997a9d6e_zps03381c0d.gif[/IMG]
That you! What does this chart mean/represent? Is it reflective of the present or future? What is this? I'm sorry for being so ignorant, I want to know and learn more about astrology. Please enlighten me !!
And will this tell anything about me and the AQUARIUS ? Or no, because his chart isn't there since I don't have his birth time..?
quote:Originally posted by Mandaroo: That you! What does this chart mean/represent? Is it reflective of the present or future? What is this? I'm sorry for being so ignorant, I want to know and learn more about astrology. Please enlighten me !!
The link is to what's called a "synastry" chart, which I used as the basis of my comments. Because your time of birth is known, and an accurate birth chart can be erected with all the house cusps, your chart is inside (blue). Because we don't know the birth time for Aquarius, his planets are on the outside (red). So, we can see where his planets fall in your chart, but, we don't know where your planets fall in his chart without his time of birth.
Basically, the synastry chart is a way to determine the compatibility between two people, how they are likely to interact, and their strengths and weaknesses within the context of the relationship. The synastry chart is not for predictive purposes and does not foretell the future.
------------------“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.”
You have your Moon in Aries in opposition to Neptune in Libra. And it is this Neptune aspect in Libra that has you holding on. Libra is ever the romantic- expecting fairy tale endings.
Add to that, your Mars in Scorpio squares Pluto in Leo. So you love in a BIG way and commitment is a big deal for you. It is hard to just switch gears and move on when someone that you loved was once the center of your life.
Unless your ex bf has Pluto in Scorpio aspecting the personal planets Moon,Venus, Mars,your ex has no water placements as part of his personal placements- so he is more intellectual than feeling. Really able to keep his emotions in check.
I think some distance will do you some good. he doesn't understand your emotional disposition.
quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:Cusp signs seem to be drawn to each other and you are no exception.You have your Moon in Aries in opposition to Neptune in Libra. And it is this Neptune aspect in Libra that has you holding on. Libra is ever the romantic- expecting fairy tale endings.Add to that, your Mars in Scorpio squares Pluto in Leo. So you love in a BIG way and commitment is a big deal for you. It is hard to just switch gears and move on when someone that you loved was once the center of your life.Unless your ex bf has Pluto in Scorpio aspecting the personal planets Moon,Venus, Mars,your ex has no water placements as part of his personal placements- so he is more intellectual than feeling. Really able to keep his emotions in check.I think some distance will do you some good. he doesn't understand your emotional disposition.
Thank you for that! Does that mean he doesn't undestand me now? Or he never would?
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