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T O P I C R E V I E WJessica2407Hello,Anyone has any personal experience or any info to share regarding saturn in 7th house synastry? My natal saturn is also in my 7th house. Is this a karmic indicator?cfall614I would like to know also! It's been super hard trying to find info about it, which is weird considering how important saturn seems to be when linked to planets in synastry. My interpretation would be that the saturn person teaches the 7th house person something about serious relationships/commitments, and/or is a burden to the house person relationship-wise. Unfortunately some interpretations also state that it prevents a relationship from ever happening, even if two people would like it to happen but apparently angelina jolie and brad pitt has this and they still seem to be going strong! FireMoonI have this natally as well. Meaning basically everyone in the same immediate age group will have this synastry with us. I think yes it's karmic in this lifetime, we experience set backs and difficulties in one on one relationships because we neglected this in the past and there are lessons we still need to learn usually the hard way. So the way I see it is someone else's Saturn falling in your 7th house just reinforces and draws attention to your own natal issues with Saturn. Maybe your inhibitions about relationships become a self fulfilling prophecy, or maybe these people teach us directly through hurting us or being the ones to help us persevere.. Anyway, I think it's very different than if someone's Saturn falls into a house you have no planets in (or even a different planet really..) but that's just my viewpoint on iteta: I guess I would say that basically at least at a young age, close relationships with peers won't be necessarily be the easiest or most comfortable... Growing up and even still now I found I got along much much better with people who were a couple years older than me (or younger but more in a mentoring sort of way). My older friends and even parents would always say I'm "so mature for my age" like they couldn't believe I was actually so young, but in my own age group I just felt awkward and out of place. So I know that could be said about any placement, but maybe it's especially true of Saturn in the 7th lol Jessica2407It is indeed cfall. But it's so cool to see people having the same placement. I have natal saturn, venus, mercury, sun all sitting in my 7th house. It's totally true, have had to deal with so many ''lessons'' with regards to relationships. NOW I see the pain and hurt that I had to go through as something that I NEEDED to see things clearly.Then I met this guy, there is something about him, a connection that I can't quite explain. It was an instant connection.Like I know him already, like I was waiting for him. I have NEVER in my entire life felt so strongly about someone and I can tell you I'm pretty freaked out with all this experience, am quite cautious by nature and I don't quite know how to handle all this.So I was curious, I did a synastry and I was shocked to find his Saturn in my 7th, and the following aspects:Saturn Conjunction Mercury Saturn Conjunction Venus Saturn Trine Neptune Saturn Sextile Plutosun opposition saturnmercury quincunx saturn uranus square saturnvertex sextile saturnmidheaven quincunx saturn Anyone has had to deal with so many saturn aspects?? Please do tell!Got Gemini??^^^I don't have Saturn 7th house synastry but I do have really strong Saturn synastry with the love of my life. We have Sun square Saturn BOTH ways! Her Saturn also squares my Mercury. We also have a wide Saturn conjunct Mars (out of sign though).The Sun square Saturn is exact both ways. I've loved her since I was 9.------------------Gemini SunLibra MoonGemini MercuryCancer VenusVirgo MarsVirgo AscAnd yes, I'm a guy!Jessica2407Thanks Got Gemini. oh I missed out another aspect:His saturn ALSO square my moon's north node.spanishloverdoes this make a serious relationship?especially when a guy's saturn conjuncts your descendant ( 7th house)?is descendant and 7th house interchangeable?ail221BumpLucieLemonadeI have Saturn in the 7th as does my x husband so we were in each other's 7th. I think we became committed to each other quickly. But also made us stick it out longer than we should have. I mean we had a great relationship, don't get me wrong. But we sort of forgot our own individual objectives which isn't good either. We forgot about the individual. If that makes sense. Basically there are three entities in a relationship, you me and we. You can't neglect any of the three. They need to be cared for equaly. RandallMoving to Interpersonal Astrology.Venusincap89I am dating a saturn in 7th house person nowI am her first boyfriend, and I wanna do absolutely all i can to not hurt herWhat would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?ail221When someone's saturn lands in my 7th I just feel like they take things too seriously too fast and are far too worried about the outcome of the relationship instead just allowing it to unfold.Doux RêveIt tends to get complicated rather fast, especially if Saturn is challenged natally and/or in the synastry.Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not). quote:Originally posted by Venusincap89:What would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?Don't take it too seriously.Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)GypseeWindI had this with my last boyfriend.It lasted 7 years.We were a couple by the second day of knowing each other. We said we loved one another after the first week.It was very complicated and very serious from the get go, and very very hard to let go of.We would say it's over and go running back to each other, swear to never speak but then back together all in a weeks time.Still after nearly a year apart (we've talked but I have seen him since june) it's still very raw. But it's getting better.I think we will always love each other,But never get back together.Venusincap89 quote:Originally posted by GypseeWind:I had this with my last boyfriend.It lasted 7 years.We were a couple by the second day of knowing each other. We said we loved one another after the first week.It was very complicated and very serious from the get go, and very very hard to let go of.We would say it's over and go running back to each other, swear to never speak but then back together all in a weeks time.Still after nearly a year apart (we've talked but I have seen him since june) it's still very raw. But it's getting better.I think we will always love each other,But never get back together.If you don't mind me asking, can you please tell me why you guys broke up pleaseVenusincap89 quote:Originally posted by Doux Rêve:It tends to get complicated rather fast, especially if Saturn is challenged natally and/or in the synastry.Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not). Don't take it too seriously.Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)Yepp me and my current girlfriend got into a relationship few days after first date. But I was the aggressor though.I did try to become the balancing factor as you have mentioned, but I coulnd't help but to try to... make her comitted in to the relationshipLast time you saw my natal chart, you told me the same thing, but back then I thought that my issue was only with the previous girlughhhh
Anyone has any personal experience or any info to share regarding saturn in 7th house synastry? My natal saturn is also in my 7th house. Is this a karmic indicator?
My interpretation would be that the saturn person teaches the 7th house person something about serious relationships/commitments, and/or is a burden to the house person relationship-wise. Unfortunately some interpretations also state that it prevents a relationship from ever happening, even if two people would like it to happen but apparently angelina jolie and brad pitt has this and they still seem to be going strong!
I think yes it's karmic in this lifetime, we experience set backs and difficulties in one on one relationships because we neglected this in the past and there are lessons we still need to learn usually the hard way. So the way I see it is someone else's Saturn falling in your 7th house just reinforces and draws attention to your own natal issues with Saturn. Maybe your inhibitions about relationships become a self fulfilling prophecy, or maybe these people teach us directly through hurting us or being the ones to help us persevere..
Anyway, I think it's very different than if someone's Saturn falls into a house you have no planets in (or even a different planet really..) but that's just my viewpoint on it
eta: I guess I would say that basically at least at a young age, close relationships with peers won't be necessarily be the easiest or most comfortable... Growing up and even still now I found I got along much much better with people who were a couple years older than me (or younger but more in a mentoring sort of way). My older friends and even parents would always say I'm "so mature for my age" like they couldn't believe I was actually so young, but in my own age group I just felt awkward and out of place. So I know that could be said about any placement, but maybe it's especially true of Saturn in the 7th lol
Then I met this guy, there is something about him, a connection that I can't quite explain. It was an instant connection.Like I know him already, like I was waiting for him. I have NEVER in my entire life felt so strongly about someone and I can tell you I'm pretty freaked out with all this experience, am quite cautious by nature and I don't quite know how to handle all this.
So I was curious, I did a synastry and I was shocked to find his Saturn in my 7th, and the following aspects:
Saturn Conjunction Mercury Saturn Conjunction Venus Saturn Trine Neptune Saturn Sextile Pluto
sun opposition saturn
mercury quincunx saturn
uranus square saturnvertex sextile saturn
midheaven quincunx saturn
Anyone has had to deal with so many saturn aspects?? Please do tell!
We have Sun square Saturn BOTH ways! Her Saturn also squares my Mercury. We also have a wide Saturn conjunct Mars (out of sign though).
The Sun square Saturn is exact both ways. I've loved her since I was 9.
------------------Gemini SunLibra MoonGemini MercuryCancer VenusVirgo MarsVirgo Asc
And yes, I'm a guy!
oh I missed out another aspect:
His saturn ALSO square my moon's north node.
especially when a guy's saturn conjuncts your descendant ( 7th house)?
is descendant and 7th house interchangeable?
Basically there are three entities in a relationship, you me and we. You can't neglect any of the three. They need to be cared for equaly.
What would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?
Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.
Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not).
quote:Originally posted by Venusincap89:What would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?
Don't take it too seriously.Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).
Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)
quote:Originally posted by GypseeWind:I had this with my last boyfriend.It lasted 7 years.We were a couple by the second day of knowing each other. We said we loved one another after the first week.It was very complicated and very serious from the get go, and very very hard to let go of.We would say it's over and go running back to each other, swear to never speak but then back together all in a weeks time.Still after nearly a year apart (we've talked but I have seen him since june) it's still very raw. But it's getting better.I think we will always love each other,But never get back together.
If you don't mind me asking, can you please tell me why you guys broke up please
quote:Originally posted by Doux Rêve:It tends to get complicated rather fast, especially if Saturn is challenged natally and/or in the synastry.Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not). Don't take it too seriously.Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)
Yepp me and my current girlfriend got into a relationship few days after first date. But I was the aggressor though.I did try to become the balancing factor as you have mentioned, but I coulnd't help but to try to... make her comitted in to the relationshipLast time you saw my natal chart, you told me the same thing, but back then I thought that my issue was only with the previous girl
ughhhh
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