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Jessica2407
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posted December 11, 2012 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello,

Anyone has any personal experience or any info to share regarding saturn in 7th house synastry? My natal saturn is also in my 7th house. Is this a karmic indicator?

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cfall614
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posted December 11, 2012 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cfall614     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to know also! It's been super hard trying to find info about it, which is weird considering how important saturn seems to be when linked to planets in synastry.

My interpretation would be that the saturn person teaches the 7th house person something about serious relationships/commitments, and/or is a burden to the house person relationship-wise. Unfortunately some interpretations also state that it prevents a relationship from ever happening, even if two people would like it to happen but apparently angelina jolie and brad pitt has this and they still seem to be going strong!

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posted December 11, 2012 07:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this natally as well. Meaning basically everyone in the same immediate age group will have this synastry with us.

I think yes it's karmic in this lifetime, we experience set backs and difficulties in one on one relationships because we neglected this in the past and there are lessons we still need to learn usually the hard way. So the way I see it is someone else's Saturn falling in your 7th house just reinforces and draws attention to your own natal issues with Saturn. Maybe your inhibitions about relationships become a self fulfilling prophecy, or maybe these people teach us directly through hurting us or being the ones to help us persevere..

Anyway, I think it's very different than if someone's Saturn falls into a house you have no planets in (or even a different planet really..) but that's just my viewpoint on it

eta: I guess I would say that basically at least at a young age, close relationships with peers won't be necessarily be the easiest or most comfortable... Growing up and even still now I found I got along much much better with people who were a couple years older than me (or younger but more in a mentoring sort of way). My older friends and even parents would always say I'm "so mature for my age" like they couldn't believe I was actually so young, but in my own age group I just felt awkward and out of place. So I know that could be said about any placement, but maybe it's especially true of Saturn in the 7th lol

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Jessica2407
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posted December 11, 2012 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is indeed cfall. But it's so cool to see people having the same placement. I have natal saturn, venus, mercury, sun all sitting in my 7th house. It's totally true, have had to deal with so many ''lessons'' with regards to relationships. NOW I see the pain and hurt that I had to go through as something that I NEEDED to see things clearly.

Then I met this guy, there is something about him, a connection that I can't quite explain. It was an instant connection.Like I know him already, like I was waiting for him. I have NEVER in my entire life felt so strongly about someone and I can tell you I'm pretty freaked out with all this experience, am quite cautious by nature and I don't quite know how to handle all this.

So I was curious, I did a synastry and I was shocked to find his Saturn in my 7th, and the following aspects:

Saturn Conjunction Mercury
Saturn Conjunction Venus
Saturn Trine Neptune
Saturn Sextile Pluto

sun opposition saturn

mercury quincunx saturn

uranus square saturn
vertex sextile saturn

midheaven quincunx saturn

Anyone has had to deal with so many saturn aspects?? Please do tell!

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Got Gemini??
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posted December 11, 2012 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^I don't have Saturn 7th house synastry but I do have really strong Saturn synastry with the love of my life.

We have Sun square Saturn BOTH ways! Her Saturn also squares my Mercury. We also have a wide Saturn conjunct Mars (out of sign though).

The Sun square Saturn is exact both ways. I've loved her since I was 9.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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Jessica2407
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posted December 11, 2012 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Got Gemini.

oh I missed out another aspect:


His saturn ALSO square my moon's north node.

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posted June 16, 2013 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for spanishlover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
does this make a serious relationship?

especially when a guy's saturn conjuncts your descendant ( 7th house)?

is descendant and 7th house interchangeable?

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posted February 14, 2015 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 14, 2015 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Saturn in the 7th as does my x husband so we were in each other's 7th. I think we became committed to each other quickly. But also made us stick it out longer than we should have. I mean we had a great relationship, don't get me wrong. But we sort of forgot our own individual objectives which isn't good either. We forgot about the individual. If that makes sense.

Basically there are three entities in a relationship, you me and we. You can't neglect any of the three. They need to be cared for equaly.

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posted February 14, 2015 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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Venusincap89
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posted February 14, 2015 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusincap89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am dating a saturn in 7th house person now
I am her first boyfriend, and I wanna do absolutely all i can to not hurt her

What would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?

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ail221
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posted February 14, 2015 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When someone's saturn lands in my 7th I just feel like they take things too seriously too fast and are far too worried about the outcome of the relationship instead just allowing it to unfold.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It tends to get complicated rather fast, especially if Saturn is challenged natally and/or in the synastry.

Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.

Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not).

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
What would you guys advise for a Saturn in 7th house person who is in her first relationship?

Don't take it too seriously.
Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).

Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)

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posted February 16, 2015 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this with my last boyfriend.
It lasted 7 years.
We were a couple by the second day of knowing each other. We said we loved one another after the first week.
It was very complicated and very serious from the get go, and very very hard to let go of.
We would say it's over and go running back to each other, swear to never speak but then back together all in a weeks time.
Still after nearly a year apart (we've talked but I have seen him since june) it's still very raw. But it's getting better.
I think we will always love each other,
But never get back together.

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posted February 17, 2015 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusincap89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GypseeWind:
I had this with my last boyfriend.
It lasted 7 years.
We were a couple by the second day of knowing each other. We said we loved one another after the first week.
It was very complicated and very serious from the get go, and very very hard to let go of.
We would say it's over and go running back to each other, swear to never speak but then back together all in a weeks time.
Still after nearly a year apart (we've talked but I have seen him since june) it's still very raw. But it's getting better.
I think we will always love each other,
But never get back together.

If you don't mind me asking, can you please tell me why you guys broke up please

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Venusincap89
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posted February 17, 2015 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusincap89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It tends to get complicated rather fast, especially if Saturn is challenged natally and/or in the synastry.

Different expectations, different levels of commitment, clashes in needs, etc.

Can generate a rather heavy feeling of oppression and like you can't be yourself or do what you want to do with/around that person (not necessarily in the beginning though - in the beginning it can act like a strong attraction factor, probably precisely to bring up Saturnian issues in one or both people, so they can become aware of them and then choose to deal with them, or not).

Don't take it too seriously.
Remind her that a relationship isn't a "forever and ever" contract and don't put pressure on her by forcing commitment, but do make it clear that you care about her a lot and want to be only with her, for as long as you both want it (unless she doesn't want to be exclusive, of course).

Always, always remind her (and yourself) that things don't have to be super serious, planned for 100 years ahead and that you don't owe each other anything except for what you both agree on. (If she's anything like a typical Saturnian in relationships, she probably has a strong fear of being trapped/controlled and then mistreated and rejected/abandoned... so try to be a "rock" for her without being smothering. A matter of balance.) You're probably the Saturn person here, so your behavior will either help her deal with her own Saturn more efficiently (by setting a healthy example) or aggravate her Saturnian issues (mentioned above, if you act smothering and/or cold or superior, etc). (Basically the "good" vs. "bad" parent archetype.)


Yepp me and my current girlfriend got into a relationship few days after first date. But I was the aggressor though.
I did try to become the balancing factor as you have mentioned, but I coulnd't help but to try to... make her comitted in to the relationship
Last time you saw my natal chart, you told me the same thing, but back then I thought that my issue was only with the previous girl

ughhhh

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