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T O P I C R E V I E WoutofideasHey everybody!I've known this guy for a few years now and i wonder what you can make out from our charts. We had an attempt at becoming close, but i didn't like him, in fact, there is something repulsive in his personality and physique.But when we get dangerously close i instantaneously feel sexually magnetised to him, even though i still feel repulsed at the same time.He would want us to get together but for the wrong reasons. We don't love each other, and i find his constant sexual demands unhealthy.He comes off as very insensitive, hardly any emotional reactions ever, prefers to be "logical" at all times. I think he is very selfish, as well as validation seeking. Synastry Composite What can you guys pick up from the charts? I would highly appreciate your input, so thanks in advance!FaithSynastryNegative:* You may feel repulsed partly because your moon is square his sun, even though it's a wide square. Also, his Chiron on your moon...that's a very sensitive dynamic. Can set you up for some "hair-trigger" responses.* Your Mars is widely square his moon...not so great.* Your Cap stellium on his Neptune (sun's ruler) could cause him to overreact to you.Positive:* His sun on your north node.* Your Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus (hence the electric connection.)* Your Venus conjunct his Saturn could be binding even though the orb is wide. "Binding" is not necessarily positive, but I didn't want to call it negative, either.CompositePositive:* Sun-Mercury-Venus over the ASC...could be an important, public relationship for both of you...however, the sun is in the 12th house...not SO very public. Perhaps your communication in public is very unusual (Mercury in Aquarius on the ASC) or innovative. Pallas and Jupiter in the 1st house would only enhance this potential to make a strong impression. Pluto squaring the ASC, maybe some hidden things you each feel about philosophy puts a vibe of contention between you that is noticeable.Negative:* I think a lot of what you described with the erratic nature of the feelings is the fault of the composite moon opposing Uranus.* Karma on the MC is curious and makes me wonder how many "coincidental" incidents you two have, that have a karmic feel to them.outofideasHey Faith! Thanks for popping in on this.I have always wanted to know more about the Moon - Chiron conjunction since i have it with someone else as well, only reversed. I did think my Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus is responsible for the crazy "electric" connection. I wonder if his conjunction is also contributing to him being constantly in need for sexual release I found lots of information, here on the forum, that Sun-Venus-Mercury is the ultimate love bond. That's definitely not the case here. To elaborate on your interpretation - we have kept our relationship (which is difficult to define in the first place) private from the rest of the people we mutually know. So this must be how this aspect with the 12th house plays out for us.Karma on the MC - that's definitely an interesting one. I'm not sure what it could mean for us at this point, can you give a few examples of "coincidental" incidents? yungang_grottoI'm getting the sense he's actually somewhat predatory sexually, sorry to hear you're having to deal with it. The cluelessness on his part might have to do with his Neptune on your Sun stellium. He is able to be kinda abusive because he isn't seeing you clearly at all. Might help to have his Sun on your North node; at least there issomething important and engaging for you to learnand experience..Faith is right on about a lot of things including the Chiron-Moon bringing hair trigger responses. He's also getting in the way of your Venus-Jupiter flow with his Saturn and that's probably super frustrating... I think Saturn on Venus can feel predatory in some conditions. outofideasHey grotto, and thanks for the support!It's not as bad as it may seem... he's not a rapist (yet) however, he is quite annoying and can be assertive. He basically needs sex as much as he requires food.I've read that in favour to the North Node's "mission" one should have a partner whose Sun or ASC is conjunct their NN. It doesn't really apply in my case, though We may have experienced "hair trigger" responses on rare occasions, but i don't think that's the most significant aspect of the Moon - Chiron conjunction.I think we can both be frustrating for each other and when there is a lot resistance on my part, he turns colder than he usually is and is only willing to "work" on a problem if he ultimately benefits from it in some personal way.toddwith venus and sun conjunct on the ascendant and pluto square these, you have a classic love/ha5te,pleasure pain emotional dynamic at play.venus/sun show love as a supportive caring and intimate physical/emotional. bond. but pluto square can only add instinctually selfish needs. the sex is purely carnal with no intimacy expected or wanted.so you are caught between the sexual pull. he's a dog and you know it but the sexual power of pluto promises extremely pleasure but with him it will lead to pain also.but with mars conjunct the node he could make you accept anything as the node gives a strong aura and tantric flow to him. usually when this aspect exist the woman is totally enchanted in a emotional/ spiritual manner as well as sexually.Jupiter square the Neptune/Uranus midpoint bodes deception or unexpected changes that preclude previous promises. not a reliable influence.toddoutofideasHey todd, thanks for the reply!You are right, i don't think anyone is actually interested in intimacy, but we are still capable of deceiving each other that we may want it. He does make sexual promises of extreme pleasure that i have very little interest in. Overall selfishness is prominent with a lot of sexual frustration on his side.Your points are funny and accurate, thank god this person repulses me then! quote:Originally posted by todd:Jupiter square the Neptune/Uranus midpoint bodes deception or unexpected changes that preclude previous promises. not a reliable influence.This especially is 100% spot on.
I've known this guy for a few years now and i wonder what you can make out from our charts. We had an attempt at becoming close, but i didn't like him, in fact, there is something repulsive in his personality and physique.But when we get dangerously close i instantaneously feel sexually magnetised to him, even though i still feel repulsed at the same time.
He would want us to get together but for the wrong reasons. We don't love each other, and i find his constant sexual demands unhealthy.
He comes off as very insensitive, hardly any emotional reactions ever, prefers to be "logical" at all times. I think he is very selfish, as well as validation seeking.
Synastry
Composite
What can you guys pick up from the charts? I would highly appreciate your input, so thanks in advance!
Negative:
* You may feel repulsed partly because your moon is square his sun, even though it's a wide square. Also, his Chiron on your moon...that's a very sensitive dynamic. Can set you up for some "hair-trigger" responses.
* Your Mars is widely square his moon...not so great.
* Your Cap stellium on his Neptune (sun's ruler) could cause him to overreact to you.
Positive:
* His sun on your north node.* Your Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus (hence the electric connection.)* Your Venus conjunct his Saturn could be binding even though the orb is wide. "Binding" is not necessarily positive, but I didn't want to call it negative, either.
* Sun-Mercury-Venus over the ASC...could be an important, public relationship for both of you...however, the sun is in the 12th house...not SO very public. Perhaps your communication in public is very unusual (Mercury in Aquarius on the ASC) or innovative. Pallas and Jupiter in the 1st house would only enhance this potential to make a strong impression. Pluto squaring the ASC, maybe some hidden things you each feel about philosophy puts a vibe of contention between you that is noticeable.
* I think a lot of what you described with the erratic nature of the feelings is the fault of the composite moon opposing Uranus.
* Karma on the MC is curious and makes me wonder how many "coincidental" incidents you two have, that have a karmic feel to them.
I have always wanted to know more about the Moon - Chiron conjunction since i have it with someone else as well, only reversed.
I did think my Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus is responsible for the crazy "electric" connection. I wonder if his conjunction is also contributing to him being constantly in need for sexual release
I found lots of information, here on the forum, that Sun-Venus-Mercury is the ultimate love bond. That's definitely not the case here. To elaborate on your interpretation - we have kept our relationship (which is difficult to define in the first place) private from the rest of the people we mutually know. So this must be how this aspect with the 12th house plays out for us.
Karma on the MC - that's definitely an interesting one. I'm not sure what it could mean for us at this point, can you give a few examples of "coincidental" incidents?
Faith is right on about a lot of things including the Chiron-Moon bringing hair trigger responses.
He's also getting in the way of your Venus-Jupiter flow with his Saturn and that's probably super frustrating... I think Saturn on Venus can feel predatory in some conditions.
It's not as bad as it may seem... he's not a rapist (yet) however, he is quite annoying and can be assertive. He basically needs sex as much as he requires food.
I've read that in favour to the North Node's "mission" one should have a partner whose Sun or ASC is conjunct their NN. It doesn't really apply in my case, though
We may have experienced "hair trigger" responses on rare occasions, but i don't think that's the most significant aspect of the Moon - Chiron conjunction.
I think we can both be frustrating for each other and when there is a lot resistance on my part, he turns colder than he usually is and is only willing to "work" on a problem if he ultimately benefits from it in some personal way.
venus/sun show love as a supportive caring and intimate physical/emotional. bond. but pluto square can only add instinctually selfish needs. the sex is purely carnal with no intimacy expected or wanted.so you are caught between the sexual pull. he's a dog and you know it but the sexual power of pluto promises extremely pleasure but with him it will lead to pain also.but with mars conjunct the node he could make you accept anything as the node gives a strong aura and tantric flow to him. usually when this aspect exist the woman is totally enchanted in a emotional/ spiritual manner as well as sexually.Jupiter square the Neptune/Uranus midpoint bodes deception or unexpected changes that preclude previous promises. not a reliable influence.todd
You are right, i don't think anyone is actually interested in intimacy, but we are still capable of deceiving each other that we may want it. He does make sexual promises of extreme pleasure that i have very little interest in. Overall selfishness is prominent with a lot of sexual frustration on his side.
Your points are funny and accurate, thank god this person repulses me then!
quote:Originally posted by todd:Jupiter square the Neptune/Uranus midpoint bodes deception or unexpected changes that preclude previous promises. not a reliable influence.
This especially is 100% spot on.
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