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Dancing Maenad | . |
Aunt Anomalia | Sorry but I don't think anyone can or should tell you if it's worth continuing even if you post 100 charts. We hardly know anything about your actual relationship and your connection is fresh. You have to decide whether you can take this risk or not. What do you suspect to be behind your issue? Your 2nd house overlays and contacts to these planets? It's possible. Could he be more careless with money than you with his Uranus in the 2nd? With your Saturn and Pluto (square his Jupiter) in his 2nd I can see you try to "correct" him. Those t-squares in your midpoint charts...ouch. ------------------ The first psychic femdroid on the market. |
Dancing Maenad | No, obviously not. Maybe I shouldn't have posted at all. |
athenaia | *Edited out synastry aspects* Truly though, the first few months of any relationship should be the best with little snags. Snippiness and arguments will always be present the further a relationship progresses, but when they occur so early on it's typically symbolic of some incompatibility that will make itself more known with time. You shouldn't hang on to a relationship just because you hate dating.. who doesn't hate dating?! It sucks. But if you force yourself to dredge on with this, you could be missing out on someone way more compatible with you just simply because of fear. I also agree with the incomparable Auntie A too of course. Only you know the right decision to make. He is also going through health issues right now too, and I'm sure emotions are riding high for him right now in a way that has ripple effects on your relationship. I bet that it has little to do with you as a partner and more about his own internal struggles. |
Aunt Anomalia | But that doesn't mean we can't analyze your charts and arrive at some conclusions. Deleting them was unnecessary. *gets back in the role* ------------------ The first psychic femdroid on the market. |
LeeLoo2014 | Nah, you'll make up, DM, those charts can't be broken easily. |
yungang_grotto | **shouldn't have referenced aspects maybe? Ethical edit. Difficulties arise at different points for different people/couples and sometimes this reflects things that simply need to be addressed for intimacy to deepen..
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Dancing Maenad | It's fine, I didn't want to post anyway. I was hurt and sought solace. I'll be fine. Thank you for answering! It is appreciated! |
Aunt Anomalia | I hope you didn't backtrack because of me. I'm not happy to have been right in this case, really. ------------------ The first psychic femdroid on the market. |
Ceridwen | Mae, I saw your charts only shortly, and have not memorized them, but you didn`t want us to anyway. From what I remember there were some very romantic sweet and passionate aspects. Obviously you hit a rough patch right now, I don`t know how serious that issue is, but it could also be a chance to have it come up so early in your relationship, so you can figure out right away if that is a deal-breaker for you or something that can be worked on. It depends a little how important that issue is for either of you and how it weighs against the other sides of your relationship. I would advise though to not make a hasty or impulsive decision (we are still in the aftermath of the solar ecclipse, a Super Moon this time, and things do seem just so much more dramatic and bigger and major at these junctures in time. Usually it is best to give it some time and then readdress those issues and see if they stay as big and major or maybe have gotten miraculously smaller, which I often experienced myself, not sure if it is the sam efor you). But ultimately you will have to sit down with HIM and you two have to figure it out. I do keep my fingers crossed that it works out for you though.
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Dancing Maenad | quote: Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia: I hope you didn't backtrack because of me. I'm not happy to have been right in this case, really.
I know you have my back and only want the best for me, Severus. Though you could use a little sensitivity now and then. |
Dancing Maenad | Ceri, good call on the eclipse! Ugh completely forgot about that one! Happened on his Mars, DC ruler, also on our composite IC and Juno (mid-way between the two). Sextile my own Venus. It was an ugly fight. We both thought about ending the relationship. Indeed, it seemed very dramatic at the time. Some hurtful things were said. I have to remember this relationship is very Moon-centered (4 Bear hugs involving the Moon, Moon apex of our composite/Davison T-squares) and a lot of sensitivity is required. I said some hurtful things. He did too. It's one of those relationships that itches old wounds. That's all I'm gonna say about it! |
Dancing Maenad | You don't have to edit the aspects, guys. The reason why I don't want to share is because I don't want to focus too much on the astrology and make decisions based on it. And I went completely against that when I posted, because I was hurt and at the end of my wits. I regretted it and decided to erase it all. We don't have Venus conjunct Chiron though. |