I had a strange relationship decades ago in which the girl's Venus and Mars aspected my Ascendant in the same manner as you describe. The planets were different, however. Details from that affair would no doubt put you to sleep. In a sentence, poor timing and lousy communications characterized the relationship.
What might be of greater interest and value to you would be the information pertaining to the Venus Sag/Mars Virgo natal combo given in the book, Star Signs for Lovers, by Robert Worth.
Because you're obviously interested in romantic encounters, I suggest you either buy a copy of this book or look for it at libraries.
Briefly, your Mixed Signal guy rates a "D" in Romance, Love and Passion. According to author Worth, you're going to need at least a "B", but preferably an "A" rating yourself to deal with him.
A direct quotation from the book: "You CAN get hurt. This combination (D) is unstable. Play this one short term."
I've checked out many relationships and marriages with the Worth criteria. They usually match very well what the author has written.
Needless to say, make sure you've got Mars and Venus correct for your case before going any further.