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manderin
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posted September 22, 2017 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just met someone who has Natal Virgo Mars square Sag Venus. And their mars is directly conjunct my ascendant! Yaaay! Which of course means their Venus is directly square my ascendant. Boooo!

So I imagine this combination may cause mixed signals in love. Perhaps he doesn't like my looks (Venus square my Asc), but he wants to sex me up anyway (Mars conj My Asc).

Any experiences with these types of mixed signals in synastry?

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GrandFireT
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posted September 22, 2017 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a strange relationship decades ago in which the girl's Venus and Mars aspected my Ascendant in the same manner as you describe. The planets were different, however.

Details from that affair would no doubt put you to sleep. In a sentence, poor timing and lousy communications characterized the relationship.

What might be of greater interest and value to you would be the information pertaining to the Venus Sag/Mars Virgo natal combo given in the book, Star Signs for Lovers, by Robert Worth.

Because you're obviously interested in romantic encounters, I suggest you either buy a copy of this book or look for it at libraries.

Briefly, your Mixed Signal guy rates a "D" in Romance, Love and Passion. According to author Worth, you're going to need at least a "B", but preferably an "A" rating yourself to deal with him.

A direct quotation from the book: "You CAN get hurt. This combination (D) is unstable. Play this one short term."

I've checked out many relationships and marriages with the Worth criteria. They usually match very well what the author has written.

Needless to say, make sure you've got Mars and Venus correct for your case before going any further.

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racole12
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posted September 22, 2017 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wrong post...

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manderin
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posted September 23, 2017 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh I don't know about ratings. My Mars is in Gemini and My Venus is in Cancer so I'm probably not an A rating either.

I would say poor timing really characterizes my relationship as well. Some sites say that Venus square Ascendant can attribute to this.

My issue is I catch him staring at me with an intense look- like he either wants to rip my head off OR he's trying to get my attention. I can't tell which. I really don't know what his deal is.

All my planets aspect his mars in a positive way. No hard aspects there. So I don't know if he would be angry with me. His Venus I barely touch however.

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GrandFireT
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posted September 24, 2017 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I really don't know what his deal is."

Have you considered asking him?

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manderin
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posted September 25, 2017 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GrandFireT:
"I really don't know what his deal is."

Have you considered asking him?


No because he might then rip my head off.

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GrandFireT
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posted September 25, 2017 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope this isn't one of those screwy stories from The New Yorker.

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manderin
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posted September 25, 2017 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ha ha. No I'm not really interested in him. I"m really more interested in the astrology of it as I'm sure this happens sometimes to people with that natal aspect.

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GrandFireT
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posted September 25, 2017 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glad to hear that. if you read what Worth has to say about your subject's Venus/Mars combo you would probably avoid him like the plague.

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posted October 02, 2017 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 10, 2017 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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