Hello everyone! Thanks for all your responses. I apologize for not getting back to this earlier; I've had a compromised internet situation until recently and haven't had this issue on my mind nearly as much as late.Thanks, Beautiful_Light, for the welcome. I do feel very much emotionally on the same wavelength as this woman, which could perhaps be attributed to our moony connection. It turns out displaying an image through ubb code requires that the url begins with http only, even if the actual url begins with https.
Thanks, Randall, for the welcome, and for approving my registration. It's really cool to see this forum still running with it's dedicated community.
I appreciate your insight, mereiposa. I never really got into understanding houses very well in astrology, probably particularly in synastry since I was often using it to speculate on my romantic potential with acquaintances who's birthtimes I never asked... hahaha And this whole... pattern following thing with rulers I find really fascinating, but it remains yet unlearned by me. I also don't know what kind of orb to necessarily take seriously when regarding Chiron. I guess the trine between her Chiron and my Pluto can't be too bad, but I tend to have difficulty putting too much stock in outer planet placements, particularly when their placement mirrors my own since we're close enough in age.
Thanks for the input, Iridia. That's an interesting point, and again, something I wouldn't consider since following these house leader patterns is something very much beyond the scope of my understanding. I wonder what exactly the connotation of that influence would be, in your interpretation. (Sorry for my ignorance.)
Thanks for joining the discussion, SunAscendant. It's actually her own Mars that is square her own Ascendant. I guess my Mars could be considered sextile her Ascendant, though, if that bears any significance. I appreciate you mentioning the semisextile, since this is something that I hadn't really covered when I was into astrology. I wouldn't have been able to say whether it was good or bad on my own.
By the way, I've done a synastry with the asteroids that I did, only because I guess they were kind of hotness back when I used to use this site. It seems like people are including a lot of other asteroids that weren't often commonly considered by the community that I engaged with back then, so I'd be interested in hearing any feedback about what you kind souls would consider relevant for a question like this, and I'd be happy to post another chart.
Composite charts in particular seem to be really popular on these forums it seems. It's not something that I never really covered back when I was nose deep in astrology, but giving ours a cursory glance, Venus conjunct Dsc. sextile Saturn pops out as something that's probably a good sign, right? Again, let me know what asteroids I should or shouldn't include in a composite chart, and I'll happily post one. (I'd really love, by the way, if there was a was to have like... spoiler buttons, that you could click and then have content drop down. I could see that making some very clean but comprehensive chart collections in forum posts.)
On the original impetus of posting this thread, I'm interested to hear what anyone has to say specifically about the ramifications of having an unaspected Venus in synastry, or any planet for that matter. (The object of my affection is quite an idealist, something on which we positively relate, but again glancing at her lone Jupiter instils some worry) My rudimentary, probably not at all representative of what's actually commonly accepted - understanding, is that an unaspected placement would drive the native to seek resonance with another synastry partner, and depending on the placement that may be totally fine or welcomed for the kind of relationship sought.
This girl has recently come out of a long term relationship, (nearly 5 years) and is as such determined to act cautiously in these territories, but has nonetheless found some really compelling romantic (or what is mutually interpreted as romantic) resonance with me. At the outset of this thread, I was somewhat concerned that there may be some... rebound energy partially responsible for bringing us together, and was seeking counsel on whether our stars favour something long term between us. I'm less concerned about that now, but I'm still perfectly capable of being my own fool, so I'm totally open to any insights you can share.