This is the synastry and composite of my ten year relationship. It ended 3.5 years ago. We were married for 2.5 of those 10 years. I have been looking at the charts today and was surprised to see:No nodal conjunctions
Venus sq Saturn DW (if we include semi square)
There’s probably more I have missed.
We loved each other dearly, were best friends and had each others back however it was a bit of a roller coaster. Mood swings. He was angry at the world. I copped a lot of it. But when we were good we were oh so good. Joy, laughter, silliness. We were like two peas in a pod. But then when the moodiness hit, the criticisms, emotional put downs it was tough. Even though I still find myself missing him and thinking of him often. But I know it couldn’t have worked. It’s a shame but I knew it had had its time.
I just wanted to post this to say that even with those supposedly doomed aspects like Venus square Saturn, relationships can still work. Even if it’s just for a decade. I don’t regret what we had.
His natal
My natal
Synastry
Composite