Hi Todd!Thanks for your interpretation. This is a domestic violence relationship. Him, my friend being on the receiving end.
She started out as being 95% awesome and 5% crazy now she is more 95% crazy and 5% awesome.
I haven't seen or heard from him in a while, so when he called late one Saturday night and he told me I could come over, I did the late night drive to his house. He was drunk and finally split the beans on the relationship to me!
He told me how she started an argument with him, she he was standing up, she went right over up to his face, put her nose next to his, then started to punch him repeatedly in the face, he just stood there and took her punches! He then went up stairs and grabbed his 5 year old son and put him in the car, then went and grabbed his 3 year old girl, as he was trying to leave carrying her, both kids were asleep, she was still punching him repeatedly in the face, he was trying to block her punches from him and his daughters faces. He had photos of himself afterwards, shirt torn and blood pouring from his face.
He went to the Police station to file a report and told officers he didnt want to press charges, however they informed him that they have to press charges on all DV cases.
I hadn't seen him for so long as she forbid him to have contact with me. A lot of people seem to struggle how 2 heterosexual people and have a platonic friendship but we do.
My friend couch surfed his mates houses for 5 weeks and would make out to his kids it was a game!
Then when his boy turned 6, his son and daughter were sitting at the little table with her 7 year old child to open his birthday present, she came down the stairs telling her daughter to move away from the f u c k ing feral family, her daughter looked at my friend and didn't know what to do. She calls him Dad, and she seemed to have a more stable relationship with him than with her own mother.
She has since moved out. Thank goodness!!
He has been nothing by loving an loyal to her, he wanted to marry her and spend his life with her, but she was the one that had all the issues, which in turn he now understands that there is no way to save the relationship.
All his best mates are begging him to leave her. He calls them in the middle of the night crying.
She text him things like who she just had sex with then would text him horrible comments about his physically appearance then the next day asking if he still wants to marry her.
She then uses her daugther to pull him back in again.
Her daughter is going to suffer int he future but he is aware he needs to end it with her to save his own kids from her abuse.
There are more horrible stories but you get the gist.
We now know the real reason why her daughters father is really not around now.
He is really affected by her abuse but he finds it hard to let her go, even though he knows there is no future for him with her.
I wanted to see if you could pick up on any violence in this relationship, but I sure hope you are right it will come to a close in March next year!