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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted November 04, 2018 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the composite of a friend of mine with their partner. I would like to know your thoughts on this relationship. I will give you the story afterwards..

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hypatia238
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posted November 04, 2018 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post Davison and synastry with the bottom part too like you did with composite. Thanks!

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posted November 05, 2018 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heres the Synastry:

And Davison:

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posted November 06, 2018 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bumping for later, will look at it tonight.

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posted November 08, 2018 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will get to it this weekend, its been a very busy week.

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posted November 08, 2018 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Hypatia.

Where did Todd go?

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posted November 12, 2018 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump for todd.

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posted November 17, 2018 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted November 20, 2018 04:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted November 23, 2018 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi TaurusVenusGirl

this composite srikes me as totally sexual, at least on his part....mars conjunct to pluto with mars opposed to Eris and pluto opposed to psyche , is really carnal with pvertoes of S/M.

Saturn square to Jupiter often shows problems with consolidating serious relationships .

mars sextile to venus does give a comfortable affection, though venus conjunct Neptune can be as sign of seeing what one whats instead of what is there.


the sun/moon midpoint conjunct toeros andt square to he node and opposed to the pluto/orcus midpoint which really gives a darkness here.lots of control and domination issues. the darkness will always outweigh the light. with eros opposed to orcus/sun the S?M quailty is very strong.

the sun/venus midpoint square to the eros/psyche midpoint does give a vibrant idealism to their affection and the sun/,merury conjunction trine to chiron gives a clarity and interest in other thoughts and ideas.this clarity of thoughts is accentuated by the moon/vertex/Sedna stellium opposed to Uranus. tis give volatile emotions and a premium is placed on truth between them . this could sow arguments though their mids bybe harmoniously linked and therefore the acceptance of their difference in opinions may keep the relationship harmonious.

sun/mercury opposed to juno certainly shows she is interested in a commitment but satrun square mars implies he is hesitant about longterm issues .

the moon/satrun midpointopposed to venus andneptune does give fidelity but the chiron/orcus midpoint is also conjunct thesatrun/moon midpoint which again tends to shows a restrictive emotiona lnatrue fostered by him.
with nessus and dejaniera midpoint conjunct to juno, it would seem these domineering energies are part of the relationship. it may be that she has had a restrictive family life or in some way accepts these emotional restrictions on her.

the transiting node has gone through a square to moon/vertex- Uranus opposition. this could imply rocky times right now and next month
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i think the tensions of last month are continuing and the coldness between them will increase. these tensions seem irreconcilable and the relationship will end in march 2019.the node will be conjunct to orcus and square to chiron then .this transit usually shows an ending of a relationship

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posted November 24, 2018 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Todd!

Thanks for your interpretation. This is a domestic violence relationship. Him, my friend being on the receiving end.

She started out as being 95% awesome and 5% crazy now she is more 95% crazy and 5% awesome.

I haven't seen or heard from him in a while, so when he called late one Saturday night and he told me I could come over, I did the late night drive to his house. He was drunk and finally split the beans on the relationship to me!

He told me how she started an argument with him, she he was standing up, she went right over up to his face, put her nose next to his, then started to punch him repeatedly in the face, he just stood there and took her punches! He then went up stairs and grabbed his 5 year old son and put him in the car, then went and grabbed his 3 year old girl, as he was trying to leave carrying her, both kids were asleep, she was still punching him repeatedly in the face, he was trying to block her punches from him and his daughters faces. He had photos of himself afterwards, shirt torn and blood pouring from his face.

He went to the Police station to file a report and told officers he didnt want to press charges, however they informed him that they have to press charges on all DV cases.

I hadn't seen him for so long as she forbid him to have contact with me. A lot of people seem to struggle how 2 heterosexual people and have a platonic friendship but we do.

My friend couch surfed his mates houses for 5 weeks and would make out to his kids it was a game!

Then when his boy turned 6, his son and daughter were sitting at the little table with her 7 year old child to open his birthday present, she came down the stairs telling her daughter to move away from the f u c k ing feral family, her daughter looked at my friend and didn't know what to do. She calls him Dad, and she seemed to have a more stable relationship with him than with her own mother.

She has since moved out. Thank goodness!!

He has been nothing by loving an loyal to her, he wanted to marry her and spend his life with her, but she was the one that had all the issues, which in turn he now understands that there is no way to save the relationship.

All his best mates are begging him to leave her. He calls them in the middle of the night crying.

She text him things like who she just had sex with then would text him horrible comments about his physically appearance then the next day asking if he still wants to marry her.

She then uses her daugther to pull him back in again.

Her daughter is going to suffer int he future but he is aware he needs to end it with her to save his own kids from her abuse.

There are more horrible stories but you get the gist.

We now know the real reason why her daughters father is really not around now.

He is really affected by her abuse but he finds it hard to let her go, even though he knows there is no future for him with her.

I wanted to see if you could pick up on any violence in this relationship, but I sure hope you are right it will come to a close in March next year!

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posted November 24, 2018 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just got off the phone from him. He told me how he spent a few hours with the police this week and they begged him to press charges as they had 6 on her at that point, but he just couldn't do it.

He told me if he didn't have his kids with him tonight he would have killed himself.

That's how much of a negative influence she has on him. More violent than BDSM.

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posted November 24, 2018 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I just got off the phone from him. He told me how he spent a few hours with the police this week and they begged him to press charges as they had 6 on her at that point, but he just couldn't do it.

He told me if he didn't have his kids with him tonight he would have killed himself.

That's how much of a negative influence she has on him. More violent than BDSM.


interesting.... moon opposed to uranus could mark hr as a crazy.....was she the instigator of this relatioship???? that would make sense since she is the one showing the violent tendecies.
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posted November 24, 2018 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No. He chased her and she reciprocated. They got set up on a blind date.

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posted November 27, 2018 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted June 30, 2019 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Todd

My friend and I have been waiting for March, she is still abusing him. Today my friend decided he had to go to the police station to press charges on her and get a apprehended violence order against her.

He is stressed and feels bad as she will be formally charged and will have it on her police record for life and affect her future employment prospects.

He needs to do it as she is now affecting his income.

Can you see anything that this AVO will finally get her out of his life?

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posted June 30, 2019 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow so this ended up been a interpersonal violence case?

I mean if you look a the davison sadly there is mars conjunct jupiter and chiron opposite moon conjunct uranus forming a tsquare with Saturn. I mean their mars is getting hit by chiron, saturn, jupiter, uranus and the moon! So I can see how that could manifest in a negative way, their mars is highly afflicted.

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posted July 13, 2019 02:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was waiting to get a more in-depth reply from my friend before I posted but he is a man who uses few words and grunts.

He has an avo out on her. The police called her and also told her that if she breaks the avo they will press charges. She told the police she will stay away from him but he needs to stop contacting her too an her family.

Which he doesn't anyway.

7 hours later she's contacts him. Even the avo couldn't keep her away, he emailed the police officer who he is dealing with, however he was off from work.

I haven't heard anything back.

But yes it was violence on her side.

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