I have heavy 12th house synastry with someone.. Its both good and bad.. Like Ami said its very deep and personal.. It hits a spot in you that is unexplainable.. What I have discovered, is that the house person gets hit hard in the back yard.. So to speak... this is someone that sneaks into you and uncovers yourself.... You see your self differently... The planet person can bring out your deep fears,and see through you, like no other...
You can try anything to hide yourself, but it wont work.. or does it?? (shrug) There is so level of confusion going on..
I think it depends on what you have locked up inside you, what ever that is it will be brought out into the open with your interaction with each other..
Thats pretty darn scary.. Some people can not handle it.. Its easier to get away from some one, then it is to deal with your true inner self..
Your secret door has now be opened.. Do you choose to close the door, or walk in with eyes wide open??
For me, what I had locked up, was my emotions.. Ive never truly dealt with emotions.. Ive just shrugged them off and moved on. Never looking back...
Let me tell you did I get a good kick in the azz.. My emotions were brought out like a rain storm..
In the beginning.. even speaking to sent me into an emotional spiral.. My head was spinning.. I truly had no clue what I was feeling..
My hormones went crazy, and I was out of balance for 8 months..
Anyways.. Also some things are still hidden.. My Venus is in his 12th and I care for him sooo much, but I would NEVER admit it or tell him.. Even if he asked me, I would deny deny deny..
Why OMG the fear of rejection is so deep and internal... It would just literally destroy me.... So I keep it to myself.. Never showing him, never saying it.. never admitting it..
Also his Mars is in my 12th.. Sneaky little thing has done things behind my back..
He created a fake FB acct, and requested me as a friend.. Only I didnt fall for it.. I denied it, saying.. IDK who this is.. lol
He goes through my desk at work.. I have no clue what he's looking for...
Thats what I have found out.. No clue what he's done, that I havent found out...