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Originally posted by awakemer:
I want to know if i made the right decision of cutting my best friend off.. he did some things that were not right IMO and he thinks i'm wrong to cutt him off. i'm having some last moments guilt. thank you
Perfect it's more in what I can try answer
I totally inderstand your second thought about the cutting-off of your friend. I feel it. It's very rare that I cut off in two a question asked by someone so I take as a sign. It would be an easy answer.
I divided the reading in two questions :
1) have you been right to cut him off ?
2) Is a reconciliation a positive thing for you ?
For the first question I pick up the 6 of batons, the lover and 5 of baton reversed. When I saw the first card, I think immedialtely that you had a really good friendship so is there really a reason for ending it. And then the lover which is not really the card of love here but of the choice which mean it could go either way : bad or good. And the last card give us the answer : a bad one. I don't speak about you and you choice of ending your friendship. But about the choice of your friend. This choice od his was like betraying you, it's very clear and it was hurtful. I even feel like that maybe on some level you feel like you could bear part of the responsability of his action even if you were not at all responsible.
So is there was reason to cut him off ? yes
In the future, will it still be the case or could you form again your friendship like before ?
For this question, a card directly jump in my hand the 8 of swords reversed. You shouldn't be worried or having second guess about your decision. The more you will think about it, the more you will feel bad and it's not you who should feel like that.
It's not a good card.
Still I pick 3 cards for you to know if it's good for you to came back to him : the world reversed, the 10 of cups reversed and the strengt reverted.
You have to move on from this friendship. It's an opportunity to have aa new circle of friends. Moreover you won't be able to regain the same friendship you had before. it will be small in comparaison. And finally a return of your decision could weaken you in your own eyes.
Of course, there is always free will and maybe overtime you will have social exchange but there was a reason for the cuting off and even I didn't see any real positive reason for you to take him back.
I hope it helps and it won't confuse you more I wish you a lots of good friends you can trust.
On my part, I would like a love reading about my ex F (he is married but we never was lovers) with whom we don't speak for some weeks now. I would like to know what kind of future or feelings I can expect with him and what is the state of his relationship with Q his wife ?
Thank you very much