Hello Astro keen,What do you mean to him?
Queen of Swords: He admires you, you are attractive to him - though he either thinks you are a little dry, or alternatively he can feel a bit dry towards you. He wonders if you were around each other more than he might find he has to be too civil - more than he would like - and the relating - though pleasing - could become mundane and almost businesslike and a tad too serious. Distance is colouring the situation.
Seven of Swords: He thinks he should sometimes ask you to get involved in his life more - you actually could be what he needs on many fronts he thinks - you manage your life so well, maybe you could help him improve his - he thinks. He also wonders if more time with you could bring hidden pluses, like a better and rewarding intimacy, or maybe security/financial benefits, or maybe just good standards of living - under your stewardship, and his keeping up the civility.
Queen of Wands: He likes many of your bright ways, you merge with other attractions though, he has a wandering gaze. He sometimes doesn't really know you or know you much. He seems confused and can think you look and are different to what you are. He has fantasies that he hopes are you - but I would have to say they are general fantasies of his that he hopes could be pinned to you. He has a fickle, flighty attention. Superficial things can lead him astray.
Overall, the distance and the very little opportunity to be around you tangibly is a big part of this though the involvemnent keeps ticking along. He doesn't have a very clear perspective of you - and tends to think you might be a bit mundane or lovely but too upright - but he keeps things alight in case you are more.
Advice for you regarding him:
Ace of Cups: (Compassion is coming slamming up at me for you) You are really putting your heart and soul into this to excess - though it is to your credit too.
The Moon: You aren't quite being honest with the situation fully from your own part - but you may not realize this. You want to use his status or what he represents to take revenge on the naysayers, or others in your life that you feel have passed judgement on you. You are kind though, you don't need to crucify yourself for the sake of this. Be careful what you wish for is a definite theme - Beware! You might get more than you bargained for.
Five of Pentacles: You need to watch your savings, do you really want to put all your eggs into one basket for this - hmm, might not be a good idea. Maybe each of you, will get a bit wobbly if you are living on beans for the sake of maintaining the relationship.
Seven of Cups: Take some time to reflect, visualise, and develop your inner sight, your inner strength etc. You have to build up your bravery and face some of your true goals again - some of the things you would value to achieve or realize. You have to take the time to consider your goals, options, choices.
Overall, it might work out, or it might not. Do you want to stake everything on it? Will it be worth it if it doesn't work out - what then? Alternatively, if it does work out, even if quite well, it might very well be the relationship at the expense of many other things. There are choices to be made - I think initally the guy wouldn't be disappointed by you if you were to get in closer proximity - however, without enough fuelling of his fantasies, the platonic enjoyment as well as the appreciation of your intimacy, may pale, he has a strong drive for either someone younger, kind of dumber, and operating like a sexy barbie doll or if he is to stick with someone around his own age, he could like someone a bit coarser, uninhibited, almost vulgar.
On the surface of it, the civil and good behaviour that he would feel he might have to operate with to seem decent could make him feel cranky, dull, and weary, and possibly inclined to look further afield.
Your soulmate spread:
What is your soulmate like:
Temperance - A Sagittarian, or maybe someone from a different culture. Possibly brings some kind of cultural/religious/philosophical experiences to you.
In what situation will you meet your soulmate:
Seven of Pentacles - Perhaps a portfolio/project/itinery may be part of the agenda, perhaps a professional/lifestyle choice on your part could involve or lead you to meeting up. Planning is part of it either your preparation or being part of an itinery or a program. You may be investing, or purchasing which could involve lifestyle choices.
When will you meet your soulmate:
Tower - (I have no idea) maybe in an elevator, or on a day with potential lightning strikes. You may travel by some kind of cable car and either meet on it or the elevator/escalator, or somehow it is significant. It maybe in the first few days of a new job, or a change in your life involving career, or some kind of inspirational work. Perhaps you could skype one another. It may also be a time of changing residence - probably an irreversible change is wrapped up within the time of meeting.
Advice:
Four of Wands - Perhaps a vacation or maybe buying another home, is on the cards. You could end up in marriage.
Generally, I think its possible your bf is the soulmate. The best laid plans of mice and men come to mind and I think you will follow your heart, as you really have your heart pegged on this guy for better or worse. Coupled with the other advice spread on the bf in this reply to you, I would say, no one can sway you, you will probably see it out so as to see for yourself what will be. I think you have the inner reserves to cope with come what may - good for you, you will decide and find out for yourself.